Broken Hearts Club (B.H.C.)

[fall2pieces]

@three8one thanks sis. I guess tama ka, kelangan muna magrest at magfocus sa sarili. I'm at a point where I am tired of relationships.  I'm tired of making efforts to any guy right now. Feeling ko nga mas productive pa ko at mas may social life kapag single ako.  The only thing that bothers me is my age in my 3os, I feel like hindi na ganun ka-attractive ang babaeng ka-age ko. Meron ng pressure sa part ko to find the one. But wala naman akong magagawa eh.  Ganon talaga,

[three8one]

^ guy ako ma'am fall2pieces. 

wag ka ma bothered sa age mo. marami pa rin naman na nasa 30's na nahahanap pa din sya ng tamang partner nya. meron din nga nasa 40's na, pinag nasasahan pa nga ng ibang kalalakihan. haha! kaya kung confident ka at naniniwala ka na someday ma mimeet mo ang tamang lalake na para sayo yung ang paniwalaan mo. hindi sa wala ka magagawa, ang kailangan mo lang gawin is I accept yung nangyari then keep going lang. never lose hope kasi kung mawawalan ka pa ng pagasa baka wala ng matira sayo.

[ajtee]

I'm not sure if broken-hearted ako... I'm not in love right now but, I guess I'm sad? I'm sad that I can't and won't ever love someone and be loved in return. I have a certain disease that made me decide na hindi pwede because it is selfish. Although minsan lang makirot sa puso kasi tao pa rin naman ako so I get to have some 'feelings' towards someone at times, pero as always, I avoid it. Once na ma-feel ko na, I practice numbing my emotions na. So far it works, still in the process of being fully romantically emotionless talaga 😂

[sweet21]

It's been 4 months since my ex broke up with me, pero feeling ko ilang taon na haha! Single na ulit. I've moved on, pero meron parin mga days na naiiyak ako. Hindi ko nga alam bakit bigla na lang minsan nakikita ko sya kahit iwasan ko yung mga lugar na madalas na nandon sya. Well, ganon talaga siguro ang love. Walang assurance. Right now, medyo at peace na naman ako. May konting kirot parin  pero kaya naman. I'm in my early 30s and most of my friends are getting married, starting a family. Kaya minsan naisip ko kung makakapag asawa pa ba ako haha! Pero ayoko din naman madaliin, medyo na trauma ako kay ex, kaya hinay hinay muna ngayon. Relax and focus muna sa sarili.

[moonandstars]

Hello sisses! Pajoin din ako. It?s been two months since nagbreak kami ng ex fiance ko. We broke up a month before our supposedly wedding. Everything was prepared already. Then suddenly, he confessed that there?s this other girl na he?s seeing for almost a month na. And he admitted that he has feelings for the girl. It was so painful for me but I cant do anything but to just accept and moveon.

[Apple1230]

ouch!!! grabe naman yan sis. i am very sorry to hear that.

i know it doesn't mean much right now pero but na rin yun naghiwalay kayo habang maaga pa at hindi na natuloy ang wedding. imagine going through with it tapos after the wedding bigla siyang maging cold or dun niya aminin that there is someone else.

trust and being honorable is very important in a lifelong partnership. apparently he is not honorable and he cannot be trusted. when you are hurting, isipin mo na lang paano pag naging asawa mo siya at hindi pala siya faithful na husband. imagine what your life will be like.

you will be ok sis. you will meet someone better. someone na sayog sayo lang wala kang magiging kahati. someone who only has eye for you at hindi niya magagawang tumingin sa iba.

[mysterioza_me]

^^Sis nabasa ko sa kabilang thread that your bf called off the wedding dahil natakot sa kasal or something to that effect. Akala ko kayo pa din and postponed lang muna and matutuloy din in the near future. Hay parang gusto ko na tuloy sabihin na go mo na ang payo ng isang sis dun sa kabilang thread na idemanda mo si ex for damages. Pero kung mataas pa din emotions mo ngayon wag ka muna gumawa ng kahit anong hakbang. Saka ka na magdesisyon kapag kalmado ka na para mas makapag-isip ka kung ano sa tingin mo mas makakabuti for you. Ok na din na nangyari yan bago ka natali sa kanya habambuhay.

[Travelionbabe]

Met this guy and I kept wondering why wouldn?t he ask me out even tho we kept on talking talking nag drop pa ako ng hints, ayan ng confess sya na hes still in love with his ex... Kaya he doesn?t want to lead me on or take me out,  sakit hahaha pero I respect him for telling me the truth. Wrong timing Lang Siguro sigh😢