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iamfab

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lifeless after break up
« on: May 31, 2012, 05:03:17 pm »
mga sis.. sana you can enlighten me..

di ko kasi maintindihan.. sa tinagal na naming wala ng ex ko, parang di pa din ako makabalik sa dating ako..

Feeling ko okay na ko e, naka-let go na ko... at nalagpasan ko na depression ko.
nag entertain na din ako ng new guy..

and yet, life seems meaningless. wala akong ma-look forward.
anything goes na lang for me. kung ano mangyari, edi nangyari. I used to dream big, and i used to be motivated.. i used to be excited with everything...

Pero ngayon, kahit anung push ko sa sarili ko, wala akong pag hugutan ng lakas..
minsan nga naiisip ko, kahit yata mawala na ko at an early age, okay na ko..

this all started after the break up.. how do i get back on my feet?

dumpee.o13

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Re: lifeless after break up
« Reply #1 on: June 01, 2012, 01:11:21 am »
^ aww. i understand you sis. halos same lang tayo ng experience. it's just that di ko naman naiisip na my life is meaningless. eto lagi tatandaan mo and this is what i learned, there's still life after a break-up and it really doesn't end there lang. enjoy life! yun lang ang ginagawa ko talaga. di ko sya masyado iniisip, yung nangyare. think of happy thoughts lang. positive vibes kumbaga. everything will be fine in time. godbless sis :)

dheive

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Re: lifeless after break up
« Reply #2 on: June 01, 2012, 03:02:34 am »
sis! carry mo yan .. pinagdaanan ko yan and believe me there's life after that promise hindi lang sya ang tao sa mundo.... at tandaan mo na everything happens for a reason hindi gugustuhin ni god na magkahiwalay kayo kung talagang kayo para sa isat-isa. saka isipin mo kinaya mo nga mabuhay ng wala sya noon-- nung bago pa maging kayo how come hindi mo kaya ngayon? hindi pa katapusan ng mundo, huwag mo isipin na hindi ka na makakatagpo ng iba at huwag ka din maghanap. kung may magustuhan ka man huwag mo hanapin yung mga characteristics ng ex mo dun maddisappoint ka lang.
 
and PRAY. pray for guidance. normal lang na isipin mong wala ka nang future na parang sa kanya mo na binuo mundo mo pero isipin mo din na nung wala pa sya nag-survive ka naman. basta carry yan!
make yourself busy. mag-concentrate ka muna sa work for example. set goals. and little by little maalis mo din yan sadness sa system mo

mrsdee

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Re: lifeless after break up
« Reply #3 on: June 01, 2012, 03:17:57 am »
been there sis, but believe you me, there sure is life after break-up.

if this would make you feel any better, roughly two months after my tragic break-up with the ex(fiance), I met my husband and we're married now for 9months. :) the logic is, every wrong guy you meet and every relationship thereof that ends, is one baby step closer to meeting "the one". :)

don't look back. feel beautiful and think that every day you go out of your house is a chance of bumping with mr. right. :)

dumpee.o13

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Re: lifeless after break up
« Reply #4 on: June 01, 2012, 04:19:36 am »
the logic is, every wrong guy you meet and every relationship thereof that ends, is one baby step closer to meeting "the one". :)

don't look back. feel beautiful and think that every day you go out of your house is a chance of bumping with mr. right. :)

^ i totally agree with you, sis! that's why i feel excited everyday. hahaha! :)

chinkywinky

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Re: lifeless after break up
« Reply #5 on: June 02, 2012, 12:11:45 am »
lahat ng girls na na-inlove talaga, pinagdadaanan yan  ;) no worries, it will pass. And as time flies, pag naalala mo yang heartache mo, pagtatawanan mo na lang yan :)

 

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