2011 Brides, now 2011 Wives (book 2)

[gogreengorgeous]

@kendi and mafia yan ba yung luteal phase na tinatawag na 14 days normally nakaset pag nagtitingin sa ovulation calendar? baka nga di lang 14 yung sa inyo kaya ganun? hay ewan ko andaming terms ahaha. natry nyo na ba yung mga ovulation kits? lagi ko tong nakikita sa watson's e hehe

[kendicute]

sis mafia.. ganyan nga ako hahaha.. dapat nung 26 meron na ko.. pero wala pa rin ngaun sanay na ko madalas dumadating sha after 10 days hindi ko nga alam kung papacheck up na ko eh..


may nabasa ako sis.. dito din sa gt.. ang sabi Stop TRYING  keep on INVITING. post ko dito hanapin ko lang

[kendicute]

sis 4g.. actually nalilito talaga ako sa ovulation. sorry. hehe. let say sabi kasi ika 10th - 14th yun daw yung fertile ka pag 28 days.. kaso lang kasi longer cycle ako.. so ewan ko kung paano..

yup sis nakita ko din yan sa watsons.. minsan nga bibili ako hehe

Eto na nga mga sis yung nabasa ko..


Stop "Trying" to Conceive
By Sue Dumais

 Has anyone ever told you to just stop trying to get pregnant and it will happen? Sure it sounds simple but why would you “stop trying” when all you want is to have a baby. How do you get pregnant if you are “not trying”?

The moment my husband and I decided we would “start trying” to get pregnant something shifted in me. Immediately lovemaking became baby-making and I had an expectation that it would happen right away. After all, I went my whole life “trying” NOT to get pregnant, so naturally when I began to “try” I believed it would happen within the first couple of months. Each month that passed without a pregnancy became heavier, more emotionally draining and exhausting.

As the months passed I began to “try” everything and anything that I read or heard about thinking it will increase my chances of conceiving. It quickly become all consuming and I felt like I was spiraling out of control. I tried and tried and tried, and nothing was working. I began to doubt whether I would ever become pregnant. I began to question everything including my relationship, I felt defeated and desperate.

I decided I would stop “trying” and began “inviting”.

Listen to how different these 2 sound and feel.

I have been “trying” to get pregnant for 2 years. OR I have been “inviting” conception for 2 years.

“Trying” feels heavy, tiring and worrisome like you’ve been banging your head against the wall for 2 years. “Trying” also brings up feelings of failure. It’s like you have been trying and trying and you can’t make it happen. You begin to blame yourself, your body, your partner. “Inviting” is the opposite. It feels like you’re doing something positive and productive.

Throughout your fertility journey, it’s important to keep in mind that you and your partner are not the only ones to consider. Imagine that your baby is waiting to join you. Although you may be ready, perhaps your baby isn’t quite ready yet. Or maybe your baby needs some encouragement.

I invite you to stop “trying” and begin to “invite” your baby in to your life. Tell him/her how much you will love them and care for them. Tell them stories about your partner and how you are both so excited to become their parent. Tell them you are grateful that they have chosen you, “invite” them into your heart and surround them with love. Continue to live your life and do the things that bring you joy and happiness. If you are no longer “trying” you will have more energy to live your life and appreciate all that is available to you in each moment. And you will have a greater likelihood of conceiving. Give it a try you’ll be surprised by the freedom it creates!

[rjaye_2000]

hi sisses! pa-join! nagbabalik ulit ang prodigal sister. hehe.

carmie - sis, anong nangyari sa account mo? hehe... ngayon ko lang napansin. malay mo nga maging made in bohol ang baby mo. 

4G, kendi and mafia - darating din ang little angels nyo, I'm sure. I'll include you three in my prayers.

seren - teh, going 5 months ka na pala. musta pagbubuntis? 

rio and kaice - musta mommies? 

[bleucharmz22]

kamusta naman jan? naiwan na ako sa unang thread...meron na palang part 2.

thanks sis kendi for sharing..from now on we will start "inviting" na. naku mga sis! last weekend lang nanaginip ako na buntis ako tapos si hubby naman nananaginip na meron siya kalong na baby. nae-excite na ako mga sis! feeling ko matutuloy na ito.

[mafiapenguins]

sis mafia.. ganyan nga ako hahaha.. dapat nung 26 meron na ko.. pero wala pa rin ngaun sanay na ko madalas dumadating sha after 10 days hindi ko nga alam kung papacheck up na ko eh..


may nabasa ako sis.. dito din sa gt.. ang sabi Stop TRYING  keep on INVITING. post ko dito hanapin ko lang

babalikan ko yan later... alam nyo naman may pagkadyslexic lang pag mahabang basahan.

kung normal nang ganyan ang cycle mo sis kendi, pwede rin namang hindi na magpacheck. yun nga lang hindi uubra yung calendar sa yo. yung ovulation test sa watson, mga 100+ yata yun. yung sa net naman, siguro, take note mo na lang lahat ng possible ovulation days tapos  ariba sa mga dates na yun. baka sakaling makatyempo. kung magpapacheck ka naman, ireregulate muna yung period mo (yung sa akin kasi alam ko nang abnormal ang hormones ko dati pa, kaya kasama na sa consideration yun... kaya may duphaston at metformin ako).

speaking of premonitions, last year, karamihan sa nababasa, nakikita at napapanood namin (whether tv or movie) about weddings, ngayon naman, pregnancy... wala lang hehe

[gogreengorgeous]

@kendi thanks for sharing sis! nakarelate ako masyado dyan sa article na yan dahil parang ganyang ganyan ang nafeel ko nung una haha.

ako naman nabasa ko, pag nagppray daw, instead of mag-ask, parang magthank you na agad na parang nasaiyo na..siguro parang law of attraction ang dating?

kami naman ni hubby ang focus ngayon is maging maayos muna yung health namin. siguro para narin maging healthy si baby pag nasa tummy ko na medyo healthy eating na nga ako ngayon e (less sweets and junk), and balak ko after ng surgery start ko na yung yoga...mas ok na rin na maprepare ang body ko sa pagdating ni baby. so eto nga siguro yung sinasabi na "inviting" haha

naku sis mafia malamang e malapit na rin yan

[AltaVida]

good morning mommies and wifeys!

oo nag inviting is a better term.. para tuloy hindi naman very inviting ang dating ko.. siguro less bisyo muna kasi can't abruptly cut it off my system din... less puyat at less stress - yung puyatan pinapagalitan na talaga ako ni rj.. kasi naman hindi talaga ako sanay matulog ng maaga... nagagawa ko lang yun pag super pagod... pero kagabi hindi naman ako pagod, pero 8pm pa lang antok na ako tulog na ako ng 10pm.. yey! kasi normally tulog ko 2am.. haha

kagabi pagligo ko kala ko meron na ako kasi may mansta yung panty ko.. pero wala naman... till today wala pa rin.. sabi sa akin ni rj pag daw ako eh buntis pala, tapos panay ang puyat at yosi at kape ko lagot daw ako sa kanya...

waaaaa!!! kape!!! mamimiss ko to pag nagbuntis ako.. hahaha

kendi - kung ikaw mahaba sa akin maiksi naman ang cycle.. kaya true hindi ko alam kung nag-aaply ba sa akin yang ovulation churva na yan... pero nakalagay naman sa calendar kung anong cycle mo eh..

mafia - tuhma!!! kami umariba nung fertile days ko, sakto nasa bohol kami nun.. hehe.. pag nabuo to - nickname choco hahaha!!! mas okay na yun kesa sa tarsier... hehe

[serendipity02]

gandang morning..

sa mga TTC, ienjoy nyo yung mga "chararat" moments nyo ni hubby, try different positions, have fun and pray..God will give it to you its perfect time..
may mga dice at minsan nga niloloko ko si hubby that time, nagrrole play kami kunyari, ako yung secretary nya, sya si Mayor.
nung kami kasi nagTTC ni hubby, inaral ko talaga yung ovulation calendar pati history ko, tapos 2-3x a day kami nagchachararat ni hubby within that 2weeks ng fertile period ko..sinabayan ko rin ng novena kay father pio plus hiningi rin pala ni MIL kay mama Mary si baby..


 

[kendicute]

sis karmie.. hahahaha natawa naman ako sa nickname.. choco talaga Wow sis this is it na yan Weeee!!

sis 4g.. hahaha nako sis same here. ganyan din ako talaga.. kaya pinagaaralan ko yung inviting.. hehe

sis seren 2-3x a day? wow grabe hahaha.

[gogreengorgeous]

@karmi sis sana yan na nga yan!!! Hahaha baka sumunod ang kulay sa nickname nya sis? Hahaha at least sweet

Naku kami e malamang sa makabuo talaga after ng surgery..tagal din namin di magb-BD ni hubby, this week dahil sa surgery tas mga 2weeks para sa rest and recovery LOL malamang sa magpagulong gulong kami neto pag pwede na haha

[serendipity02]

sis seren 2-3x a day? wow grabe hahaha.

oo sis! partida pumapasok pa ako sa office nun.. hehe..
maganda yung marami pero every other day para "makapagcapturean" talaga si egg at sperm sa loob.. hahaha!
 

[AltaVida]

hi mga mare! naku ang KJ ng mens ko dumating na kaninang tanghali.. hello dysmenorrhea na naman ako... hay... at no baby pa rin...

[serendipity02]

^keri lang yan sis! ibig sabihin may chance ka na naman next month

[bleucharmz22]

Naku kami e malamang sa makabuo talaga after ng surgery..tagal din namin di magb-BD ni hubby, this week dahil sa surgery tas mga 2weeks para sa rest and recovery LOL malamang sa magpagulong gulong kami neto pag pwede na haha

sis, ask ko lang kung para saan yung surgery mo? sorry di ako updated sa mga kwento kaya di ko nabasa. i've undergone surgery din kasi last month. breast lump naman. plan kasi namin ni hubby na this year talaga mag-baby kaya lang ayun nga naoperahan ako. although ngayon medyo okay na ako, worried pa rin ako kung may effect yung anesthesia etc at gamot na ininom ko nun. hehe..medyo praning mode lang ako.

[gogreengorgeous]

@bleucharmz sis may cyst ako sa right ovary na medyo naalangan si doc kung anong klase kaya alisin na lang para sure.
Pwede na siguro yan sis, or better ask your doc na lang din siguro? May take ka pa ba na meds gang ngayon?

[bleucharmz22]

^ah i see. i hope maayos na rin yan sis..

sa ngayon wala na ako iniinom na gamot. good for 1 week lang kasi binigay ni doc. nag worry lang ako nung una kasi naisip ko baka di na ako pwede mag breastfeed pero in-assure naman nya ako na pwede pa rin naman. sa ngayon hanap muna ako ng OB. gusto ko sana uminom ng vitamins etc para healthy ako tapos iwas puyat at stress..

pagaling ka din agad pagtapos, kelan pala surgery mo?

[gogreengorgeous]

^sis bukas na surgery ko hihi..maya admit na ko sa hospital. Onga sis sana matapos na dahil excited na kami ni hubby mag BD haha. Saka tingin ko after nito keri na konting meds na lang inumin ko plus vitamins.

[bleucharmz22]

^goodluck sis! pray ka lang. i know after that you will be fine. God Bless! 

[gogreengorgeous]

^thanks sis!