Too Mushy on Text!

[@JLO]

Any comments input etc would be appreciated

When  the guy is too mushy on texting,,, what does it means.. how do u deal with it.. if ur not like that... what does actually its says/stand for when hes like that?

Thanks

[FOURever]

either he's into you or nambobola. Hahaha! I don't like guys na sobrang mushy pag nagtetext. Binabara ko minsan, pag di kaya ng powers, dinidirecho ko na minsan aawayin ko pag di niya nakuha ibig kong sabihin at di ko naman sya ganun katagal kakilala kaya siguro intimidating daw ako lalo na sa mga di naman ganun katagal kakilala. Hahaha!

[@JLO]

same here new acquitance lang tma ba spelling haha... pero ganun.... idk is it a sign of playing lang? hes younger kasi eh >.<

[FOURever]

acquaintance pa lang kayo sis? Gaano kalayo age gap nyo? Paano kayo naging magkakilala? If thru texts/fb/online lang, baka he's playing around lang or pa lang..

[@JLO]

acquaintance pa lang kayo sis? Gaano kalayo age gap nyo? Paano kayo naging magkakilala? If thru texts/fb/online lang, baka he's playing around lang or pa lang..

hhhmmm nag swimming kasi kami and his barkada kept on asking me magpakilala ... nung nikausap ko na, and naka pag talk ng konti before going home he asked my number and texts starts coming and too mushy im two years older lang naman

[FOURever]

^ wow sis I think, kilalanin mo muna siya ng maigi and good luck sa inyo wala pa naman siyang nagagawang harm sayo, hopefully, ok sya. Pero it's too early to tell ha yun. Goodluck!

[@JLO]

thanks for that. yeah i asked my guy bff na, he told me when he says i love u again asked him why haha... idk if i shud follow him or not i dont like this boy to be caught of guard for such mushy things :S

[FOURever]

may i love you agad? Hahaha!

[Girltalker2]

hindi ko din masyado gusto pag mushy sa text. or pagmadrama. mas prefer ko sa salita. either tumawag sya or kausapin nyako ng personal kung ano ang nararamdaman nya - kesa panay mushy texts.

weird naman kung may i love u agad - unless matagal ka na nyang kilala. kung bago palang, nambobola yan.

[tipC_shoegal]

you don't say I LOVE YOU unless you really mean it and really feel it. my take on that is, gustong maka-first dibs nyan kaya sobrang mushy sa text. tingnan mo kung mageequal ang actions nya sa pagka-sweet nya and all sa text then you be the judge of that, sis.

[fRaNcOisaLabeLLe]

you don't say I LOVE YOU unless you really mean it and really feel it. my take on that is, gustong maka-first dibs nyan kaya sobrang mushy sa text. tingnan mo kung mageequal ang actions nya sa pagka-sweet nya and all sa text then you be the judge of that, sis.

I agree with sis shoegal. If the guy so casually says I LOVE YOU over text with no corresponding actions and plain laying down of intentions (i.e. wanting you to be his official girl) then he is just up to having the first dibs and h oping he'd get away with it. Too mushy is sometimes tantamount to being too vague din for some guys. We are not saying don't believe him at all but be a bit wary too. Get to know him better first, sis JLO. As they say "easy come, easy go" right? Nothing beats being worth the wait. Now whether you'll make the wait (for him) a short or long one is up to you. 

[FOURever]

ibang level si kuya. Once pa lang nakita eh, may i love you na. Hahaha! Sis, wag ka maniwala dyan muna ha? Use your head

[Serena.]

For me. BOLERO. Kapag OA na sa mga sinasabi di ko na nirereplyan kesa magkainisan pa kami.



xo

[fRaNcOisaLabeLLe]

For me. BOLERO. Kapag OA na sa mga sinasabi di ko na nirereplyan kesa magkainisan pa kami.



xo

Tama! BOLERO it is!

[adellaide]

Ang presko naman nya haha...He probably thinks you're the type of girl madali kumagat sa mga mushy and cheesy talks. Some women would find his moves offensives. If he's really into you he'd be cautious on how to approach you, may "ilang factor" pa nga dapat. Most guys I know who does that are just goofing off, having flirtatious fun.

[@JLO]

thanks mga sis.... sa mga advice were seeing na each other and texting pa din...
ganun pa din sya too mushy :S it irritates me kasi he says i love u like its just equivalent to hello..
haist :S

[tipC_shoegal]

^you're welcome, sis.

uhhm, if his expression of "i love you's" irritate you, why not be tactful and tell him that you'd appreciate it if he stops saying those in the messages that he sends? make him understand that it's not something you view randomly.

[@JLO]

ill try that sis thanks thanks will let u know the results