Broken Hearts Club (B.H.C.)

[Ms. Undecided]

I blame myself why we end up like this, normal ba? Tama ba na sisihin ko sarili ko? Yun din kasi pinamumukha niya sa akin, na kung dati pa daw inayos ko na ugali ko, okay pa daw sana kami. I agree with him at some point. Pero naging super paranoid at controlling lang naman ako because of what he did. He hides a lot from me 8x because of his close friend in high school na girl. Oo alam ko na he did everything naman, iniwasan naman niya na si girl when we get back together after our cool off for almost a month, pero andun parin sakin yung takot, kasi 8x yun eh. Tapos in the end, another friend na naman na girl din, he deleted their entire convo, I asked him why he did that, sabi niya wala lang kwenta pinagusapan nila. I asked the girl, may balak daw pala bumisita si bf (now EX) sa kanila. At tinago niya sakin yun, srsly, dahil daw magagalit ako. And now sasabihin niya na kasalanan ko. Ayan tuloy pakiramdamko nga kasalanan ko

[three8one]

^ siguro its time na bitiwan mo na yung mga bagay na nasasayo na hindi naman nakakatulong mag grow ka. try to assess your self alin ba ang dapat mo alisin totally, yung ugali mo ba o yung past ninyo ni bf? kung talagang formal na na wala na kayo. it's time for you to come out sa comfort zone mo try new things para maging mas better ka kesa sa dati. then pag dumating na yung guy na para sayo talaga ready ka na sa isang panibagong relasyon.

[Ms. Undecided]

^ Hindi talaga ako ganito sis , dati nga siya pa yung super mahigpit sakin eh. Dati ako hindi ako pala-text sa kanya, hindi ko na pinapakelaman kung san siya pupunta o kung sinong kasama niya. Kahit sa mga past relationship ko, di ko tanda na naging paranoid at controlling ako. Actually, yung nagng bf ko nun bago pa itong recent eh nagcheat din sakin pero hindi ko siya tinreat unlike ng pag treat ko dito kay recent. Siguro nga kasi ilang beses niya ginawa. Pero alam ko sa sarili ko na hindi ako ganito sa relasyon.

[three8one]

^ guy ako mam

well, if that is the case na nahuli mo si recent x na ilang beses nag cheat at least hindi ka maguilty na nagging ganyan ka sa kanya kasi siya rin naman ang nag trigger para maging kung ano ka ngayon. pero please wag mo dalhin yan sa susunod na relationship mo hindi makakatulong. hehe!

[Ms. Undecided]

^ Hahaha sorry naman, what should I call you then, bro? tol? Charot. Haha

I will surely leave every single bad attitude na nagawa ko with this recent. Hayy anjan lang naman si tita Karmi XD thanks

[Apple1230]

pa join.

been single for almost a week. the first few days hirap gumising, kumain, matulog, mag conentrate sa work, gumawa ng kahit ano mahirap. pero ngayon medyo ok ok na. i have accepted the fact that we can never be.

i am looking forward to better things ahead. i'm also trying to improve myself in the process. i don't know what the future holds but i just want to remain positive.

[piatos]

count me in.. broken heart ako kay crush haha

[itsmeangel]

pasali din dito... things ended between me and the guy I was dating a month and a half ago already, all I can say is... ang sakit kasi umasa talaga ako... although we didn't really reach the bf/gf stage ang sakit pa rin eh. It was all okay in the beginning, as in no red flags at all, then suddenly, things went downhill. inunahan ko na siya magsabi ng ayoko na, kasi I can sense na dun na din papunta yun. Until now, medyo lagi ko pa rin sya naaalala 

[kvandenhaak]

^One month pa lang naman pala. You'll get over it very quick.

[fall2pieces]

It's been almost 3 months and I still can't forget it. Still can't get over the anger that I'm feeling. Hindi ko talaga deserve yung nangyari pero nangyari na. No choice but to forget though mahirap. Matagal bago ko mapatawad dahil hindi ko deserve yung treatment sa akin.

Someday somehow, I hope there's still someone who will treat me better, the way that I deserve. :"( Kasi right now, I'm feeling hopeless that there's still someone for me. I feel cynical already about relationships.

[three8one]

^ maybe it all happens para mai ready ka ng Diyos sa mas mabuti, mas masaya at pang habambuhay na relasyon.

[itsmeangel]

normal ba yung parang feeling mo wala na ikaw mahahanap na maayos, after mo maheartbroken

[kvandenhaak]

^Normal but it's not true.

[AprilGal26]

^^ yes 
I think normal sya. Ganon din kasi yung nafi-feel ko right now. Yung parang ayaw mo na sumubok ulit kasi wala ka nang nakikitang pag-asa. May halo na ding katamaran na magsisimula na naman, makikipag-date na naman, getting-to-know each other stage na naman.
ayun

[fall2pieces]

^ Ganyan ako... parang nawalan ako ng gana.

@three8one thanks.. baka nga may ibang plan si Lord for me. sana.

[three8one]

@ itsmeangel, AprilGal26, fall2pieces

need nyo lang mag rest for a while mga sis, but never quit. stand firm and be specific sa mga prayers nyo na gusto nyo mangyari sa susunod na relationship nyo at sa mga lalake na gusto nyo. one day, if ibibigay na sa inyo ang blessing make sure ready kayo..

[Valkerie]

Broken-hearted now.

Ako ang actually ang nakipag break-up. It was 8years ago hahaha ang tagal na but his patience and persistence made me think of why did I did that. I just miss his company and our years together.

I thought na masyado pa siyang bata and kulang pa sa maturity. But I was wrong. I see now na nakapag establish na siya on his own and can decide narin for himself. How I wish hinintay ko nalang siya. Siya ang the one that got away ko. I'm just happy for the both of us now. Wala naman na akong magagawa about it. I just wish him well. Parang Lalaland lang ang peg namin 

[young_maiden]

Ilang buwan na ang nakalipas simula nung natigil na affair ko with someone I can't have. However, kahit di na kami nag-uusap, I still think of him every day. I still feel the pains of my broken heart.

[Evolet027]

me too ... 

[angeljolie]

If it is any consolation, it took me almost 3 years to get over my last heartbreak. Pero wala akong kadala-dala, pumasok na naman ako into a relationship kahit okay naman na ako being single and unattached.