Will you go on vacation w/ your former lover ( you & him alone)?

[seagirl]

if your exbf asked you to join him for an out of town trip will you go given the ff
- it was almost 4 years since you fell apart w/ communication via social network & common friends.
- exbf is in a relationship , he claims their set up is more of life"open relationship"(foreigner gf)
-  it was supposed to be a friendly vacation meaning no hanky panky or whatsoever.
- place of your choice all expense paid.
- separate rooms
- his reason; he wants to be with somebody he's comfortable with, he'd only want to spend that vacation w/ you ( labo nito).
- you are single when he asked you.

caRE TO share your thought ladies/ gents?

[jeune]

^
Indecent proposal eh? 

- Do you still have feelings for him?
- You're not even sure if the so called "open relationship" he has with his gf is true.
- Do you really think it will be a 'friendly' vacation, just the two of you especially that you had a past?
- I wouldn't buy his reason that he wants to have a vacation just because he's comfortable with you, I'm sure he has other friends whom he's comfortable with .

So, my answer would be NO, out of respect to his gf, but then again that's just me. I don't know your circumstances.

[owjhei]

if he is in a relationship even if its a "open relationship" i will definitely say no to him.
mahirap na may past kame baka kung ano lang mangyari don syempre dalawa lang kame. 

[phoebe1811]

ang tanong eh bakit ka inaaya?what for?imposible wala lang yung reason niya no. me hidden agenda yan

[seagirl]

I said No the first time he invited, but then again we were able to chat before he left for abroad. He asked me again if we can go out of town on his next vacation, at the end of the conversation told him maybe i would if im not in a relationship.

i feel the same thing din my hidden motive, but what could it be other than being intimate. i dont think he wants me back , since clear yung sinabi nya friendly lang.
if i still have feelings for him?? well i guess so, or else di ako mabother ng ganto.

[aquacharly]

Are you kidding?
Why even consider it?
Darling, he comes with red warning flags he is waving in your face pa.

People who do not want to get burned shouldn't stand too close to the fire.
           
Take good care of yourself. Do not put yourself in harm's way.  Ang pagsisi ay nasa huli.

[chrisann]

i wouldn't if i were you. of all people, why go on vacay with you? at kayong dalawa lang. second, he has a GF. open or closed relationship man yan (whatever they call it) still doesn't justify his invitation. if you we're the GF, ok lang ba sayo? try to give yourself self-respect, sis. the fact that you and this guy had something in the past, i doubt if it's just going to be "friendly".

[sassyrosel]

first and foremost, as you said, he's in a relationship, whatever relationship pa yan, somehow he committed himself, so it's a big "NO!"

honestly, when I read the title of your post, I'm thinking to answer a "Yes," but meron pala syang mga hidden treasures 

[IronLady]

haha. no din sis. para-paraan ni guy yan, halata naman may hidden agenda.. may someone he's comfortable with pa syang nalalaman.. comfortable san? sex? :p anyways, ok sana kung wala syang gf e. kaso meron. that says a lot bout dat guy.. and kung ako yung gf at nalaman o nakita ko yung mga pics nyo sa oot trip nyo, imposibleng hindi ako magisip ng masama tungkol sa inyo..

[rianne_mallows]

honestly, tingin ko gusto ka niya pang spare tire.. worse, pang threesome. mga lalake nga naman talaga

[gorgeous_mommie]

i wouldnt even dare to..
1st- this is risky.. esp on us women's part...
2nd- imposible wala si ex na ineexpect from us upon saying YES.. (you know, saying yes to his invite would also mean saying yes to everything he plans to do)
3rd-this is improper since youre NOT in a relationship anymore..
4th- chances are, gusto lang talaga umiscore...
kaya NO WAY..

[Kriman]

Mahirap yan, pag di ka pa marunong mag pigil. Self-control 

[shieldmaidenofRohan]

honestly, tingin ko gusto ka niya pang spare tire.. worse, pang threesome. mga lalake nga naman talaga

I definitely agree. Respect yourself, sis. You deserve better than this kinda guy.

[break_free]

Of course not!

'- place of your choice all expense paid.' hindi naman nakaka-tempt, kasi kaya ko gastusan sarili ko so...

at ang labas eh 'mean time' girl ako? haller? 

[nageinna]

No. reasons were already given by our other sissies. like you said it's been four years na. pag sumama ka sakanya, prepare yourself for another heartache drama since you said, sakanya parang wala lang to. and for you, may nararamdaman ka pa. expect all those feelings to hit you big time ulit once kumagat ka sa kanya.

[nikki09]

No din for me. May GF naman sya kahit na naka tag pa sila as open relationship.

[confusedjoanna]

Based on my experience, do not allow yourself to get involve the 2nd time around.. so that you will spare yourself from another heartbreak.

The moment you stepped in to that vacation with him, whether you like it or not...
you'll be having another expectation and sooner or later another disappointment nanaman.

So save yourself.
Learn from my experience.

Its not easy to have a second round of the big 3... expectations,disappoinment & heart-break

[butterfly20]

A big fat NO. Definitely may motives yang pag iinvite nya.

[babychellee]

hell NO! i must agree with everyone here. he definitely has some not-so-good motive! stay away from this guy! 

[tifay]

me too i agree no way! past is past why does he need you to go with him wala ba sha ibang friends? feeling close naman yun. careful nalang he surely will take advantage. open relation ship pa sha with his gf kahit sino dalhin niya dun sa trip ok lang. booty call. playboy much?!lol