emotional cheating

[FayeP]

sis, I think dapat un energy mo spend mo ke hubby heheh instead of thinking about your ex...why not bring your hubby out of his shell kumbaga, sabi mo he is medyo serious, pero I am sure kung iga-guide mo cya to have more fun eh mas ok un kasi pareho kayo mag eenjoy di ba at bonding nyo na un...

wag mo na isipin si ex kasi ex na nga sya eh so meaning may valid reason ka kun bakit di mo na cya kasama ngayon....

sure it will make us happy and medyo parang haba ng hair pag may di maka get over sa yo hehe di ba pero kun yun sandaling saya mo eh pag ugatan ng di magandang bagay (like pagkahulog "ulit" ng damdamin mo sa kanya, or malaman ng asawa mo na nakikipag email ka) eh di worth it di ba

[katrinac]

focus ko nalang sa hubby mo sis, and siguro namimiss mo lang yung *kilig* factor na yan. this might be just a passing fancy, remember pagdating sa marriage sis, di naman lagi happy yan. di naman din laging kilig. kausapin mo rin si hubby mo na you two should spend more time together and mag compromise kayo and let him know yung mga things na you want to happen sa relationship nyo. that way, di ka naghahanap ng ibang tao para lang mag fulfill ng roles ng hubby mo. sayang sis. God bless!

[crazycoolchic19]

Been there done that... Ang regrets nasa huli..., na hook ako, ang sarap ng feeling kapag may nagkakagusto syo, who appreciates everything on you, and nun time na yun lagi kami nagaaway ni hubby , so naging companion ko sya, hanggang sa di ko napapansin nahuhulog nako, better stop it , ignore him before its too late...

[carmichael18]

ako rin, very recent lang din.. dumating si ex from abroad, text-text, meet up with other friends, sweet siya sinakyan ko naman, tapos ayun next thing i knew, i was crying kasi aalis na siya ulit.. pero ako rin ang nag-sabi sa kanya na tigilan namin yun.. na back to our normal lives kasi he asked kung pano ang set up namin pag uwi niya sa dubai, sabi ko walang set up.. now, wala na rin kaming communication, except he greeted me on my bday last week.. and I'm happy I let go.. sobrang bait ng hubby ko, and he just doesn't deserve that..

[undecided]

stop mo na yan sis. mas maganda ang pag sasasama kung walang guilt na na fe feel at magaan sa pakiramdam. wala kang tinatago at hindi ka matatakot or walang doubt. kaya ako takot ako sa ganyan. naiisip ko pa lang natatakot na ako. well, goodluck!

[stylishmomy]

sis sats, alam mong mali kaya ka nagiguilty ka, so glad to know that you deleted him from your list already and please continue to ignore his messages/emails. Like what our other sisses has posted, walang magandang resulta nito if you continue. I hope you find your "kilig" moments with your hubby

Please pray for guidance and strength. God bless

[daveigh]

my hubby is very serious person,puro work lang ang alam,he is 11 years older than me...opposite sila ni ex..si ex parehas kami ng age and very funny...but..i didnt see any future with my ex,thats why i left him

sabi nga ni Bro. Bo Sanchez, bakit mo papansinin ang 10% na wala sa hubby mo, kung meron ka na nung 90% ng kelangan mo? If I were you para hindi ka na ma-tempt sa PM's nya, i-block mo na sya or better yet, i-disable mo muna ang FB mo then create another one. The moment nga na iniisip mo na sya ng madalas is already cheating daw. Ano ba ang mafi-feel mo kung si mister ang nasa posisyon mo na may iniisip din na iba? Di ba masakit din? So dun pa lang alam mo na ang gagawin mo..

[megansmomma]

to the thread starter :

tama mga sinasabi nila sayo sis, so if i were you like what I just did. i cut all the means of a possible communications para stop na any reasons para magkausap kami. hes not my ex just a former flame. dreamt of being his wife before pero nauna ako nagkaasawa sa kanya am not regretting ending up with my hubby, he means the world to me. tao lang tayo sis kaya nakakaramdam ka ng ganyan but thats not healthy in any form kaya sis, pray & think 1000 and 1 times kung pag pinasok mo ba yan may maganda kang mapapala because am telling you 100% -- NO!
I can see from where you are exactly coming and in my POV, instead of looking for someone who can please you sa katauhan ni "ex" why not spend more time on how you will make your hubby become less more serious & be affectionate? wish you all the best sis.. kaya mo yan!!

[crazycoolchic19]

Super nakakarelate lang ako syo TS, malaking problema yan pag hinayaan mo lang,baka malulob ka sa kumunoy di ka na makakaahon nyan ."ang tukso iniiwasan hinde pinaglalabanan".

[sweetjen]

pag kinikilig ka na sa treatment sayo ng ibang lalaki, beware!
baka kung saan mapunta yan
tapos sasabay pa na may prob kayo ni hubby - you feel like being ignored etc.
kaya its very important to communicate with hubby, if feeling mo,
di ka na-appreciate etc.

[gorgeous_mommie]

actually i had this same confusion 2 yrs ago.. si ex as in napapanaginipan ko madalas like 3-4x a week kaya mega research naman ako sa whereabouts nya and all.. as in feeling ko nga i still have feelings for him.. ang tagal ko sya hinanap.kaso when i had a chance to talk to him.. he invited me out for lunch at syempre i said yes.. but come lunch "date".. nung magkita na kami its only then that i realized wala na pala ko feelings sa kanya.. i dunno basta nalang ganon na feel ko.. after that lunch di ko na sya napanaginipan and di nako kinikilig kapag maalala ko sya

[jbroughton]

"Never allow temptation to stay for dinner."

It seems that everything is just for the sake of friendship now, but the fact that you don't feel right about it, then there is something wrong.  I am also friends with my ex's pero not to the point that messages are sent privately, isa lang ang ibig sabihin nyan, may tinatago ka.

Do not let it ruin your marriage. 

[stylishmomy]

^if you will reply to his messages sis, this will not end. I guess you know what to do... continue ignoring him, his messages... and dont even feel bad about doing so. Focus on your marriage, on your husband God bless.

[crazycoolchic19]

^ ^the more mo sya papansinin hinde yan titigil..the more ka pa nyan papainlabin., nag effort kana rin lang tanggalin sya sa fb account mo , tanggalin mo na rin number nya sa fone mo anything na may connection ka sa kanya.,  tuloy tuloy muna., at hinde kayo pedeng maging friends kase your interested with him, at alam mo na he likes you.
 ...kaya before its too late mahulog ka ng todo,mahirap magmove on ..what if dumating pa yan sa worst come to worst. You can never tell pag nahulog at nainlove ka.,masarap ang bawal... And  youll do anything for love .

[crazylove]

^ awww! sis, baka may ibang habol lang yan sayo kaya ganyan yan. pinapaikot niya ulo mo..

isipin mo nalang yung trust na binibigay sayo ng hubby mo. wag mo ng maging kumplikado sitwasyon sis, baka magsisi ka sa huli.

[crazycoolchic19]

Gusto ka lang nyan tikman maniwala ka sis! Style yan ng mga lalake.hes testing the water, kung may feelings ka pa sa kanya.

[crazylove]

korekek! 

[rianne_mallows]

Oh ayan na. Lumala na. Sinasali na niya friends niyo. Hindi na nakakapagtaka kung malaman ni hubby mo. Mabilis pa sa alas kwatro ang tsismis

Kung ako sayo, isumbong mo na sa asawa mo. Sabihin mo nanggugulo at ayaw tumigil. Why? IMO jan ka lang titigilan ni ex. Saka kung may makarating man sa asawa mo, naunahan mo na. Isa pa para pati ikaw lumagayna sa lugar

[agape]

this is the kind of affair that is difficult to pin-point, most people deny, it's easy to deny, usually there's no proof. just innocent texts, innocent flirts, innocent friendship, puro na lang innocent daw. it's nothing, yet they hide and keep it a secret. it's all just emotions, but guilt is guilt that tells you it's wrong.

[stylishmomy]

^exactly sis, if it's really nothing then why keep it a secret?