Lessons you learned from LOVE

[twilkai]

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[janix athena]

Lessons I learned about love:

1. Hindi porke kinikilig ka sa isang tao eh love mo na sya.

2. Hindi porke mahal mo ang isang tao eh dapat na kayong magpakasal.
    -I loved someone who had a temper. Hindi rin kami magkasundo because of difference in religion. If I just listened to my heart, I would have thrown caution to the wind. Pero since I was using both head and heart, I let him go. Hindi naman ako nagkamali.

3. We should wait until later in life to really commit to someone, especially sa girls. Why? Kasi ang babae can't have too may trials and errors. Especially if everytime she has a bf eh may "something something" na. I believe it's better if we don't have much wear and tear.

 Also because our teenage crush noon might not be so appealing now anymore. When we're younger, we tend to be attractd to a person's superficial qualities (gwapo, magaling sumayaw, magaling pumorma, sikat sa school, etc). When we're older, we see the character of the guy (responsible, mature, respectful, loyal, etc)

4. Couples should not live with in-laws. If you're not ready to live on your own as a married couple, then don't get married.

5. Love takes a lot of hard-work. It's about being willing to compromise and it should be give and take.

6. When you ask God to lead you to the right person, He will. He may not be the most gwapo guy out there, but he will be your perfect match. Our judgement, most of the time, is short sighted. We need divine guidance in choosing our life partner.

[rainbow_gal]

Hindi pwede puro heart lang. Dapat gamitan din ng konting brain. 

[hedonista]

1. quesehodang magna cum laude ka pa, pagdating sa pag ibig nakakabobo talaga minsan

"tali-talino mo pero nagpaka t**** ka sa lalake na yan" - sabi nga ng matatanda.. an old saying. still happens now to some people

2. Never give up.

"When asked how they managed to stay together for 65 years, the woman replied "WE WERE BORN in a TIME when if something is broken, you fix it...not throw it away"

3. KAPAG GUSTO MAY PARAAN, PAG AYAW MAY DAHILAN.

[jemster]

Never give your complete trust. EVER

[jaqiiG]

With regards to cheating.. Women tend to forgive and take them back, men can make awesome excuses like you were so distant/indifferent. Don't know what you believe pero for me it's simple.

Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't want you in return. If he strays then he obviously didn't want you enough. Don't bother with him and find the right guy for you. You deserve better.

[HoldingOn]

1. You should Love God first.
2. Love yourself next to God.
3. Everything changes. So enjoy whatever makes you happy NOW!

[mishyewarians]

lesson learned: sometimes, love has no power to keep two souls together.

[dumpee.o13]

~ Walang bagay na permanente sa mundo, lahat pwedeng magbago. You'll just have to be ready for it.

[aquacharly]

Love is always kind. 
Love cannot be forced.
Love does not make cuenta...
Hindi como you love, eh kelangan magpakaTang-A ka na.
Sh1t happens even to the undeserving.
You may be heartbroken, but that  doesn't mean you gotta  be the Loser. 
Sabi ng  darling Lola Ko: L1ntek lang walang ganti.

[baliwsayo]

^harhar ditto to the last one sis but then again, isip ko after pag nahimasmasan na ako na why make an effort to make ganti pa? Best revenge is to move on na lang. 

Anyway, to answer the question.. well honestly, after every relationship I would think na at least I have learned something from the heartbreak kaso pag na-inlove na naman ako, nalilimutan ko naman lahat ng lessons na yun eh. 

I've always believed that we only live once so might as well give my best shot at everything I do para no regrets. Di naman nakakamatay ang brokenheart eh so enjoy ko na lang siya while it last. 

[jeninajenina]

well ewan ko kung tama ba yung interpretation ko sa nanyare sakin, but...

• Love makes you do stupid things - I've seen this and doubted this numerous times, Siguro kaya when it struck me, I intend not to notice it until I was out of the relationship, Nakikita ko rin yun ngayon sa friend ko dahil halos parehas kami ng experience, I just hope she would get out of that nightmare soon enough... 
• Hindi Sapat na Ikaw lang ang nagmamahal - well mahirap kasi maghabol ng maghabol sa tao na sinasabing mahal ka pero di pinapakita, wag ka na umasa sa mga salita nya, dahil kung mahal ka nya diaabot sa gulo ang lahat..
• Lowering your standard is almost similar to Lowering your self-respect, hindi naman yung pagllower ng standards e di sya gwapo, what i meant is extending your limits and hoping this person will magically love me the way i wanted to is crazy and will never ever ever ever work
• if a man wants you,  nothing can keep him away, and if he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay - i learnt this the hardest way i'd ever imagined, kaya ewan ko kung OA ba ko or What, pero ngayon, ang gusto ko lalake naman ang mageeffort para sakin, dahil napagod ako na mageffort sa taong sobrang manhid,  willing naman ako mageffort ulit, gusto ko lang ipakita ni susunod na mister right[?] na worth it sya, before i do.

[teejiko]

Hindi lahat ng dinidikta ng puso ay tama

[soLaris]

respect begets respect - ang taong marunong rumespeto sa kapwa, marunong din rumespeto sa asawa/partner/gf

[xenos54]

walang namamatay sa sakit na "broken-heart attack"

[killbill]

1. It's easy to fall in love, yet loving isn't so easy.

2. Mahalin mo muna sarili mo, bago ka magmahal ng iba.

3. If a guy starts acting weird or dissapears, wag i-over analyze ang situation, wag na mag isip ng kung ano-ano, never justify, wag maghanap ng closure, wag nang mag isip what went wrong, what might have been, what could have been, sad but true - He's just NOT that into you, yun lang yun... wag na pag aksayahan ng time, energy or effort. Just accept it, and move on.

4. A mistake is repeated until lesson is learned.

5. Hindi sapat na ulit-ulitin mo yung mga magagandang memories niyo together, panghawakan yung mga ka-sweetan.  Pag ganun, niloloko mo na sarili mo.

[ohmygosh]

don't repeat the same mistakes.
do not nag.
you're not always right.

[oyster]

Never expect too much.

At Walang lalaking torpe. Pa-safe,Oo. Pero torpe wala

[killbill]

about 10 years ago after namin mag break ng first serious Bf ko, i thought katapusan na ng mundo, na hindi na ako makakabangon pa... silly me

[weweng20]

wala naman masyado !just learned to hold on lang if you care for that someone else !:))