"Im not excited to see you..."

[bubbles_sandy]

it hurts big time! what should I do?

[spacemonkey]

what a douche-y thing to say.... don't see him then.

[janix athena]

Bakit nya nasabi yun sis?

[hot_chili]

what a douche-y thing to say.... don't see him then.

agree, better start moving on

[Jenny.Dec1]

If you think he's just having a bad time, ask why. If you feel that he's not really into you anymore cut your loss. Weigh your man, has he been acting detach lately or this is just a one time thing.

[blackroseMD]

masakit talaga yan.... Inimagine ko yung sarili ko... na ako yung sinabihan nyan... Masakit nga...
But you should also think why? May nagawa kaba? May problema ba siya? tignan mo lahat ng sides, look at the possbile factors contributing sa pagbitaw nya ng statement na yun.. Baka may pinagdadaanan siya...
Talk to him... You know him more than we do... you should know kung kelan siya stressed kung kelan nya mini-mean talaga yung mga sinasabi nya...
Minsan kasi may tendency tayo na we're always looking at ourselves... Minsan we have to dig deeper at our man's heart before jumping into any conclusions and assumptions...

[Filipinasadhart]

ang sakit pakinggan 

[baliwsayo]

Bakit niya nasabi yun? Baka naman nasa asaran mode kayo tapos pikon ka lang? Care to make kwento saan ang pinagmulan ng statement niya na yun?

[bangs29]

  kung ako sinabihan niyan kukulot siguro ang bangs ko  joke, kahit siguro may problem siya o may nagawa kang mali sa kaniya, di niya masasabi yan kung talagang he's not excited to see you na. since wala naman nabigay na kwento si sis, opinion ko, di ka na niya mahal, may iba na siya, or bi polar personality siya.  better look for someone else na.

[rianne_mallows]

may LQ? kaka LQ lang? you wanted to meet and that was his answer? simple lang. galit pa siya

[rianne_mallows]

wait... same company kayo.. same ba sa sched pati breaks and uwian?
i smell "extra-curricular" activities sa part ni boyfie mo

ok benefit of the doubt,  IF wala ngang other girl, pwede kasing minsan yung
"i want to be with my girlfriend" ,
napapalitan ng "i have to be with my girlfriend or else.."

yun yung nakakafed-up minsan IF demanding ang girl.
ikaw lang makakasagot kung demanding ka ba o hindi.

sa totoo lang, hindi ako naniniwala sa "sawaan" eh. may ibang dahilan kung bakit nanawa.
kasi kung constant togetherness lang talaga ang issue niya, wala na sigurong mag-asawang nagsasama pa din hanggang ngayon.

ngayon, let him be muna. lalo ka sasabihan niyan na clingy kapag kinulit mo pa siya. kung may babae man siya, wala ka din naman din pwede gawin eh. ang lalake, mambabae at mambabae yan kung gusto talaga nila mambabae.

[miss resilient]

di ka na niya siguro love...or may nagawa kang mali kaya naging cold na sha sa yo.

[dumpee.o13]

Yan yung mahirap pag same ang workplace nyo ng partner mo.. Sa totoo lang, kaya ayoko rin magka-BF sa office e' hard part is that pag nagbreak kayo, mas mahihirapan ka. (Sorry for being harsh pero I'm just being realistic here.) So I think, pa-miss muna nang konte sis.. Hayaan mo nalang muna sya sa gusto nya. Wag mo gawin yung usual mong ginagawa and hayaan mong hanap-hanapin nya yun. =)

[phoebe1811]

yeah i agree with you dumpee.o13...nawawala kasi yung excitement pag magkasama kayo ssa isang company though i knew some na nag work yung ganito. professional sila when it comes to work but after work saka lang sila nagkikita as bf/gf..you should also have separate group of friends para you'll still have your own identity at hindi ka nakapraning sa side mo 

[don em]

Try to read "Why men love bitches", baka nasasakal si BF kaya ganun. Mas marami kasi sa lalaki ang gusto nachachallenge sila at sila naghahabol.

[Kriman]

baka, may ibang gusto kana 

[bubbles_sandy]

men sometimes are complicated and assuming... i talked to him and explain my side. hopefully all is well

[Serena.]

backfire! -- SO AM I, as*hole!



xo

[bubbles_sandy]

well ng sorry naman sya when i told him about my side. kaya lang hindi maiwasan na you will think negatively about it like he's into someone else or wala ng thrill sa yo. i just let him be nowadays. we' re okay right now but my guards are really up. it was just breakfast and lunch and tapos uwi din kaagad, yung tipong gusto mo [textspeak!] makasabay sya kumain ,over reacting lang talaga sya.