POLL for guys: Do you prefer an aggressive girl or pa-demure?

[janix athena]

This question can also be phrased as: In looking for your "The One" Do you prefer doing the chasing or being the one who's chased? There's a need for that qualifier (pang-seryosohan na relationship) kasi baka iba ang criteria nyo kung pang-short time na fling lang ang hinahanap.

My definition of being Aggressive: girl ang nag-aaya na mag-date, nanlilibre sa date, lagi nagte-text or tumatawag, pumapayag na maging intimate agad, nagbibigay ng love letter, nauunang magsabi ng "I love you"

My definition of being pa-demure: Ikaw ang lahat ng gagawa ng mga mentioned above.

[hisana]

Per your definition, my closest guy friend prefers "aggressive." Though ewan ko lang kung nagiging intimate agad, hindi kasi kasali sa usapan namin yung ganun, he's shy that way, LOL. Kidding.

[ButHonestly]

If aggressive means a girl who can stand realize the liberties that has been given by the modern society to her, and doesnt cover her mouth with a handerchief when she laughs, then imma go ahead for the aggressive type then.



Sometimes a man appreciates when a woman makes the first move. Because sometimes, the right woman can make a brave man shy.

[ragnar_danneskjold]

Hm. I'd try the agressive type:D As long as her agression doesn't mean violent tendencies even in minor fights...

[Alucard]

Mas ok syempre na lalaki ang gagawa ng paraan to get the girl. Iba parin na ang lalake ang magpapatunay kung seryoso ba talaga siya dun sa girl or hindi

[domin0]

hmm..
[textspeak!] not too aggresive and not too demure... its about being yourself and giving enough info and yet bitin.

[whitebishop]

I'd say assertive... katakot ang aggressive. lol

[Mr.Punch]

Both traits but in certain situations. 

[romanticure]

This question can also be phrased as: In looking for your "The One" Do you prefer doing the chasing or being the one who's chased? There's a need for that qualifier (pang-seryosohan na relationship) kasi baka iba ang criteria nyo kung pang-short time na fling lang ang hinahanap.

My definition of being Aggressive: girl ang nag-aaya na mag-date, nanlilibre sa date, lagi nagte-text or tumatawag, pumapayag na maging intimate agad, nagbibigay ng love letter, nauunang magsabi ng "I love you"

My definition of being pa-demure: Ikaw ang lahat ng gagawa ng mga mentioned above.

galing na ko sa mga pa-demure, wala ring nangyari for 17 years. 

I'm trying out this Aggressive type of woman na independent maski ayoko ng nililibre, nauunang mag sabi ng "I love you" at pinupuntahan ako sa bahay.

[kjshoot2ill]

aggresive!!!
lalo na sa ibang scene 

[chichi143]

If aggressive means a girl who can stand realize the liberties that has been given by the modern society to her, and doesnt cover her mouth with a handerchief when she laughs, then imma go ahead for the aggressive type then.



Sometimes a man appreciates when a woman makes the first move. Because sometimes, the right woman can make a brave man shy.

I agree!

[mariaclara-]

i think guys would prefer aggressive girls.

dati nagpakademure ako sa isang guy, kinalabasan? niloko lang ako at pinagpalit.

pag nagpaka aggressive naman ako (not sexually) , baliw na baliw sakin ang lalake?

my opinion lang. kase if youre the aggressive type, guys will think that they can be comfortable around you kase kaya mong sakyan mga kabaliwan nila. while if pademure ka, maingat sila sa actions nila kase baka konting joke lang, maooffend kana. which men think can be quite boring. diba?

[MsBipolar]

Actually combination ako ng 2. Hehe if gusto ko talaga yung guy and obvious namang gusto din ako, I make the first move to ask him out. Sa case kasi ng bf ko, sa kanya ako nagpaka demure.

[jtansanco]

Based on my experience, I fall for demure girls although, deep inside, I wish aggressive girls would like me.

[freelancer_babe]

^ Interesting. But why?

[jtansanco]

^ Because I'm the type of guy who chases. The traditional guy where I'm the one doing all the courting while the girl is just on the receiving end na parang walang ka-effort effort. Gusto ko naman ma-experience na ako naman yung hinahabol. Someone who knows how to give and to receive. Hindi yung panay receive lang.

[freelancer_babe]

^ pag may napaibig kang girl, and falls in love madly sa iyo... siya na ang hahabol. 

[sacred cow]

aggressive lalo na kung maganda

[Chinito]

For me it work both ways. i agree with jtansanco, dapat one should compliment the other by replicating the effort in his/her own way. It depends din sa type ng guy..

[ad13]

Both for me. Padememure in public, projecting a classy and professional with other people but aggressive when we're together.