Guys, what turns you on?

[entwife]

^ Who actually posted this?

 "it's nice if you can talk to a girl and debate about conspiracy theories, aliens, atheism, philosophy and other
random stuff saktong intellectual masturbation lang,"

Based on the topics mentioned, don't you find this weird and/ or boring? Because I know a lot of people do. They reject the topic even before it started.

[sacred cow]

^ Who actually posted this?

 "it's nice if you can talk to a girl and debate about conspiracy theories, aliens, atheism, philosophy and other
random stuff saktong intellectual masturbation lang,"

Based on the topics mentioned, don't you find this weird and/ or boring? Because I know a lot of people do. They reject the topic even before it started.

It was me who posted this, a lot of people also don't like talking about stuff that actually needs critical thinking din kasi. I don't like being stuck in comfort zones
which is why I would really appreciate it if the girl thinks the same. These kind of topics acts as a filter for me to find out what goes inside a person's head.
most girls find these topics (religion, politics) boring which is why it is advised not to talk about these things when getting to know each other, which is why I said it would be nice to find a girl who
goes against the grain.

[Myealexis21]

^^Natawa naman ako sa intellectual masturbation.

Sis Entwife may pagkaweird ako I love those topics hahahha!

[entwife]

I agree to what you said. Most people are too lazy to sharpen their brains.
Too lazy to read a newspaper article but has all the energy to watch... hmmm ..  Keeping up with the Kardashians.
Too busy dressing up to go to church but never really thought about what they're there for.


Anyway, good luck in finding one

[minatay91]

^ yes I actually find it weird,kase weird rin ako, kaya na.amuse ako. it was sacred cow btw.
natutuwa lang ako sa term na na.highlight ko. I just quoted the sentence it was in,
and the term itself.


I like controversial opinions and modern theories especially those that govern love, relationships, family, social issues, sensitive topics, like politics (although I'd rather not discuss it because bottom line, you'll realize how horrible our system is ) religion (pero I got into serious tampuhan because of this  I fought with a priest and some nuns) ek ek

maybe because I'm still at that stage in life where I'm still looking for my beliefs, standpoints and views that I'm willing to fight for and defend.

***edit naunahan ako! 

[entwife]

maybe because I'm still at that stage in life where I'm still looking for my beliefs, standpoints and views that I'm willing to fight for and defend.

I am on the same stage. And I am not gonna settle unless I find it. And I am not going to ignore or hate things that I don't understand. I actually call this stage my "Age of Exploration".

Baka off topic na ako,.

[anon]

gurls, see the original question below

for the guys/ what turns you on? What triggers your arousal?
sabi nila licking the neck and ears daw.. is it true??

like sacred cow, i do like intellectual foreplay if i want to be intellectually aroused and to cum. (sipon?)

there are instances when intellectual foreplay with the opposite sex shifts to sexual foreplay as well if physical attraction is there, i guess

[graezieylicious]

Yeah, intellectual foreplay is fun, safe and hot. It's a showcase of wit and an art of seduction.

[minatay91]

^ and if the guy is smart and cunning enough, I'm sure he can insinuate a little something here
and there I just don't know if it's a general turn on if opinionated (na may sensible basis ha)
yung girl. Alam ko rin daming guys ma.intimidate sa smart girl lalo na if magaling magdebate,
street and socially smart.. so I thought it's a turn off.

[anon]

^ its a turn off for some who gets easily intimated. its a turn on for some who likes the challenge

[chirochan]

Some guys are pikon kasi glad to know may Nakakaappreciate samin =) i like to talk about random Stuffs nakakataba ng utak

[ern3st]

Turns ON to Any body parts that women always keep.. hehe

[iwannabeasupermodel]

lol natawa naman ako kay sis minamatay. new word ba sayo intellectual masturbation? 

anyway post more turn ons. well other than shapely body parts. 

[carmilina]

grabe this made my day LOL IDK WHY ahahhahaa

---that's so funny! but it's true!

[simang]

Sabi ng partner ko the first thing that got him interested with me is when he knew what my job was.. And how cool i am to be in that line of work. Hahaha.

Another thing that got him turned on was when he knew I was a virgin. Medyo outgoing kase ako and adventurous so he was kind of shocked to know that i had a previous long term relationship and still remained a virgin. Parang ever since nun all he wanted to do was to devirginize me hahaha

[mysteryman]

I think a lot of the things that turn us men on have already been said by our smart bros here & I agree with most of them.


I'd say what also turns me on is meeting a woman who has the B, B & B...


Beauty, brains & brawn. 

[Chinito]

Now tell me whose guy wont be proud having a stunning woman on his side, but of course beauty is just a mere fraction of the whole package. i'm usually turned on by a girl who has the capacity to hold a good conversation. a type who has an equally strong and gentle character, humble but proud, unique and spontaneous. i like it when they make me laugh without them exerting too much effort. i like it when they control me but not directing me. i like it when they nag about things i'm not interested to but keeps me listening because they tickle my curiosity. i like it when they tease and flirt with me. i like them when they're not too dependent, not too easy and not too nice. i like her when she can handle hard decisions and set aside her femininity. generally, i am turned on to a girl with a strong personality and a stable character.   

[graezieylicious]

^@chinito, what you mean by stable character is not easily swayed or carried away by her emotions?

[Chinito]

somewhat like that,yung character na hindi pabago bago.may mga babae kasi na nagbabago overtime eh.. this is evident sa mga new couples,sa umpisa kala mo napaka bait. yun pala maraming tinatagong attitude.. kaya mas ok sana kung sa umpisa pa lang ipakita na yung tunay na personality para makapag adjust na sa simula pa lang. hindi yung sa middle part ng samahan masama pala ugali.. tsk tst. just be yourself..

[graezieylicious]

^True. I believe in being true to yourself and be who you are no matter what. I have this principle kasi na kapag pinaplastic ko ang tao eh pinaplastic ko ang sarili ko, kaya nga I won't take BS talaga, if I am not comfortable with something I will address to the person. I am straightforward and brutally frank, but proud of it. In that way, I get the respect that I want and deserve.

Naiinis lang ako sa ibang girls who are too nice to guys na gusto nila, it's okay to be nice but not to the extent that you will take yourself for granted. It's completely okay to show the guy you like that you are interested in him but not to the point that you will please him. If the guy likes you too, he will accept you for who you are and integrate his life into yours. So there is no reason to fake it off and stop living your life for a guy.

Be yourself--the #1 turn-on for a guy beyond physical beauty.