How to Forgive? Ang Hirap Kasi.

[mhy_pie03]

^Grabe naman yung ganyan teh. Yung mami ko nung mag-memenopause medyo naging OA din ang ugali. Eh highschool lang ako nun. Isang umaga pagkagising ko naglagay ako ng zesto ko sa freezer para babaunin ko tas nakita niya isa lang nilagay ko. Nagalit siya bigla kasi bakit daw isa lang, hindi ko man lang daw siya naisip. Basta parang ganun hanggang sa nagaway kami tas tinutukan ako ng patalim. Pumasok nalang ako sa eskwela ng hindi nagpapaalam kaso sinundan ako at pinagtatalakan kaya nakita kami mga ka-eskwela ko. Naglayas ako nun at nagpunta sa ex ng kuya ko. Kaya magmula nun nagbago na siya ng ugali. Nagkakairitahan parin kami ngayon pero mas nagkakaintindihan na kami. Yung tatay ko ang hindi ko na kasundo. Baligtad na.

[burgundy]

Marami palang mothers ang may topak. 

Pero Sis, try to let go of your anger kasi ikaw lang ang talo. The longer you carry this 'pain' eh the longer you will suffer. Hanggang ngayon eh panalo pa rin sila. Yes, you may never ever forget what you went through sa parents mo, but do try your best to forgive them. Always tell yourself na you forgive them, paulit-ulit hangang ikaw mismo eh maniwala na rin na  you already forgiven them

God will take care of you, sya na rin ang bahala sa kanila.

[honeybunny]

it was hard for me din to forgive, but i have read somewhere na forgiveness is not for the person who caused us hurt, but for us to be free from that pain

sabi nga sa link: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/12/10/4-reasons-to-forgive-but-not-forget/
By refusing to forgive someone, we’re choosing to hold on to all the anger and bitterness that their actions have created. When we choose to hold onto this anger and let it eat us up, it can make us irritable, impatient, distracted, and even physically ill.Forgiveness is all about us, and not about the other person. We don’t forgive other people because they deserve it. If that were the litmus test for when to forgive, it would rarely ever happen. Instead we choose to forgive those who have hurt us because we cannot fully let go of the destructive emotions inside of us until we do. Forgiveness is not a justice issue; it’s a heart issue.

[17glut]

Any person can learn to forgive but not forget. Lagi nang nakatatak sa isip mo yan.

[twix01]

it was hard for me din to forgive, but i have read somewhere na forgiveness is not for the person who caused us hurt, but for us to be free from that pain

sabi nga sa link: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/12/10/4-reasons-to-forgive-but-not-forget/
By refusing to forgive someone, we’re choosing to hold on to all the anger and bitterness that their actions have created. When we choose to hold onto this anger and let it eat us up, it can make us irritable, impatient, distracted, and even physically ill.Forgiveness is all about us, and not about the other person. We don’t forgive other people because they deserve it. If that were the litmus test for when to forgive, it would rarely ever happen. Instead we choose to forgive those who have hurt us because we cannot fully let go of the destructive emotions inside of us until we do. Forgiveness is not a justice issue; it’s a heart issue.

thanks for sharing I couldn't agree more!

[snowflakes]

For me it takes time to forgive, kung palage ka nasasaktan pag naaalala mo mga ginawa nila sayo im sure hinde ka pa handa magpatawad. Wag mo pilitin sarili mo. Learn to accept na tapos na yun at wala ka na magagawa pa. Eventually matututunan mo sila patawarin kahit mahirap magagawa mo thru Gods help. Promise, hinde mo kaya mag isa yan, hinge ka tulong ke Lord na tanggalin lahat ng galit sa puso mo.