Would you prefer a guy older or younger than you?

[mysterioza_me]

Current bf ko 3yrs older sa akin and i?m so thankful na napaka-mature niya. 

[Apple1230]

i have dated guys who are younger, same age and older than me.

personally i prefer older. they seem to have more patience, emotionally stable and are actually ready to commit with the right girl. not to mention straightforward. they don't play games. at least the ones that i met.

[TysLolakins]

in my case neither nor,  lol, hubster is my age, well, 5 months older to be exact.  and I have no exes since he?s the only one so there?s no chance for comparison. and I have to disagree, it?s not always the case where the wife ages faster if married couple are the same age.  counting dating years, we?re already at it for 40 years now.  yep, we?re old, really old.
Hypothetically speaking, I?ll probably choose a hot younger dude over a balding beer-bellied old fogey, LOL.   

[preciousjulia]

In my experience kasi...
Pag ka-age mo same level lang kayo ng understanding o baka pareho lang kaming nasa safe zone nun? Too good to be true kinda thing..hindi ko ma-explain 
Pag mas bata gusto madaming activities parang easily get bored sya tapos dahil nga sabi nila mas matured mag-isip yung babae ako parang hindi ko makita yung sense. Sabi siguro ang kj ko..
Ngayon yung hubby ko 9 years older than me. When we were dating super pamper nya ako, maalaga at maasikaso sya. Yung tipong pag nasa labas kami uupo na lang ako and sya na take charge of everything..pero eventually natuto din ako asikasuhin sya and magtake charge paminsan minsan. Tapos pag galit yun, galit talaga sya. Hindi pwede yung pabebeng suyuan. We talk talaga. Hinihimay talaga namin bawat isyu.  Dahil dun nagmature talaga ko. Mas prefer ko yung older sakin like hubby. Dami ko natutunan sa kanya and good thing willing din sya sumabay sakin. May ups and downs pero super thankful ako kasi willing kami pareho magcompromise.

[clouds_1028]

I dated an older guy whose 5 years older than me. He's immature, mama's boy and I don't think he wants to get married dahil breadwinner din siya. He's also a cheater.

I dated guys of my age, some are immature and some are mature pero not mature enough to hold on to relationships.

I'm currently dating a younger guy now. He's 4 years younger than me. Meron siyang mga hobbies like gaming and watching Anime, which I also dig (buti na lang). May pagka-immature and impulsive pa siya at times. We don't talk much about the future kasi bago pa lang kami and tingin ko dahil bata pa din kasi siya. Pero kung sa pagiging responsible naman, he's responsible enough to find ways to build up his wealth, do his stuffs on his time and still spend time with me everyday.

I can't really say what I prefer. Basta sakin mature enough siya to take care of the relationship, may plans for the both of you and mahal ka, happy na ako dun. 

[tey_roch19]

Hindi na, lalo na kung may anak. Hinding hindi ka magiging priority. 

[nerddict]

Older

[angeljolie]

I used to prefer older guys. The 2 most recent guys I have dated are older than me by 12 and 11 years and I can say that age is really just a number. Just because they're older doesn't mean they're better. They're actually worse than those who are my age. Siguro in terms of financial stability, they could be better. But everything else, walang guarantees.

[LABYU]

I prefer same age or 5 years older than me. Ayoko ng ng 15-40 years ang age gap. Iba na yun.

[lalee888]

^Me too. I want to grow together with my partner (husband na now).. face the same phases in our lives, same seasons, same challenges and navigate together.

Speaking of 15-20 years.. di ko makita ang Heart-Chiz chemistry... as in wala ako makita.... 15-20 years age gap... pati si Pauleen Luna and Vic Sotto... but to be fair ayoko sa mga sotto (vic's generation, the kids are okay). Nabanggit ko na yun in another post.. pero di ko makita... why!?! anyway off topic comment yan..

[TysLolakins]

^same here.  hubs and i have this joke that in the event one goes before the other,  the person alive cannot date anybody younger than our kids,  hahahahaha.

[lalee888]

^Awww how cute sis. Just shows what a healthy relationship you guys have that you can joke about it in jest.

With me i told hubby he should remarry if i go before him, because i dont want him to be alone.. of course he insists na ayaw nya.. and i said if he goes without me, to find me and fright me to death so i don't suffer! hehe.. such bad jokes but meant in good spirits...

[LABYU]

Wow! Lucky you Lalee natagpuan mo na yung mr.husband mo na same age or malapit ayung mga edad. Hindi ko lang siguro prefer yung sobrang tanda sa akin, same reason sa inyo guys, gusto ko pag tumanda ako kasabay ko yung taong mahal ko sa pagtanda hindi yung mauuna yung isa samin mag bye bye LOL 

[foxyhauteur]

Preferably, 5-8 years older. Yung mga nagkaka interest sa akin ngayon puro younger. I don't want to date someone younger than my brother. Back in college, puro older guys naman. Mga 10-13 years older. Ayaw ko din ng ganun. Yung guy may sarili ng pera tapos ako umaasa pa sa allowance from my dad. Kaya I'm sort of judging my friend and his gf who are 10 years apart in age and the girl's parents who approved the relationship.

May older guys pa rin naman ngayon either may anak na from a past relationship or they look older than my own father. 

[kwang sun]

I prefer older guys but gusto ko walang anak hindi divorced at walang asawa haha

[ms.bumbay]

Yes, hindi naman big deal ang edad sa akin basta matured na mag isip at resposable yung ang importante.

[LuckyBabyFaceGirl]

Hello! Newbie here. It depends siguro sa level ng maturity ng guy. There's this guy that I'm seeing for almost 2 years is 7 years younger sa akin but he's more mature.

[sturmfrei]

My boyfriends before were all older than me. Yung last 2 naging bf ko sila (syempre hindi sabay) nung late 20's na ako and what I like about them was they were ready to get married & settle down kasi nasa early 30's na sila that time . Yun lang nga, nag break kami.

Right now I'm with a younger guy and while I'm in my early 30's, sya naman ay nasa late 20's pa lang and is no way ready to settle. Mahilig pa sa games and to go out with friends to drink, probably because he's European kaya hilig makipag socialize, but still. In the end, nasa tao naman yun, pero yun lang nga ang na-notice ko based on my exp.

[eischied_21]

I also prefer older guys but right now, I'm chatting with a guy who's 6.5 y/o younger than me. I feel like he is too junior for me haha. Anyway, nothing serious pa naman. Muka naman mabait pero sana in terms of maturity hindi sya mapagiwanan lol

[AprilGal26]

I prefer older men  Gusto ko pa not lower than 5 yrs ang gap 
Sobrang matured and i find older men hotter and sexy lol