Ano susundin mo, UTAK o PUSO ?

[Vrisha]

Mga sis! If your on the situation of choosing "PUSO o Utak" , what would you choose? If you have a bf "u love him" kaso plagi kayong may problema, nag aaway ... Kung iisipin mo tama na wag nalang kaya? Kaso d mo magawa dahil mahal mo.... Kahit masakit na..

[gorgeous_me]

minsan kapag inlove ang tao, puro puso na lang, pero dapat may utak din, it depends sa situation, lalo na kung hindi ka na comfortable, kaya nga nilagay ang utak sa taas, para yun ang mauna, hindi ang puso palagi but again, it depends, kasi may choice ka pa din e

[Vrisha]

minsan kapag inlove ang tao, puro puso na lang, pero dapat may utak din, it depends sa situation, lalo na kung hindi ka na comfortable, kaya nga nilagay ang utak sa taas, para yun ang mauna, hindi ang puso palagi but again, it depends, kasi may choice ka pa din e

TAMA ka sis! Thanks!

[pinkbubbles17]

when you are so inlove you always use your heart..hindi ka na nagiisip whether its wrong or right..pero dapat balance sila eh..

[greyzie]

can you specify kung ano yun lagi ninyo problema?

[Vrisha]

when you are so inlove you always use your heart..hindi ka na nagiisip whether its wrong or right..pero dapat balance sila eh..

Sis' nakakatuwa nagbibigayan tayong 2 ng advice sa magkaibng topic. 

[poetrytoprose]

Definitely utak.

haha! It's hard to get influence by emotion kasi sometimes our feelings surpasses common sense kasi it's how we feel. Heart (emotions) makes us feel things without thinking of the possible consequence if we take action of how we feel.

measure of logic is impt.

[che2008]

The heart can be very deceitful.

[pinkbubbles17]

Sis' nakakatuwa nagbibigayan tayong 2 ng advice sa magkaibng topic. 

hihi..kaya nga sis eh..

[Vrisha]

Thank you sa mga comments... Btw, u can also share your experience on this topic. Para naman may idea yung ibang girls out there.  Thank you mga sis

[aquacharly]

Utak or puso?
Well, you usually use both di ba. BUt lol, como you use both eh does not mean you used both well...
Bottomline:  Do not make life-changing decisions based on emotions.

[mysteryman]

Hi! Newbie here.


I know this is pretty old but I'm unsure if even one gentleman contributed so here it goes...


I agree with our smart sissies here... utak + puso dapat... they should work together, in harmony.


I know it's easier said than done because I'm also guilty (in the past) of letting my heart take control instead of using my head. I even learned the hard way.


If we use too much emotion (our heart), we tend to ignore, neglect, not notice a lot of things & make mediocre or not-so-good decision/s. In the end, when we wake-up, we may regret many wrong things.


If we use too much logics (our mind), we tend to be inhuman, w/o emotion or love that we miss out the magic or spark - fusion of two wonderful people (there's an unexplainable special/wonderful thing about being in love). In the end, we may be secure but lacks the real happiness & unconditional love.


I was once told my by best bud that we should use our brains to help/guide our heart but somewhere, I have also read & heard... "let your heart be your guide"...


Be smart, choose wisely by using your heard & mind. 

[kawen]

We all know the answer to this but we refuse to follow our head, because the heart is tooo powerful with emotions that makes us HAPPY. In this time, people will say be practical, love can't bring food in the table, love can't keep us alive forever.. it really depends on the persons involved in the relationship.. how they handle it to keep the relationship.. I read before, the head is on top for a reason (feeling superior) to argue with the heart..

[alice_alice]

Balanse dapat yan pero kung papapiliin ako utak na this time, because before i always follow my heart and i ended up being cheated on and fooled by my exes, nawalan pa ng pera so this time talaga, worst case scenario na kailangan ko paganahin eh iisa lang then  it'll be my brain this time, di na papadala sa emotions

[tomatostellar]

yung iba sinasagot puso para daw maging masaya - but they turn out to be miserable because of the consequences of their choices,, I think "following your heart" should have a limit

[purple.strawberry]

Follow your heart but take your brain with you.

[sugardrop]

Follow your heart but use your head along the way.

[miss_isla]

Follow what you THINK is right, not just what you FEEL is right. When you you use your brain, it doesn't really mean you're heartless. It just means that care enough for yourself, your values and principles and the people around you.

[funstuffjoan0109]

PUSO pa rin ako. Minsan ang utak panay greedy figures lang din

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Puso, because i love that way. Blindly. Stupidly. Hard and with all of me.