Question to all married women

[miss resilient]

Secured ba kayo sa pagmamahal ng husbands ninyo?

what i'm saying is: secured ba kayo na mahal na mahal kayo ng inyu inyong husbands?

Yan ang tinanong ko sa isa kong ka church na medyo may konting problem sa husband niya.

[iluvmysoldier]

sabi nila sa isang relationship daw, meron talagang isa na mas greater ang love. hindi daw kasi pwedeng pantay.
sa amin ni hubby, nung first year pa lang namin as bf/gf i admit na ako ang mas in love. ako yung mas nagbibigay at mas umiintindi sa relationship. pero ngayon na married na kami at marami na kaming pinagdaanan, i can say na si hubby mas mahal ako ngayon. kaya kahit bwan ang bilangin bago kami magkita eh hindi naman ako nagwoworry.

[peenitokss]

newly wed lang ako. more than a month pa lang. i feel secured naman sa love ng husband ko. Wala pa naman kami matinding pinagdaanan as married couple. pero as bf/gf we've been through a lot.

[binggay]

Making a marriage work is a commitment from both sides -- because temptations are always around the corner.

That's why it is important na makilala ng mabuti ang mapapangasawa. Hindi ka magiging secure sa marriage mo kung hindi mo totoong kilala ang pag-uugali ng asawa mo (or kilala mo, pero di mo tanggap, like if maloko at mahilig mambabae).

I've been happily married for 10 years, and I got married when I was only 20. So yes, sinwerte ako (actually kaming dalawa pala) na kami ang nagkatuluyan. Because we were married too young, too fast (only a year and a half after we started our relationship). Hindi lahat ng kilala kong ganyan kaaga nag-asawa naging successful ang marriage. Palagi kong pinagpapasalamat kay Lord yan.

[smiley327]

yes. very much secured 

we've been married for 15 yrs and i can say na talagang naprove nya sa akin na sobrang mahal nya ako. im so thankful talaga.

[dimplesgon]

Yes, I know that he loves me so much.

Got married at age 24
We've been married for 17 years already.

And I am proud to say, we are happily married binded by love and trust to each other

[peenitokss]

bigla naman ako nahiya. lahat kayo mga sissies married for more than a decade na. tapos ako newly wed pa lang lakas ng loob ko sabihin secured hehe..

[smiley327]

^that's okay sis  mabuti nga yan as early as now you feel secured.

[marose17]

Yes.  My husband and I have been married for 7 years.  While no marriage is perfect, ours is stable, harmonious and relatively drama-free.   He is faithful so I have no reason to be insecure.

[iluvmysoldier]

bigla naman ako nahiya. lahat kayo mga sissies married for more than a decade na. tapos ako newly wed pa lang lakas ng loob ko sabihin secured hehe..

hindi naman yan sa tagal sis, nasa inyong dalawa talaga yan kung pano niyo pangangalagaan ang relationship.

[TysLolakins]

very very very secured!!! 
not once in our relationship that i doubted his love for me and we've been together for 35 years (since dating).
ours is not plague by infidelity or any kind of abuse (thank God for that).  since the day we met, i've always felt that he really really liked me and cared for me.  i maybe the one who had wavered a little bit after a couple of years into the relationship, that i actually broke up with him bec i wasn't feeling it anymore.  but just like the saying goes, you only know the value of something if you don't have it anymore, so we got back together thru my doing (of course).

[ayami]

hindi. hindi talaga. fake ko na lang pag sinabi kong oo.

minsan siguro pag sinagot ko tong tanong na to at oo sinabi ko, ibig sabihin wala ako sa sarili.

duda pa rin ako sa kanya. idea ko kasi ang lalaking ito matagal pa magmamature.

tsaka walang kasiguraduhan sa mga katulad kong maagang nag-asawa. andami kong kilala na may failed marriages or may mistresses along the way.

maraming pwedeng mangyari at open ako sa possibility.

base rin sa history ng relationship namin, palagi akong nakabantay, nagmamasid. at sa pagkakakilala ko sa kanya, madali syang magwaver. easily influenced. etc.

na-internalize ko na rin in the event na lokohin nya ko nang bongga. prepped na ang brain ko.

isang shot lang ibibigay ko sa marriage at sure na ko sa kahihinatnan ko if it fails. no regrets. mahirap ibalik ang tiwala ko. hanggang ngayon, di pa nya na-earn.

[stylishmomy]

Making a marriage work is a commitment from both sides -- because temptations are always around the corner.

That's why it is important na makilala ng mabuti ang mapapangasawa. Hindi ka magiging secure sa marriage mo kung hindi mo totoong kilala ang pag-uugali ng asawa mo (or kilala mo, pero di mo tanggap, like if maloko at mahilig mambabae).

I've been happily married for 10 years, and I got married when I was only 20. So yes, sinwerte ako (actually kaming dalawa pala) na kami ang nagkatuluyan. Because we were married too young, too fast (only a year and a half after we started our relationship). Hindi lahat ng kilala kong ganyan kaaga nag-asawa naging successful ang marriage. Palagi kong pinagpapasalamat kay Lord yan.

Same here sis, got married at that age and were going for our 10th year anniversary not everyone who married that early had successful marriages. I can say that I am very secure of my husband's love for me. For all the years that we have been together, he has never changed, ganun parin ka sweet and loving,  I feel truly blessed that I've met my soulmate

[mrs.S.]

Yes i am, we we've been married for 6 years now. But before that we dated for almost 7 years. We did go through a lot of things na but even may tampuhan big or small at the end of the day we try to work it out.

[glamorosa_09]

My hubby speaks my love languages, quality time and acts of service, kaya my answer is yes I am secured.

But if he showered me with gifts and does not communicate my love language, I will just know in my MIND that he loves me and won't feel it in my HEART.

Add to that, he is considerate of my feelings and concerns and he listens to me.

[ishopnowfeelguiltylater]

ika nga ng isang friend ko, there's no way of knowing. hehe

para sakin naman it is a daily challenge to stay in love with one another. so I'll leave it at that.

ayoko magsabi today na oo secured ako baka majinx. hehe

[peenitokss]

^^sis OT itong tanong ko pero i want to know din kasi. How will you know one's language of love ba?

[wengerts]

^ dito sis may assessment. take it with your hubby para magkaalaman

[peenitokss]

sis wengerts thanks

[kaiz]

i am secured but unhappy.