Lessons you learned from LOVE

[Akosiding]

i'VE learned na love just like pain is inevitable. You just have to be true,  love with all you have. Love isn't quantifiable. I mean don't count how much you give and how much you receive, this isn't business. In the end, the ones who will find it hard to move on are those who didn't give much of what they think they should have. It's something that hold them back.

[Miss Taken]

Never expect too much. You both have to meet halfway. Give and take lang naman kasi talaga yan eh. Ok lang saken magmahal ka ng sobra pero open pa rin dapat yung mind mo sa mga pwedeng mangyari. If you think na nagawa mo na lahat but then hindi pa rin talaga maayos yung relationship niyo then you have to let it go. Not everything is meant to be fixed.

[Cheonsa.Maggie]

Another lesson I've learned from LOVE:

Hindi nakakapagod ipaglaban ang pagmamahal.


"NAKAKASAKIT, MASAKIT"


Its okay for me to fight for love for I know its worth the fight. But when the time comes na you're fighting alone where in it should be the two of you. Yun yung masakit. Nakakasakit in terms of you already did your part and sana naman he did his part too pero hindi.


I lied to you. I told you hindi na kita mahal na mahal but the truth is YES! Mahal na mahal parin kita but I need to protect myself again. Ayokong makita mong isang salita mo lang titiklop na agad ako. I lied telling you na napapagod na ako ipaglaban ka. Hindi ako mapapagod kung ikaw yung ipaglalaban ko pero it was too painful. Painful in a way na ako yung lumalaban sating dalawa pero wala kang ginagawa. Hindi nakakapagod pero ang nakakasakit. At yung sakit na yun, in the end, feeling too much pain will cost you to just give up. Give up not because i dont love you anymore. Give up all because nothing is happening. The fight is not worth it.

[Redishred Correa]

Sobrang dami kong natutunan sa love dahil na rin sa bf ko ngayon na kung magadvice ay parang si papa Jack na dj. E kaso lagi ba dapat tama? Lagi ba dapat questionin ang mali? Di ba pwedeng sorry na lang pag nagkakamali? Mas mahalaga dapat ang partner mo kesa sa maling nagawa nya di ba?

[fionnah325]

dont give all your trust to the person na mahal mo...love yourself first bago ka magmahal...

be mature in handle a relationship..Huwag mong iyakan ang tao kung alam mong hindi siya deserving para sayo....

[sugardrop]

Men and women are 100000%++++ wired differently. We can't expect men to think, act, and deal with things the same way that most of us women do.

Though effective, medyo gasgas na for me yung sinasabi na "think like a man". Pwede din namang think like a woman for them. Sila naman mag-adjust! - I am not serious about this line. I mean, if we'd think like a man na lang lagi, where's the fun in being a girl? Kaya nga iba wirings natin eh.  Just thinking out loud.

[simang]

From my favorite relationship coach:

"The guy who acts the wrong way around other women will often act the right way around the woman who knows what she's doing."

[simang]

"When you love and care about someone deeply, and you’re in a trusting relationship, it is mostly easy.
Don’t get me wrong; relationships require hard work, but you shouldn’t have to force it.
Lastly, when you know, you know. You don’t worry. You just feel the love, and you know it won’t go away.
You rest at night easily when you feel the love throughout your veins. When things suck, he makes them suck less.
Even when he’s half asleep, he still cares and wants to hear about whatever you’re frustrated or sad about.
He wants you happy, and he would do just about anything to keep you for himself.

[reighnyielle]

One of the best things I've learned about love is not to get too attached kasi laying all our feelings out on the line will just screw us over and f***ed us up emotionally.

[josebeth]

IBABA ANG PRIDE/EGO

kahit ano pang mangyare PRIDE can never make us happy. if we already know na we have faults naman sa away babaan nalang natin pride natin kasi kung magpapataasan pa ng pride with your partner I'm sure mas mag tatagal lang ang away.

[candygrenade]

Thoughts on “The One”

Whenever you desperately (and I’m using the word desperately on purpose), look at somebody and decide that they’re the one, your desperation is coming from a place of fear.  Fear that no one else that good, or god-forbid better, is ever going to come into your reality.  If you get rid of that fear, then you can understand that this person is just, “A One.”  They are not necessarily, “The One.”  They’re somebody who’s in your reality right now because they are there to show you things.  If it’s bringing up desperation within you, that’s part of the reason why they’re there.  There are a lot of people who are in your reality only as pre-cursors; they are not yet the ultimate manifestation of what you want, they just look a lot like it.  Yet a lot of the time, they look a lot like it only from one perspective, and if you actually got to know them way, way better, you’d realize that they are not actually who you want.  Often times, people know this but they don’t want to realize it; they go into denial, and say this is the best that they’ve ever found. They are willing to put up with all that other stuff in order to get some of the really good stuff.

Keep working on yourself and trust that it will come together. Don’t ever put that responsibility on one particular person who isn’t coming in that way. Consider it a pre-cursor – somebody who has come in to show you that you’re on the right path. They’ve shown you some things that you are already a match to, and some things that you aren’t yet a match to. Things that are not yet present, like him not asking you out or him not wanting to be in that kind of relationship with you, those are the things you don’t want, and where you still have some work to do. Don’t glom onto a specific person and decide that they are the one. Generally when you do that – they’re not!

[fornarina]

Don't find love, let it find you.... So cliche but it's true instead find your true happiness, pursue what you love and what makes you happy and soon happiness will soon find you, just trust the process and believe and of course pray and surrender to God 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[silver_crescent]

Choose your battles. Hindi lahat ng away kelangang palakihin. And don't always resort to breakup. Kakapagod yung bawat away break tas pag nagkaayos magkakabalikan ulet. Nakakairita ring makita sa Facebook yung papalit palit ng relationship status. Haha! Kelangan magpakalma muna tapos pag-usapan yung issue then compromise. As you grow up, matututunan din gawin to kasi medyo mas nagiging stable ang mga emotions nating mga girls. 😉

[mindiegirl]

^love it silver crescent!

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- Know what you want but be realistic with it.
- Women are meant to be pursued. Man loves it that way.
- Be sure na yung mga  qualities na hinahanap mo sa partner mo e pina practice mo din.
- Love is not a feeling. Its a decision you will make everyday. Love is an action word not an adjective.

💛💞

[simang]

There needs to be a balance between enjoying the present and comfortably laying the foundation for a future.

[honeybunny]

- Love is not a feeling. Its a decision you will make everyday. Love is an action word not an adjective.

💛💞

This! I sooo agree!

[silver_crescent]

- Love is not a feeling. Its a decision you will make everyday. Love is an action word not an adjective.

💛💞

Love this too @mindiegirl! Naalala ko tuloy yung movie na Bride For Rent dito. 😄

[dianneregudo]

One of the things that I learned about loving someone is we should not let ourselves the only one making an effort kasi love is a two-way thing kailangan both of you are making an effort to nurture it and take care of it. You should not be taken for granted if you are important to the guy he will ALWAYS make a way para iparamdam yun sayo bu if not I guess you should find someone who will treat you right and give you the best love that you deserve.

[TomHansen]

Love isn't always enough..

[hidinginseoul]

You can't always assume in love. You can't assume na the person knows how you feel based on actions alone. It needs consistency. It also has to be a team effort. Hindi porket guy siya, siya na lang lagi ang magiinitiate or kikilos. You can't be too passive in love.

Pero the most important thing I've learned, you can't be in love and be with someone if your life is filled with fears and insecurities. A friend once told me na kung puno pa ako ng fear sa love, kalimutan ko na lang daw.