Broken Hearts Club (B.H.C.)

[agape]

I thought our relationship was strong. My boyfriend got stolen by his office mate sa new job Nila. That's where they met and hang-out often kaya nag ka hulugan na ng loob. She knew he was taken, but they did not stop. I don't know if I still have a chance of fixing this and winning him back. I don't know how to move on. Ang Tagal na namin and Ang Tanda na namin (lampas 30's na) and we bought think na marriage na Ang punta namin. The new girl is only 22-24. I want to confront the girl but I know he will get mad at me.

[badw33d]

^ not married yet right? no reason to confront the girl. If you're gonna be mad on someone, get mad at your now ex and slightly on yourself :-) you seemed to know what was happening before they ended up together and you should have done something about it. your ex did allow that to happen too right? :-)

somehow, its good that you broke up at this stage, imagine him being in an affair with a 22-24yo girl and you're married with kids.

It sucks, gotta hurt, marrying age na, but you'll survive, just like us :-)

[piatos]

sis agape, hugs for you.  i know what it feels. The hardest thing is watching someone you love, love someone else.  Iconfront mo ex kung gusto mo. 

Ganyan din kami dati ni ex alam mo my plans na rin kami den suddenly nagkaaberya den we broke up.  Hindi na rin namin nagkaayos siguro dahil na rin sa pride at nagkagf siya.  I thought I moved on den I heard the news that he got married.   Shocks! ang sakit pala.  Mga ilang days din ako nagmukmok, nalungkot, nainggit, nagtatanong ng what if lol hahaha but tinanim ko na lang sa isip ko we were over naman before kaya move on na lang, focus sa mga positive things na nangyari sa life.  Life goes on without him and stop thinking about him, he's not thinking about you.

[piatos]

nangumusta ang ex ko. Pinangngangalandakan atang kasal na siya kasi yung ang profile pic niya.. Ang sabi ko naman, ok lang ako, happy and contented.  Kunwari hindi ko alam.  oi kasal ka na pala congrats!  Seen mode ang lolo mo lol

[Tootsie31]

Dati close kame na parang MU then nung sumingit si hipag ko, sila na ngayon ang close. sabi nya dati madami syang kinakausap na babae so hininto ko pakikipag usap sa kanya kasi baka habulin nya ko pero hindi nya ginawa. sinabihan ko syang layuan nya hipag ko pero hindi nya rin ginawa. Doble sakit na naramdaman ko, niloloko nila kuya ko tapos pinili nya may asawang babae kesa sakin.

[Carly]

I'm happy to found this thread! I'm new to the club.. I hope I can have support sisters here. Please..please help me not to go back with my ex.. LOL 

[TomHansen]

3 days ago, pasali dito.. 

Nakakatuwa ano, ngayon maiisip mo na yung breakup niyo pala ang pinakamabuting nangyari sa buhay mo.

[saidee]

Im included in this club! 😊
Just broke up last year, today is supposed to be our 3rd anniversary, sept 8
Sya nangiwan.
Hirap na hirap ako makamove on s kanya, until now, sana may ipalit na si Lord

[IamMarieLove]

Hi mga sis! Pasali ha. Actually it's been years since I got my heart broken and I saw him last Saturday after a year and a half na walang communication sa kanya though may naririnig pa rin ako thru our common friends pero personal communication as in wala na talaga. Nada. So when I saw him, na confuse ako sa nararamdaman ko. Wala na yong sparks, yong mabilis na tibog ng puso and yong pinapawisan agad. Ibig ba sabihin noon completely naka move on na ako? Alam ko naman na hindi ko na siya mahal, I'm no longer in love with him pero forever na yata siya dito sa puso ko. Tama ba interpretation ko mga sis?

Kayo when niyo ba nasabi na naka move on kayo? Ano yong mga nararamdaman niyo that time?

[queenteaser]

joining mga bes...

[mynameisjuaiy]

Hello! Ako rin, pasali! 😊
^^ganon pala talaga ang mga signs pag inlove. Pinagpapawisan, ang bilis ng tibok ng puso. Ako, nanginginig pa nga e. Hindi ko naranasan itong mga signs na ito noon. Basta, ramdam ko lang noon na mahal ko yung guy na ito. Ngayon, iba na. Ang hirap kasi I tend to worry a lot because of him. Hindi na healthy. Feeling ko nagpapakatanga ako sa kanya kasi ako lang naman yata ang may feelings sa kanya eh. Sya, ewan ko kung meron. We are awkward with each other. We don't talk that often. As in DEDMA. So I said I will let go of him na. I even UNFOLLOWED him on social media. But I don't think I am successful. Kasi today, I peeped on his fb page that I have not done since I decided to let go. I saw a picture of him with a girl. Hindi ko maiwasan magalalala. I browsed his page further, yun lang picture na yun ang dalawa sila. Pero ang comment ng mga officemates nila, bagay daw sila, etc etc... Ano bang gagawin ko? Willing to let go na nga ako eh, bakit kasi hinahanap hanap pa? Ang hirap talaga. 😢

Sa mga nakaranas nito, please shed some light. 😞

[cindy_rella]

Joining!Sana di pa ako huli.Kailangan ko to

[crazy_khryssie]

After 10 months, broken hearted pa din ako 

sabi ng trusted friend ko, it doesnt matter how long tayo maging broken, it will  not make us less of a person.. i am also broken, but i am trying now to pick up the litters i left, its the journey that matters cheer up lang tayo lagi and stop dragging ourselves sa past, hindi na un nakakatulong sa pag moved-on natin

[Filipinasadhart]

broken hearted pa din ako. nakakainis kinaibigan ka tapos bigla aalis. parang sira lang noh. sana hindi mo na lang ako kinaibigan.

[callmemissj]

Milyon tayo sa mundo. Hindi matatapos ang buhay pag nawala ang isa. Sinaktan ka lang pero hindi ka pinatay. Kaya piliting lumaban para sa sarili araw araw.  Baby steps but eventually, clouds will clear and light will shine through. This is life

[white_flag]

Pasali rin dito.

[clairwaldorf]

Pa-join din po dito please? Ang hirap na minsan mag isa ka lang and you don't have anyone to talk with kasi natatakot ako na sasabihin nilang magmove on na ko and baka mairita sila pag nabbring up ko yung ex ko. I know naman na dapat di ganun but sometimes, I just need to get this off my chest.

[misslovelyjoy]

May ganito palang club. Hi girls! How are you moving on?

PS: Let's make a viber/messenger group chat, it's easier kasi to communicate there. Hehe.

[three8one]

Pa-join din po dito please? Ang hirap na minsan mag isa ka lang and you don't have anyone to talk with kasi natatakot ako na sasabihin nilang magmove on na ko and baka mairita sila pag nabbring up ko yung ex ko. I know naman na dapat di ganun but sometimes, I just need to get this off my chest.

minsan mas madaling maging outlet yung mga taong hindi mo naman totally kilala, siguro ang talagang kinakatakot mo eh yung ma mis judge ka ng mga friends mo. time lang talaga makakapag heal sa sugat at sa lungkot na pinagdadaanan.

[princessette]

May ganito palang club. Hi girls! How are you moving on?

PS: Let's make a viber/messenger group chat, it's easier kasi to communicate there. Hehe.

Hi sis,  it's been hard.  I am not even sure I have moved on or maybe I am hahaha.  I am no longer sad that's for sure.    If you have created a group let me know I would really love to join =)