Mga friends na puro YABANG ang alam.. thread 2

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

Usually naman people who lives luxuriously in life doesnt post their branded clothings anymore. You'll see them wear branded things but you wont see them flaunt it in facebook.I noticed that only people wants approval of others are the ones posting away.I think lets face it, if you are so used to something that is very much normal to you already, you wont make a big deal out of it anymore.People who grew up with everything with them wont post their lastest gadget on facebook once they get a hold of it if they always get the latest one everytime  since they were kids.usually, I notice the ones who really has the bragging rights are the ones who doesnt brag.The ones who doesnt have any right to brag are the ones bragging till their hearts content.  I dont believe when people say " may karapatan naman kasi magyabang eh!" kasi the REAL WEALTHY people are the most humble of all.mga nag"yayaman yamanan" lang sila yung showy sa gamit nila.

[izabelle]

^ so true..

"REAL WEALTHY people are the most humble of all"

[micci]

^i agree..

i know someone na pati ang Bible pinagyayabang..there was an office activity and they had to book some hotel rooms for those involved..kinabukasan,ang post nya sa facebook,picture sa window overlooking the view with her hand showing that she's holding a Bible *rolls eyes* i mean,do you have to brag or let people know how "religious" you are?same as mga tunay na mayayaman,real"religious" people don't brag about their faith..

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

I remember someone who posted her schengen visa before and her gps showing she is at a place worth " checking in"  I used to not understand why people need to post their passport and visa and boarding pass then. So, I told someone and tells me " hayaan mo sya, may karapatan naman siya kasi mapera naman siya" this thought entered my mind " if you have lots of money, you probably have tours outside Philippines for pleasure and travelling is just NOTHING to you since you are so used to be out of country that it will be 2nd nature to breathing, you need NOT post every single stubs or flyers you see in the airport for you to take a picture of and post it on facebook. I dont think well travelled people do that!

[chefron]

Kung napost nya yun sa album nya ok lang pero if wall photos or mobile uploads, yun ang medyo off.

Siguro sya yung mayaman na madaming oras sa buhay, sya yung tipo din siguro ng tao na gusto na lagi syang pinapansin

[izabelle]

sa akin talaga basta ang post ay about travel and babies ok na ok lang sa akin kahit gaano ka detailed basta about travel and babies never ko nakitaan ng kayabangan. siguro kasi pala travel din ako before and at some point naging ganon din ako.. plus nanay na din ako so iba kasi feeling kapag mom ka proud ka sa anak mo syempre.

also kapag kilala ko ang tao and i know the background and they post accomplishments like a new house, car etc, (basta huwag naman OA na OA na post lol) eh natutuwa ako for them. kasi i know the feeling na pinaghirapan mo isang property e.

basta ang nakakasuka for me LOL eh yung ultimo paper bag kung san nag shopping eh pinopost pa as in EVERY TIME nag shoshopping ganon ginagawa tapos alam ko naman background nya hahaha!

halata sa tao kapag trying hard

again, tingin ko depende talaga sa nagpopost at paano nya pinopost

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

For me, regarding travel I'd rather see the tourist spots na lang.oks lang travel pics pero wag naman pati passport mo ipapaskil pa.OA! Better sa historical places or mga places na pinakita sa movies ka na lang mag pa picture.Napapa roll eyes ko pag nakakakita ako ng mga posts ng plane tickets, boarding pass eh.mga kilala ko kasing mga well travelled di naman nagppaskil ng schengen visa nila or whatever visa they get.Ang nakikita ko na lang mga pics from a place na sa When harry met Sally or Notting Hill. Or mga tourist spots na lang.yun ok for me. Though I still cringe when i see weird postings like mga travel pass. Iniintindi ko na lang. Baka first time kaya ganun.Not a frequent traveller, but also not a deprived one. But posting petty things like posting my stubs or tickets has never entered my mind. I post  travel pics but I dont remember posting even my stub for arrival or departure, passport, visas, and boarding pass.Kaya siguro, naweweirduhan ako.

Pag sanay sa travel ang tao, di na nila pa pino post pa mga ganun bagay. Sanay na sila mabigyan  ng US visa or renew na lang ng renew wala na sa kanila yun para ipaskil pa. Posting of the house is a no no! (for security reasons) unless you want to get traced by people who has bad intentions and invite them to your house and attract them to raid your home,then include your address too! It will be of great help to them to get to your house faster! Cars  or motorcycles etc.Still, a hazardous thing to post.Yes, its an achievement but you also have to think about your protection! Remember, not all people around you has the best intention for you! Ika nga nila " hindi lahat ng magnanakaw di mo kilala,yung iba baka nasa friends list mo na!" yung mga di nga nag popost ng kung ano mayroon sila or galing sa pinaghirapan nalolooban at nananakawan na. Ano pa kaya yung nag invite ka pa?unless gusto mo mawala ang pinaghirapan mong kotse or kung ano man. Go ahead! Post away!:)

I guess, people should share responsibly. Think before you click. Huge difference between sharing and oversharing!:)

[tomatostellar]

Feeling ko may ganon talaga; way of defense mechanism siguro, bakit naman kasi sila magpopost ng pics to show misery diba? Kaya yabang na lang;;
Pero i super hate yung mga kunwaring nag cocomplain pero nagyayabang talaga,,

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

@izabelle- yung paperbag thing..  laki siguro ng insecurity ng mga taong  nagpapaskil nun sa katawan.Kailangan ipag paalam pa sa lahat.Di na lang hintayin na may magandahan sa suot niya at mag tanong kung saan niya binili yun.

[izabelle]

^ i also don't understand the paper bag thing. Siguro kung once or twice oks lang.. but every time nalang na nag shopping? i mean, first time mo ate? hahaha! not only that, with matching pics pa kung saan binili ang damit.. so its like holding the paper bag while nasa labas ng shop san binili kalurkey diba?

ako i love shopping BUT NEVER as in NEVER ko ginawa yan.

[mamapeew]

Iba na talaga ata ang effect ng fb and instagram. Last night, we dined out sa megamall lang sa chicken bacolod inasal. I saw this mom with 2 kids. Nung sinerve yung food, imbes na pakinin na mga anak nya, she whipped out her camera and started taking pictures "of the food". Chicken inasal ha. Nauna pa kaming kumain sa kanila. Well, i don't know her, I don't know her reasons, maybe she's documenting the food that they're eating, ewan ko. I just find it weird na. Whatever happened to family dinners na kainan lang and picture taking na mga tao ang kinukunan? Just wondering.    sabi ng husband ko, bago siguro camera. Hehe... Ewan.

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

Alam ko nga yan, magpapa picture sa  harapan ng shop while holding their paperbag. Kailangan may proof na totoo ang binili niya? Kasi baka their face just cant bring justice to the brand na nagmumukhang branded greenhills pag sila nag suot. Pathetic!

[sixteen16]

kanya-kanyang trip.. alam mo naman kung sino yung nagyayabang lang at sino yung hinde.. just hit the unfriend button or the unsubscribe button.. let's just respect them.

i have instagram mahilig ako magpost ng mga stuff like foods, mga things na binili ko pero hindi ibig sabihin nagyayabang.. try to have one para maappreciate nyo. more on photography kasi ang instagram.

sa fb, i don't share those things na kelangan pa iconnect sa fb yung instagram. sa fb talagang pictures lang talaga ng sarili ko, family and barkada. fb is my photo album. nasa tao na rin kung ano ang pag-iinterpret nila sa pinopost mo.

may mga friends din ako sa fb na alam mo naman talagang yabang lang ang purpose. ang ginagawa ko "hide" ko sila.

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

Kahit sa instagram there are people who just has to show the brand name of her things.i just had to block them. The name just had to be shown, or she just had to take a picture of the paperbags.i would probably be more tolerable if an object is shown.you just cant have instagram full of paperbags of this and that, or everything in the instagram has a label showing.I have some stuff also in my instagram, but I blur the brand out.everybody doesnt need to know the brand I use.( branded or not!)

[chefron]

mabubuang lang ang tao kung lahat ng sinasabi dito eh sasaloobin mo. 

kanya kanyang buhay so respeto na lang. theres such a word called IGNORE. 

at minsan nasa perspective na lang din yan ng mga tumitingin, you cannot please everyone so why care kung ano iisipin nila? kung ayaw nila makita ang ginagawa mo sa FB then mag unfriend or unsubscribe sila, simple as that....at kung ginawa nga nila yun, meaning to say di ka nila kilalang talaga

[izabelle]

^yes ignore and unsubscribed.

that's why i always say depende sa tao, sa pinopost, sa kung paano magpost..

minsan nga dahil kilala mo sya mas lalong nakakainis kasi alam mo na hindi sya ganon before pero just because nakapunta lang ng US or nakatikim lang ng konting pera naging mayabang na. so parang maiisip mo na hindi naman sya ganon dati a tapos naging ganyan na ngayon.

or tipong you know very well ano background nya and even the work (hindi sa nangmamaliit or nanlalait  pero be true to yourself ika nga) pero kung makapag salita ganon ganon nalang na parang dugong bughaw ba.. lol

actually most of the time funny mga ganon tao kesa nakakainis

[kikaygimikera]

I agree. Some people thinks na pagmamayabang yung ginagawa ng ibang tao, yung iba wala namang bearing sa kanila. Sometines, mapapansin mo, yung mga taong yabang na yabang ka, yung [textspeak!] kaaway mo or least favorite person mo. O kaya naman may inggit ka. Maraming mayabang DAW sa facebook ko, na sinasabi ng mga friends ko mayabang raw yung itong ganitong tao. But I don't see them mayabang talaga. Minsan nasa tao ding tumitingin. I don't judge people sa facebook na kasi ganun daw talaga, may facebook envy. If you try to google it, meron daw nun. People will tend to post positive things about themselves kaya ayan yung mga taong mostly walang magawa o lgusto moalaman every kibot ng tao eh, ayun nayayabangan sa mga nakikita nila.

Dapat talaga hide people you don't like or better yet unfriend them di ka pala happy sa achievements nila, or di talaga kayo friends enough to tell them bluntly what you think of their posts.

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

There are times, when I cant help myself.. I comment on people's pictures. " talagang kailangan ipost pa yan?talagang kailangan malaman ng sambayanan na kumakain ka ng Magnum? Uhmm,Achievement mo ba yan?"

[tiggerlily]

^haha!  syempre kung walang basagan ng trip ng mga nagyayabang, wala ring basagan ng trip ang mga nambabara.

e ok lang naman sa kin magyabang e. may isa akong friend talagang mayabang yun since elementary pa. pero ok lang sa kin. naaaliw nga ako sa posts nya kasi talagang mayaman yun. puro tungkol sa cars at drifting nga ang mga posts nun e. alam ko na may pinanggagalingan talaga yun yabang nya at may ipagyayabang talaga. ang nagiging entertainment ko e yung mga post ng post ng mga pasosyal at lakwatsa, tapos simpleng meralco lang ng bahay nila di nya mabayaran. sows...

[chefron]

minsan kung sino yung naiinis, yun ang insecure LOL