Broken Hearts Club (B.H.C.)

[littlejohn]

Hello, puwede po ba ang guy dito? Im hoping new friends and new life but no relationship kasi nakakadala. Taga-Quezon province po ako.

[bluefeather01]

Can I join this group...super depressing to see someone you love move on that fast after an almost 6 years relationship...how he can just start to have a girlfriend after just a month...

[piatos]

^pareho tayo sis.  It's so frustrating na binabalewala ka na at tingin na sayo sagabal kasi walang makapasok na new love sa kanya haayst.  Baka nga ngayon si ex may bago ng gf 

[kReeSH]

kasama pala ako dito

[crybaby05]

http://www.tagaytayretreatcenter.org/Events/UpcomingEvents.html
there will be an event sa BK tagaytay, one day lang sya, 9-4.
i signed up dun sa feb.10 "Love Hurts, Love Heals" ang title.
nagemail ako sa BK, sabi nila 500 daw ang fee with lunch, snack and use of facilities na yun. join na tayo. para good vibes na.

[jhaney]

Count me in! I was in love with the wrong person talaga. Ikakasal na siya this feb.

^^Sayang di ako free ng feb. 10. I wanted to go sana. By the way, I found out today lang na feb. 10 ang wedding nila which is my father's birthday din.

Well, sa mga broken heart na katulad ko, it's not the end of the world. Yes, andun yung pain lalo na pag pinaglaruan ang feelings natin (like on my case). But we have to do our best para mapabuti ang buhay natin and maging wiser next time. So what I'm doing right now is trying my best to be a better woman instead of thinking about what he had done to me. I'm planning to put up a small business para maging busy at para maging successful ang career ko. Ginawa ko na lang inspiration yung nangyari sa kin. I go out a lot with my friends, I watched movies with my friends din, more bonding moments with my family and of course I read inspirational books (ulit). I've realized na marami pala kong friends and of course andun din yung support ng family ko. We need their support sa ganitong situation. Pag nakaipon ako maybe I'll try to travel, parang soul searching but not exactly. I also do shopping like buy nice dress or shoes pag may budget. Hayz, ang hirap ma-stress and ma-depress at napapabili ako ng mamahaling dress pero ok lang at least para sa kin naman yun. 

We have to stay and feel pretty kahit malungkot tayo. Wag tayo magpapatalo sa emotions natin kundi tayo lang din ang matatalo. We have to be happy. Unfair naman kung si guy happy tapos tayo malungkot at pumapanget pa. Pero honestly, katakot takot na luha ang iniyak ko nung nalaman ko ito pero inisip ko na lang na I don't deserve that kind of guy kasi babaero, akalain mo yun napagsabay kami tapos malalaman ko na lang sa Facebook stat niya na ikakasal na pala siya. That hurts a lot. Until now mejo nandun pa ring yung feelings ko sa kanya pero divert na lang. Marami pang iba jan.

Kaya sisses wag tayong malungkot. Cheer up!

[clouds_1028]

Can I join this group...super depressing to see someone you love move on that fast after an almost 6 years relationship...how he can just start to have a girlfriend after just a month...

I can relate to your situation sis. I also had a boyfriend of 7 years, we had a condominium and plans of getting married next year kaso he broke up with me. At first he told me was fed up with my attitude only later to found out that he has another girl. Ang sakit sobra na sobrang dali niya pinutol lahat ng communication namin and he really changed a lot. Not only to me but to his family. Ganyan talaga ang life sis, sad at first pero eventually all will come to places and we will be happy again. 

[piatos]

Gusto ko na makalaya sa sakit pero sabi sakin ako lang makakatulong sa sarili ko. 

[clouds_1028]

^Yes sis. Ikaw lang talaga makakatulong sa sarili mo. Kahit payuhan ka pa ng iba't ibang tao, kung hindi mo din gagawin, sayang lang payo nila. You need to be strong sis, I know mahirap talaga. Iiyak mo lang 'yan and pray lagi.

[saymynameangelica]

pwede po pa-invite sa support group nito? if meron man po.

[Girltalker2]

I can relate to your situation sis. I also had a boyfriend of 7 years, we had a condominium and plans of getting married next year kaso he broke up with me. At first he told me was fed up with my attitude only later to found out that he has another girl. Ang sakit sobra na sobrang dali niya pinutol lahat ng communication namin and he really changed a lot. Not only to me but to his family. Ganyan talaga ang life sis, sad at first pero eventually all will come to places and we will be happy again. 

I always treat this as a blessing. Just imagine kung natuloy ang kasal ninyo at nagkaron sya ng kalaguyo. The more painful it can be. 

Pero life goes on, just try to be your utmost best - mag aral ulit, enroll in something that can divert your attention and meet new friends para malibang libang ka rin.  And before you know it, wala na sya sa isip mo.

[it_girl]

ang hirap naman talaga oh!

[secretzzz]

Puro may heart problem pala dito   


Kanino ba puwedeng mag pasa ng resume jan? 

[yabbikins]

Newest member of the club I hope I meet lots of friends here.

[missroitee]

Can I be part of the meet-up? My story is a bit long but I'd love to meet new friends and just refresh.

[carmilina]

Yup everyone is welcome naman..

[Shiecg]

pa join...san ba ang meet ups, medyo malayo kasi ako sa kabihasnan eh :-) 

[carmilina]

Sis! I will meet other GTalkers this Saturday! Sa may Metrowalk.. 7pm. I still have the same number.

[x-y]

Join ako dito. =)

[iamnurse]

What happened to this club? Parang di na sya masyado active unlike nung last year.

I think I am joining the club.

Well, we broke up last June pa naman. After more than 3 months of no communication, we finally managed to meet. We joined my friends in Baguio last weekend. And we talked. Things got awkward the first time but we got okay within the day.

Mahirap. Sobrang hirap. Lalo feelings came back. I can feel that the feelings are still there. I still love him. But we broke up for a reason. It's not because may 3rd party, long distance, time and all, but all because we can't compromise. We lasted for almost 3 years. And all those years, puro kami away. But we never stayed away from each other. Only until this June. The saddest part is, naka moved on na sya and he's with someone and I am still begging him to take me back. I am capitalizing on his feelings for me which he openly admits but hindi na raw pwede. I told him to reconsider. Sabi nya, if during the first 2 months ko yun ginawa, baka hindi pa too late. Sabi ko, I was only a little too late, may valid reasons naman ako.

Ang sakit. I miss him a lot. I miss us. Now that I am ready to take him ng buong buo, dun naman sya nag let go