May "SAY" ba ang tagal ng relationship nyo para hindi magcheat ang partner mo?

[lalee888]

^^Sis shadow Angel, yep tama ka.. thank God my husband ayaw mag cheat, he values our marriage and hindi nya yun gusto masira. He knows ill walk out forever if he does something stoopid. But i remind him to acknowledge temptation is around, i can already come up with many situations na pwedeng merong moment of weakness or poor judgement, or even UNKNOWING temptation. The grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side. And for men, they feel a rush of youth and exuberance when they are with a carefree 21 year old versus their resilient wife of an older age.. it seems exciting to them parang nabubuhay sila ulit kasi at 21 a girl has no problems, and is carefree so...ang sarap kasama. My mom nga prefers to talk to my younger cousins sa parties, instead of mga tita and tito kasi mas refreshing ang views sa mundo.

Kaya best to know it is there, and work to AVOID it (be conscious) than be put in that situation.

And yes sis, basta may 3rd party na, cheating is cheating.. no gray area there..

^sis nerddict, when younger and have no responsibilities (single), it's easy to make that choice kaya for me (and you) we made that and just started all over again. Sarap ng feeling. Nasabi ko if i have kids, and my husband potentially cheats, ONS mistake, i may entertain healing with a lot of work because it might be a better option when raising a family, to have the dad present, helping sa house, etc. But that's a lot of work of remorse, counselling, etc.. and he will do most of it...sakin is forgiveness and no hard feelings/contempt siguro... but if he really has in illicit affair, hindi na fixable yun for me..

now newly-married kame, no kids. if my hubby cheats, i can choose to just move on without him kasi wala naman madadamay na kids. i can forgive but choose to go solo pa rin.

[argento]

^argento, if your gf/wife had a one night stand, you won't call her a cheater? You won't call what she did cheating?

its cheating siyempre but there is really no comparison
men need sex. we can have it without feelings involved.
ONS mean nothing to us. 

[mysterioza_me]

LOL. Conceited. Double-standard mindset.

Kawawa gf/wife nito. Siya pwede makipagsex sa iba pero si girl pagnakipagONS cheater siya. Hahaha.

Women need sex too and some of us can also do it without feelings kaya nga po may babae na payag sa ONS. Bakit kapwa mo ba lalake ka-ONS mo?!

[Shadow Angel]

^hahaha sis tawang tawa ako sa last comment mo.

[nerddict]

men need sex.

sexist much? This is probably the most used palusot ng mga cheater na "men need sex". Women need it, too. Pero to cheat on your partner dahil lang ng libog tapos sasabihin na hindi cheating yon, ay maling mali yon.

^mga sis, kaloka di'ba? Ano mindset ito? LOL

[mysterioza_me]

^Tama. Sexist much.

Hindi ata siya aware na may mga babae na liberated ang pananaw sa sex at ready din makipagsex?no strings attached?basta sex lang. Pagganyan ba gf mo hindi na siya cheater kasi wala naman feelings na involve?! Nagkataon lang na bitin siya sayo kaya naghanap pa sa iba.

[nerddict]

^baka he's so used to having ONS with women (na ang iba siguro committed din) kaya ganyan sya. sa kadamihan, naging normal na sa kanya kaya hindi nya na maconsider na cheating yon.

[mysterioza_me]

^Sis nauna ko nga naisip na baka lalake mga naka-ONS niya, according to him kasi men lang ang kaya makipagsex without feelings involve. Alangan naman pagkakita ng girl sa kanya may feelings na agad at nakipagsex na, so malamang lalake ang nakaka-ONS niya since sila naman ang laban lang sa sex dahil sa needs nila. Napaka-narcissistic lang ang peg if sasabihin niya na may nameet siya at nagsex sila agad dahil may feelings sa kanya si girl. Naku ha. Wag ako!

[kvandenhaak]

Natatawa ako sa mga hirit ni mysterioza_me....lol!

[Shadow Angel]

^ako rin hahaha imbes na ma imbyerna ako about sa cheating sa ONS natatawa ako. Sa totoo lang medyo na kaka HB naman kasi na sabihin sayo pag babae cheating pero pag lalaki we have "needs".

[nerddict]

oh argento, pakisagot nga nung naiisip namin. LOL.

kapag sila sexist, okay na okay. Kapag babae, hindi? Oh men.

[bratty]

Bumanat naman ngayon ng "needs"

[lalee888]

i actually feel really sad for that kind of excuse and line of thinking by one of the posters here... (obvious naman sino...) it just shows how, primitive it is and clearly someone i'd never associate myself with. it's a very basic way of thinking, parang yung mental capacity hindi nagagamit, sayang ang utak pag ganun kasi hindi ginagamit para mag-isip, mag-analyze, mag-discern..

ignore na lang mga ladies, not worth our breath. 

[nerddict]

^true sis. hahaha! ang mahalaga yung moral natin at dignidad, malinaw na malinaw.