Does "next time" mean "never"?

[Gambit_loves_Rogue]

Pag ba nakausap mo ang guy sa phone tapos sabi niya after some time na may gagawin pa siya so next time na lang kayo mag usap, does it mean"never"?

[janix athena]

It could mean "never": his way of ending the conversation and getting rid of you, or pwedeng busy lang talaga sya. So in this case wag ka na lang over-analyze sis. If he calls again, fine. If not, keri lang. Keep yourself busy para di ka masyado analyze ng actions nya. Nakaka-windang pag ganyan. It's like he's got you wrapped around his fingers.

[Gambit_loves_Rogue]

^ok, thanks. 

[ButHonestly]

Or it could mean, "next time na when I dont NEED to attend to my girlfriend, her needs and her moods, ha?"

[Gambit_loves_Rogue]

^Sorry, he doesn't have a girlfriend, haha. Nice try though. 

[John Snow]

baka naman kasi busy lang talaga. ganun din naman sinasabi ko na next time na lang kasi busy o may gagawin talaga ako. alam mo naman yung kaming mga guys ang daming extra curricular hehe
wait mo na lang siya kung interested pa ba sayo o hindi na..

[Girltalker2]

Or it could mean, "next time na when I dont NEED to attend to my girlfriend, her needs and her moods, ha?"

Kahit hindi gf.  Next time nalang pag wala akong kinakaaliwan na girl. Pero ngyon meron pa. kaya next time nalang.

[whitebishop]

men are usuallly straightforward. when we say next time it means there is a chance of it happening pero not now.  meaning you are likeable but you are not interesting enough. just my two cents

[Mr.Punch]

Or pwede rin na talagang may gagawin siya.

[Saint_Sinner]

@ sis Gambit loves rogue


ako naman, nung hindi ako nagchat or nagparamdam for several days, tapos bigla akong nagchat sa kanya sabi nya "akala ko hindi kana magpaparamdam eh" so i joked and said "kung gusto mo everyday nako magmemessage sayo" then he said oo, ikaw bahala.


so ginawa ko pero may times na bigla nalang siyang hindi magrereply. tapos the next day pag magmemessage ako sasabihin nya na nagpatulong mama nya or nakatulog sya. minsan paranoid ako na baka ayaw nya ko kausap, or may ibang girl syang gusto at pinagkaka abalahan or what.


sissies and mga guys here, what do you think about that?


P.S hindi ko din alam kung ano exactly meron kami.

[llemija]

^ don't think too much girl.. kagagaling ko lang sa ganyang sitwasyon.

if he really likes you, kahit busy siya he'll find time to talk to you. don't be too clingy. in the end, tayo talo lalo na pag na-fall ka na.

please take these words seriously, yan kasi natutunan ko. kaya eto ako, disappointed and hanging.

* just found out na he's dating another girl na.

[chicafabulosa]

My piece of advice....DOMT ASSUME AND PRESUME..

baka kasi sis may gagawin lang talaga sya. If di sya tumawag, dont feel bad, just move on and deadma ka na lang. If tumawag di okay... But never expect na lang muna para di ka rin madisappoint. And dont stress yourself too much. Malay mo di naman pala worth yung stress mo sa kaiisip ng ibig sabihin ng next time kasi may impt. Lang talaga syang gagawin

[piatos]

OT usapan namin 2014 magpakasal kasi breadwinner sya tapos naging 2016 so on na.  Tingin ko wala syang talaga plano talaga.  Anong tingin nyo po?

[shoppers_101]

its hard to tell... but piece of advice... give a person a benefit of the doubt... dont put double meaning on anything a guy will say... sometimes... it is what it is... plain and simple.

[aquacharly]

Not necessarily, that next time means never.

He most probably is just busy at work.
Or, he wants to cut a conversation that is not going along according to his liking. 
But if he takes your calls & always says that -- but does not call you back... Save face, do not be the 1 to call/initiate a meeting

[TuscanSun]

next time is bad sign because an interested man can at least give a date like: im busy now. can we talk again tom at 9am?

[Chinito]

simple lang yan mga kapatid.
ang lalaking mag sasabi ng next time sa " apple of the eye" niya ay isang malaking palusot to end a non interesting convo.
reality bites mga kapatid.  ikaw ba gusto mo makausap ang taong hindi ka naman interesado or wala ka naman mapapala?

it could be okay if he said that in an emergency scenario and then within the day tumawag ulit siya to continue the chit chats. pero kapag hindi na nag paramdam; matic na yon. he's not into you..

[10tequilashots]

Or pwede rin na talagang may gagawin siya.

Precisely. Baka that's all there is to it talaga.

[pinkmallowpie]

a guy once said to " sige, next time na lang ulit." ayun di na nagparamdam kahit kelan 

[tinsantos10]

Most of the time, "next time" means never.  Not unless iopen up mo again yung topic tapos kukulitin mo siya about it