Will you go on vacation w/ your former lover ( you & him alone)?

[ri-anne]

ano kayang naging final decision ni Ts...

for me, it would only be a yes if both of us are still single and still have feelings for each other heheh....(singing to the tune of Muling ibalik ang tamis ng pag-ibig....lol!)

otherwise, the answer would be no.

[mariaclara-]

ayokong magpakaplastic, if i still have feelings for the guy then i would say "yes" .. lalo na if im still hoping na magkabalikan kami. but that doesn't mean na we're gonna go pass our limits. ayoko lang na magka'what-if's .. If gusto niyang magbakasyon kami, then there's something in it.

[17arci]

No, thanks.

[jenger109]

If im not in a relationship w anybody, why not?

[jengwa]

may kasama bang shopping yung "all expense-paid" trip? hehe. if yes, i'll go!

papagurin ko na lang sya ng todo kakapasyal para sa gabi tulog lang sya haha

[sweetcheeks]

Mesyo old fashioned ang sagot ko ha pero for me, a woman deserves security and commitment for her to heavily invest her emotions on a guy. She also has to protect her image and value na she won't stay overnight with a guy on her own, lalo na a guy with a questionable standpoint. You deserve to be pursued and cherished by a decent and honest man. :-)

[mikoarai]

My mind says NO but my heart says MAYBE.

Mahirap talaga ang ganitong situation sis kasi I've already been through this and ang masasabi ko lang TALO ka. Yung akin nga lang, para ko na siyang best guy friend nung high school pero parang meron rin kaming mutual understandigs sa isa't isa peron nag ka hiwalay rin kami. After 5 years of no talking, nag kataon na nag kita kami ulit. He already told me he has a girlfriend pero wala sa tabi niya at that time but that wouldn't change na he is still in a relationship with someone pero since may past kami hindi talaga maiiwasan na mag spark at maattract kayo uli sa isa't isa especially na it's been a long time.

Pero in fairness hindi ko naman bingay yung gusto niya haha pero we hang out and I definitely fell for him for the second time but for him it was just a temporary thing kaya I broke my heart ng big time talaga. So yeah, save yourself a respect. I think it's a NO pero I say maybe because I've went through this and definitely know how your heart will not listen to you logically.   

[crazycoolchic19]

I can relate, and all i can say is there is a hidden agenda,...

[JakeTheDog]

you + ex lover = sexy time 

[Girltalker2]

one lang naman naging ex ko. and my answer is NEVER. Over my dead body, kahit pa wala akong kasama, di nalang bale, di ako pupunta.

As of this point, I really do not want to have anything to do with him, kaya ngako humiwalay, tapos mag babakasyon kami?  neknek nya.

[Purple_Power]

you + ex lover = sexy time 

Ganun na nga yun!

Wala naman akong ex pero sagot ko dyan NO WAY! I would treat my ex as stranger not a friend.

[Girltalker2]

Idagdag ko pa --- kahit pa single na sya uli at single pako. No Way.

Siguro depende kasi pano kayo 2 naghiwalay.  In our case kasi niloko nyako.  Kaya no way I want to have anything to do with someone who cheats.  Kung pumayag ako, I just cannot accept na papayag ako na loko-lokohin lang nya ako, where is my sense of dignity? Binastos nyako before, and I may have forgiven him na, pero it does not mean everything can be back where they used to be.

Sis mikoarai, walang mahirap. pero kung nahihirapan kang humindi, ibig sabihin you still have feelings for the guy and the more you should distance yourself.  It is never a good idea to be close to any guy (sexually) if the guy does not love you and is not committed to you. and yes, yung respect mo para sa sarili mo, huwag na huwag mo kakalimutan.

[break_free]

^ Me din sis haha NEVER as in EWW... 

[rheinfall18]

if your exbf asked you to join him for an out of town trip will you go given the ff
- it was almost 4 years since you fell apart w/ communication via social network & common friends. > THIS DOES NOT MAKE SENSE
- exbf is in a relationship , he claims their set up is more of life"open relationship"(foreigner gf) - SAME WITH THIS
-  it was supposed to be a friendly vacation meaning no hanky panky or whatsoever. - PAANO NASABI FRIENDLY VACATION KUNG DALAWA LANG KAYO? E DI SANA GROUP VACATION NA LANG PARA MAS MASAYA
- place of your choice all expense paid. - WAG PADALA, PANG-AKIT LANG TO SYEMPRE
- separate rooms  - ECHOS LANG YAN PERO PAGDATING DUN MALAMANG SA MALAMANG SAME ROOM KAYO NOH
- his reason; he wants to be with somebody he's comfortable with, he'd only want to spend that vacation w/ you ( labo nito). - MALABO TALAGA KAYA DAPAT DI KA MAGPADALA LALO. E DI FAMILY NA LANG ISAMA NYA PARA MAS COMFORTABLE
- you are single when he asked you. - SO YOU'RE SINGLE, E HE'S NOT. SO PANO YAN DI BA?

caRE TO share your thought ladies/ gents?

IN SHORT, WAG KA SUMAMA ATENG.

[jaemi33]

^sis rheinfall18 nakakatuwa naman yung mga reply mo pero correct ka sa lahat! 

[prettychestnut]

hmmm. napapaisip ako ah. nangyayari pala ito?

[stebsy]

Never. The fact that you left him or he left you carries a compelling reason for the two of you not to be together anymore. Going out with him on a vacation means both of you wants each other back or maybe just for some lusty reason. It's some naive decision unless you realize that the breakup decision was wrong after all. But for me I don't want to be with any of my ex/former lover.

[yezzi]

at this moment. No way!


if I were single and ready to mingle lol! prolly yes! but then again too many to consider

[khayzee]

if si 1st ex bf ko..yes


just kidding.. NO na lang para di maging complicated

[kiz_me1109]

If HE has a GF, even if he said that they're on an open relationship, I won't go with him. Even If we are on good terms.