emotional cheating

[crazycoolchic19]

^^ super agree...Kunwari wala pero meron....

they are lying saints ...

[rianne_mallows]

Hindi ako magtataka kung one fine day makita kita sa
Sa ON WIFE WHO CHEATS thread saka sa mga FAILED MARRIAGES thread

Andami na nagbigay ng advise sa iyo. Bahala ka na kung gusto mo maglaro ng apoy
Basta huwag ka magrereklamo kapag nasira ang pamilya mo at lumaki ang anak mo na walang  tatay kasi iniwan ka ng asawa mo dahil sa panlalalaki mo

[sweet.trish]

karamihan sa ating mga babae kapag may ex na hindi makamove on eh "humahaba ang hair"
yung first bf ko nag meet kami ule last year nung reunion. halos ganun din ang hirit, "mahal pa rin kita, hindi na ko nagseryoso after natin magbreak." ok, so bakit after 12 years wala syang effort na hanapin ako or makipagbalikan? tapos weeks ago, yung manliligaw ko nung high school, (may ka live in at anak) ang mga sinasabi naman eh, "noon pa kita gusto. kung niligawan ba kita noon sasagutin mo ko?" what's the point? nakakairita sa mga lalaking eto eh akala nila lahat ng babae madadaan nila sa matatamis na salita. kaya sis, totoo man yan or hindi, pag pinatulan mo yan at hindi tinigilan, panigurado masisira ang marriage nyo. i suggest wag ka muna magpost dito, lumayo ka muna sa internet and spend time with your family. kasi nakikita ko, the more na ineentertain mo yang mga naiisip mo, the more na lumalala eh. the more na pinapayuhan ka, the more na nahuhulog ka.

[jojo2978]

Guytalker here.  I think you should listen listen sa suggestions ng mga sisses natin dito...  What's the point of entertaining your ex now?  Too late na.   Di na bf/gf stage lang to na inaalam mo lang gusto mo.  I'm sure you don't want to sacrifice your family.  You said it yourself na rin, your husband doesn't deserved that.  Kung sana yung husband mo is not a good husband baka maintindihan kita why you are entertaining such thoughts pa.

Ang sa amin ay suggestion lang but at the end of the day, ikaw pa rin ang gagawa ng choices mo.  I just hope na tama mapili mong choice.  I just hope that whatever it is matapos na kung may emptiness ka man nararamdaman.  I just hope that whatever it is in the end, you'll be happy and have peace of mind.

Goodluck sis and God bless.

[YanYanYanYanYan]

Just think about this, what if your hubby/bf do this to you. What will you feel?

If it's ok for you na may comms sila ng ex nya well super lawak na talaga ng isip at pangunawa mo sis. What if may tampuhan or away kayo ni hubby/ bf mo and he seek for companionship or advice sa ex nya magiging ok pa rin ba sayo?

Naku, don't do things that will hurt you kapag sya na ang gumawa sayo. Mabilis si karma...

[lonelymiss28]

may ganito rin akong eksena just a few months ago. kaso hindi sila ex kundi manliligaw na di naging kami....manliligaw ng elementary as in!yung isa naman from elem till umalis ako ng pinas 10 years ago.

so to make the long story short. yung isa ni delet ko sa fb ko, then yung isa naman di ko na kinakausap at parehong alam ng asawa ko lahat ng conversation namin...mga i love you nila...mga eksenang may feelings pa sila sa akin after all thses years. i just find it weird may mga tao palang ganon no. but anyway, wala kami naging issue sa asawa ko kasi very open naman ako sa kanya saka alam naman nya na hindi ako gagawa ng kalokohan o ano pa man na makakasira sa relasyon namin.

[YanYanYanYanYan]

If we're really matured, wag na tayong magentertain ng mga ganito. Makaksira ng buhay and marriage yang mga ganyan. Focus nalang tayo sa mga asawa and partner natin wala pang publema.

Don't make your life complicated ikaw rin ang magssuffer lalo na ang anak mo.

[crazycoolchic19]

may ganito rin akong eksena just a few months ago. kaso hindi sila ex kundi manliligaw na di naging kami....manliligaw ng elementary as in!yung isa naman from elem till umalis ako ng pinas 10 years ago.

so to make the long story short. yung isa ni delet ko sa fb ko, then yung isa naman di ko na kinakausap at parehong alam ng asawa ko lahat ng conversation namin...mga i love you nila...mga eksenang may feelings pa sila sa akin after all thses years. i just find it weird may mga tao palang ganon no. but anyway, wala kami naging issue sa asawa ko kasi very open naman ako sa kanya saka alam naman nya na hindi ako gagawa ng kalokohan o ano pa man na makakasira sa relasyon namin.

Same with me sis, ang daming paramdam na mga exes,
So TS, dont mind him hayaan mo sya maglaway syo, in the end pag deadma mo sya at feeling hopeless na sya titigil din yan kase kaya ganyan yan nakikitaan ka nya ng butas na interesado ka sa kanya,

[lonelymiss28]

^korek. dedma lang katapat nyan.

[FayeP]

sis sats, if ever na di nga maiiwasan na malaman nya number mo dahil madami nga kayo common friends, eh di iwasan mo na lang un tawag nya??? bakit ka ba naman kasi sagot pa ng sagot??? heheh

nun tinanong ka nya if you still love him, dapat ang sagot mo is "NO i don't love you anymore" or something like that....

don't entertain him at all sis....

[megansmomma]

yan ang mahirap sa connections eh, whether social or mobile. pag meron pa kayo  common friend that can provide his concerns about you -- patay na! imo, look on the brighter side instead of dwelling on what ifs. I just came into that picture months ago and I can say -- buti nalang i listened to my angel! hehe! You were saying your hubby doesnt deserved that? Make your EX feel if ever "man" tumawag sya ulit na. -- Its over and done na sa inyo at wala na syang babalikan pa! dont entertain such thoughts kase para di ka maguluhan. wag mo na rin sya isipin. Isipin mo nasa tamang daan ka na sis sats wag ka nang lumiko pa baka pagsisihan mo yan big time ikaw din. god bless you sis!

II feel so bad for my hubby,because he doesnt deserve this..ayaw ko na talaga mga sis,i did naman everything to avoid him but after that call,i dont know what has happened to me ;(

[jhenpretty]

Isa lang ang sagot diyan.. Temptation yan sis.. You should know nung una pa lang na huwag ng pansinin yung mga messages o tawag niya. Iniisip pa nung guy na yan na kinakausap mo pa siya dahil may feelings ka pa.. Kahit sabihin mo na, oo may feelings ka pa sa kaniya, hindi na tamang ineentertain mo pa siya dahil hindi ka na dalaga, may asawa ka na.. Ikaw ang talo diyan sis, bukod pa diyan, yung anak mo.. Kung maggive-in ka sa temptation, siguradong humahalakhak ang devil sa ginagawa mo.. Sana mabigyan ka ni Lord ng wisdom, strength at conscience para maging strong ka na iresist ang temptation..

[jenie0519]

Sis sats, magpalit ka na lang ng number mo, and ignore all of his messages.
Let your common friends know na ayaw mong ibigay ang number mo sa kanya so wag din nila ikakalat.

If mahal mo talaga ang asawa mo, bakit ka matetempt sis?
Tama ang mga naunang nagcomment, isipin mo na lang pano kung si hubby ang gumawa niyan?
OK lang ba sayo?

Ignore mo lang yan, titigil din yan..  About sa kilig factor, kay hubby ka na lang ulit kiligin..
Ako pag nafi-feel ko na nawawala na yung kilig sa min ng hubby ko, ako yung nauuna mag-lambutching sa kanya, hehe...

God bless sis

[imsoblue]

I think you better stop that communication with your Ex. For me kasi its kinda heart disturbance. Honestly, my ex added me in FB  3months ago, after so many years FRIENDSTER pa ang uso non and I was still single that time, longing for him and trying to win him back. I have tried to be friends with him and he always rejected my invites.

Time goes by and I moved on; so after 10 years he added me sa FB na parang out of nowhere ang peg. He even add my siblings and parents (for what?) as I really don’t know his intension and I really don’t care cuz I am happily married now with my husband  and  feel so complete, cuz I have baby girl who really complete me. So to make the story short; I was happy naman kc he open the communication, we often talk, but not sweet talk, were like just an old schoolmate, but it getting worst na when he told me na “make sure not to fall in love with him again” umakyat talaga ang dugo sa ulo ko, I asked him if he meant it seriously, but I did not waited for his answer and asked na “ do you know the song; I remember the boy, but I don’t remember the feelings anymore?” he answered me yes! So I told him na so I hope you know now the answer. Since then, di ko na entertain ang mga messages niya, and kept ignoring his shout out. For me kc I’m just wasting my time entertaining him even I don’t have intention na kiligin. It’s better na friends kayo and seeing new things from each other wall, but not to the point na may kiligan moment pa, tama na ang likes and limit your self nalang sa pag comment sa FB niya.

[YanYanYanYanYan]

Sis wala naman talaga ako balak sagutin tawag nya..since nasa America sya (sea man) walang number nag appear sa cel ko...
I talked to our common friends already, told them not to give my number etc.
But i dont know...its really sad.. Because  i dont want to hurt him anymore but ive no choice...

Thank you mga sis..

You always have a choice it's just that you don't want to choose because you like what's happening the kilig moments and the reminiscing part w/c I think you don't felt with your hubby. 

[agape]

Build romantic memories with your hubby na lang. So you don't have to reminisce old memories with your ex.

[princessrio]

nyeh sats! sigurado ka bang nahuhurt talaga sya? may mga lalake na best actor. wag kang magpatangay.

you always have a choice..we all do. but do you really think your ex is a good choice over your family? kawawa naman ang husband mo. pag nalaman yan, he also have a choice....

[tamarind26]

Sats, do you really love your husband? Are you truly happy with him? If the answer is yes, you will never entertain anything that might ruin your marriage. Dapat nga you have moved on na from whatever unsettled issues in the past because you're with someone who makes you happier na.

The ex on the other hand must have sensed that you are vulnerable because men won't take action unless there's something that's leading them on. Give them a minute of your attention, the next thing you'll know is that you're into their bait na and it's hard to get out.

Ignore. Ignore. Ignore. If truly nasa highest level ka na ng happiness and contentment with your hubby and baby, lilipat ka pa ba sa mala-impyerno and magulong buhay?