Mga friends na puro YABANG ang alam.. thread 2

[gracita13]

i can relate.i have a friend na lahat ng kwento nya may presyo,ultimo achievements ng mga kapatid nya na kesyo daw may bonus/incentives na gantong halaga blah blah blah susmiyo as if im interested?!? just recently kwento nya pag new year daw nakakagastos sila ng 2k sa fireworks pa lang and at the back of my mind i was like "kame nga more than pa dyan" ahahahahaha! kakairita pakinggan lahat talaga may presyo?!? ano ba balak nya gawin akong accountant at kwentahin kaperahan nila?

[kikaygimikera]

I agree with sixteen16, depende talaga sa tumitingin yan. Medyo nakaka-off lang yung mga taong nagpopost ng personal info's (like my sister did pero natanggal niya rin right after I told her.) like bank statements, passport, visa. Pwede ka siguro mag shoutout na Yey I have visa na! Pero posting personal info, mahirap na.

Pero mas nakaka-off yung mga taong maraming nasasabi about other people posting sa FB. For me kasi social networking site kasi sya, wala naman kasing rules yun. Its really up to you. Parang ang dating lang para sakin, eh dapat di ka na mag FB kung ganon...?

I have an officemate kasi, andaming sinasabi sa mga tao sa office about them posting their travel photos, or gifts they received nung christmas.... parang for me... "anong problema mo? edi wag kang mag facebook. dami mong nasasabi dyan..." parang napaka-know it all. kulang na lang tawagan niya si mark tapos maglagay ng rules sa facebook. LOL

[stacies83221]

Yeah turn off sya but for me, it is their own business.. If they want to show the world how much this and that and what they can afford, they can do what they want... So what if they have all those sorts of things? If you have a problem and kung ano ano pa ang comments mo about their lives, sabihin mo sa person na yun and not go and talk about it to others na wala naman pakialam or kinalaman, right?

 I feel both sorry to those who post their latest purchases and yabangs, as well to those who react and comment negatively about it, because, as much as they want to deny it, there is an underlying feeling og envy there. Be contented on what you have and just strive to be the best you can be and the rest will follow. Be happy for somebody else's triumphs, di ba? Plus there are more essential undertakings than being envious on such things.

[buchi]

ok lang yung occassional na pag post, pero wag naman yung umaga, hapon gabi. hehe nakakapikon na yan eh haha kasi most of the time pag ganun tinatanggal ko sa feeds ko hehe

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

Di maiiwasan na mapag uusapan mga taong post ng post ng uneccessary stuff sa facebook kasi they are really giving people a topic to talk about. I think, since depende nga sa tumitingin, may mga tao talaga na mayayabangan sa mga posts di ba? Di naman kailangan na naiingit ang taong  nayayabangan sa taong post ng post ng newly purchased stuff, pero nakaka umay naman talaga na lahat na lang ipaskil. Why dont they just create a blog instead and post everything they own there?
Kung may right ang mga tao na mag post ng kung ano mang ari arian nila sa buhay nila, may right din mga tao na mainis sa kanila. Delete and Block! Or hide siguro pero di kailangan not use fb all together:) if others think those who say negative things about them are called inggitera, I think malakas insecurities ng mga maya maya kung makapag post ng mga kagamitan nila.may contest ba? Pamahalan ng mga gamit? Paunahan makapag waldas ng pera?so far naman mga friends ko di ganun, mga colleagues ko lang nakikitaan ko ng ganun.

[kvandenhaak]

Question. Why are you "friends" with these kind of people? I mean if you are irritated then why don't you delete them in your FB friends' list?

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

If the posts are too much, I delete the people brandishing their stuff:) I can distinguish excitement over just plain bragging. thank God, I dont have such friends or relatives:)

[witch_goddess]

there are some people talaga na sa fb na i really can tell na mayabang an example for this is my ka batch sa elementary.  kasi there are two instances that this ka batch ko pag elementary is an example of mayabang on fb. one is she posted photos of her new ipad mini na for sale with caption pa talaga na kailangan bawas bawasan ang basura sa bahay kasi marami nang kalat, i mean dapat talaga ganoon ang caption pag nagbebenta ng ipad? LOL

tapos the other one is she posted a magarang bahay sa kanyang fb wall and she said na secret house daw niya yun. then i found out na she pretended lang pala to own the house kasi yung real estate friend ko posted the exact type, details/description of the house that this ka batch of mine uploaded.

napapa roll eyes lang ako hahaha

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

Tsaka may gut feel ka na yung taong yun nag yayabang lang. Tapos naiinis pag nalaman niyang pinag uusapan siya. Jeez, if people doesnt want to be the topic in the conversation, eh di, dont give others something to talk about. For sure kasi na pag nag bigay siya ng reason, pag uusapan ka talaga.

May isa akong colleague din na binigyan ng ipad mini ng bf, syempre pinaskil sa insta at facebook, pinaskil bookshelf sa insta at caption " kindle,dont tampo kay ipad ah."  Ewww!!
Kindle kasi niya lahat ng angulo pinaskil sa instagram at shared sa facebook, tapos... Ayun! Nasira! Kindle lang pinagyayabang pa!lahat ng ebooks na binasa sa kindle, may screenshots! Pati box,nasa bed, nasa sofa, katabi ng pinamili niyang damit, regalo. Katabi ng laptop katabi ng credit card bills! OA na di ba? Yan ang reason na binibigay niya para pag usapan siya. Pati envelope ng credit card bills niya may pics!" Grabe! Dami ko na namang pinamili, BILLS, BILLS, BILLS!!" " shopaholic kasi eh, namili ako ng mga new make up"
May pic ng lips niya wearing the shade and behind her is the make up stand ng lipstick.. "Which shade to pick??" Kaloka!! Naka INSTA FRAME pa yung labi niya.

[chubbelita]

i think the people who keep on posting receipts, expensive stuff, salary, tuition fee etc are very insecure people, they need to prove to the whole world how rich they are. If that makes them happy,..then fine, but i just don't get it.

Do i feel insecure when i see these people in facebook? no. lol. cause there's a very fine line between accomplishments and just plain bragging.

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

A lot of people should change their facebook status to " in DIRE need of attention"

[pretinnes]

^haha. Sakto.

Maynfriend naman ako sa fb na lahat ng binili pino post. Lahat ng activities, may pics.nakakaumay kaya.per iniisip ko ngayon lang niya na experience ang mga bagay na ito kaya sige nalang.

[kvandenhaak]

There are people who posts pictures of credit card bills, passport, visa? Have they heard of identity theft?

[Love88]

Yun mga mayayabang sila ang mga empty. Kapag mayaman ka ayaw mo pakita kasi baka makidnap ka.

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

^^ yes, there are people posting their personal documents and what should not. Even everything in their house.( just like the ones you see in hello magazines or Yes when the homes of celebs gets featured) as in very detailed. Probably inviting some akyat bahay gang.roll eyes.

[ladyfoxy]

I have a friend na ganito. Gulat ako kasi she posted a pic of her holding thick CASH. Like hello, mas natakot pa ako for her safety, baka mamaya may makakilala sa kanya, at ipadampot pa sya LOL!

Sayang, ang ganda pa naman nya.

Other cases din like yung isa, post ng post about her new iPhone, and other stuffs. Hindi naman sa kagandahan, pero wala kasi sa ichura na may "kaya". Someone told me the history of this girl, kaya ganun kasi her biological father left her family, at yung new step father naman nya ang nag susupport sa kanila.

Feeling ko, these people feels that they need to prove "something". Kaya bongga na lang kung makapag yabang.

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

^ ganun naman talaga eh!:) the more people brag the more insecurities they have. Why post  items you own anyway? Its like nagbubuhat ka ng sariling bangko. Why not wait till others notice it di ba? Baka di nakikita ng iba kaya pangalandakan na lang at i self announce na mayaman ka? People who are filthy rich at di yung biglang yaman lang ah! Di mo makikitaan ng ganyan, no need to prove something since they are used to it.
Di ito nagkakaiba sa taong sabi ng sabi na mayroon siyang kung ano, bumibili siya ng Rolex, LV,etc. sa facebook nga lang, pictures ang pinapakita, pero same lang ng taong nag a announce sa pamamagitan ng bibig kung ano pinagbibibili niya.Mga totoong mayayaman, banayad magsalita,Pino,simple. Pero makikilatis mo ang gamit na bag or relo or damit kahit di nila ipagsabi na updated sila sa mga bagong HERMES na bag or kung ano pa man.

I dont think din na "sharing" yun pag pinagsasasabi mo mga brands na pinamimili mo sa ibang tao, kasi wala naman silang pakialam kung saan ka namimili.

Magiging sharing lang yun kapag may nakakilala sa brand na gamit mo kahit di mo ipagsabi at tanungin ka kung saan mo nabili etc or kung nagandahan sila.

Nalalaspag na kasi ang salitang "sharing" ginagawang excuse na lang ang pagyayabang using the word SHARE. Waiting for someone to ask you first how you liked this and that country is sharing, voluntarily giving out where you got your Balenciaga bag and from what country is not sharing but its obviously Bragging.

[sixteen16]

nabasa ko lang to somewhere.. "Ang tunay na mayaman nagtitipid, ang feeling mayaman gumagastos magmuka lang mayaman.." para sa akin sobrang totoo toh.. just my opinion..

ok lang magpost ng magpost ng kahit ano.. buhay naman nila yan.. pero dapat alam nila ang limitations.. hindi lahat pwede ipost at ipagyabang..

hindi na dapat ipost ang digits ng tuition fee ng anak, bonus at salary nila at mga brand ng mga damit nila unless may magtanong.. halata na kasi they need attention (masabing "mayaman" sila").. i admire those people na humble..

[douxmadchen]

^exactly sis. i don't get why people need to show the world what they got. nakakaloka. sadly, i have many friends who are like these. masama man, but i think of them as social climbers talaga. meron akong isang friend na kinabog na talaga lahat ng kayabangan. tipong wala naman sa usapan or anything talagang ilalabas yung bago nyang item and will bring the convo dun. nakakainis. di naman talaga mayaman. alam mo yun? parang bakit ka nagyayabang when in fact, yung niyayabangan nya eh sa totoo lang yun talaga yung may mga kaya. not only that, when you compliment a stuff she owns, instead of hearing "thank you" sasabihin nya pa where she got it and its price! di naman tinatanong! hahaha. oo na lang kami and medj natatawa sa kanya deep inside. poor soul.

[angelzero]

Meron akong naging  sort of friend na wala akong choice kundi kaibiganin sya kasi close sila nung bff ko that time. so whenever i hangout w/ my bff nandun sya. sa totoo lang hindi ko sya vibes kasi mayabang sya. she brags about everything. her personal things na mamahalin daw lahat, san nya gusto mag shop, how all her friends are magaganda etc etc. ako naman, being "nice", i just listen to her stories and pretend to be interested. kaya pag nagkikita kami ni bff i was always wishing na hindi nya kasama si mayabang na friend nya.