Online Dating

[imyourangel]

^I agree, hanap na lang ng iba sis. lol! Mahirap ipagsiksikan ang sarili sa isang tao.

I suddenly remembered a chatmate of mine last 2012, sa YM pa yun. Haha.
Medyo naging naughty yung convo namin, until he asked me if I wanted to view his webcam (so old school, I know!)
Of course I said yes, and my gas, he's so gwapo. Plus, he has a big D! He showed it on cam. Lols! It was my first time to meet someone so gwapo and clean looking sa chat, that's why I was really amazed.

Then nauwi sa mga kung ano-anong kalandian and kasweetan through text.
One day, bigla nalang nawala. Even though we're friends on FB, the communication died. I don't know what happened.
I don't miss him naman, natuwa lang ako sa experience kasi it was my first time to do that. Haha! He has a girlfriend now din.

[saqqara]

^sis, if he wants you, you dont have to second guess it. he will reach out to you. just leave him alone. i thinks he wants it din naman

Thanks sis honeybunny, yan rin naisip ko sis bakit hindi na siya nag reach out pwde naman siya mag leave ng message sa skype dba? Kahit iba na number ko he can search me sa fb pero ewan ko bah    Bakit kaya ganun , Bakit ko pa siya nakita its almost 5 years na    Ngayon kasi para akong stalker laging tumitingin sa fb niya.

^I agree, hanap na lang ng iba sis. lol! Mahirap ipagsiksikan ang sarili sa isang tao.

Natawa ako sa post mo sis imyourangel naka relate ako lol  may mga times rin kami na ganun lol like after a month pa naman after we *Did* it hehe  naughty 2x
Sa akin kasi na miss ko siya kasi almost 6 months kami on going ang communication so parang na attached na ako halos everyday kasi may sweet messages tapos nag w-wake up call pa siya, haay eto talaga mga lalaki *PAASA* then suddenly it died na 
I keep on telling that to myself naman na huwag pilitin pero may part na gusto ko e try  lol  But honestly nahihiya ako baka ano sabihin at ispin niya why after all these years lol
 

[Girltalker2]

@ saqqara, time to move on siguro. Hanap ka ng maraming iba muna to mingle and get to know.

Tama din naman sabi ni hunnybunny but if I were you, i-add ko lang sya at di ko na kelangan mag hi or any closure. Kelangan mo papansin subtely kasi naman 5 years na nakaraan, somehow need nya malaman you're still single and available. However, For me, Tapos na ang chapter ng buhay ko with him. But since crush ko pa sya, will just add him as a Friend. Kung di sya sumagot, that's it. Kung sumagot, eh di tsaka na isipin what's next. Basta importante don't expect muna. Single ka pa naman so best not to focus only on one person who can just disappear like that.

[saqqara]

@ saqqara, time to move on siguro. Hanap ka ng maraming iba muna to mingle and get to know.

Tama din naman sabi ni hunnybunny but if I were you, i-add ko lang sya at di ko na kelangan mag hi or any closure. Kelangan mo papansin subtely kasi naman 5 years na nakaraan, somehow need nya malaman you're still single and available. However, For me, Tapos na ang chapter ng buhay ko with him. But since crush ko pa sya, will just add him as a Friend. Kung di sya sumagot, that's it. Kung sumagot, eh di tsaka na isipin what's next. Basta importante don't expect muna. Single ka pa naman so best not to focus only on one person who can just disappear like that.

Thanks so much  sis Girltalker2  :-) for the encouraging words.

[IamBlessed1111]

Happy to say na nag work out LDR namin ng husband ko.
5 yrs  LDR  bf/gf
now 2 yrs married.
Mahirap  pero possible..

[amethyst028]

i met my bf through an online dating site. 1 week pa lang kame in a relationship. he mentioned na he will delete his profile na raw then i asked him kung kailangan ko na ba delete yung sakin sabi niya it's up to me daw.

sa mga nagka tuluyan through online dating, when did you decide to delete your profile? and does it bother you if your partner is still on that site? and hindi ba kayo bothered na baka active pa sila sa site na yun?

[TomHansen]

... he mentioned na he will delete his profile na raw then i asked him kung kailangan ko na ba delete yung sakin sabi niya it's up to me daw.

Ibig niyang sabihin "kelangan pa bang itanong yan?", and im 99.99% sure he expected na yun din ang gagawin mo.

it will bother me if meron pang online profile ang partner ko sa dating sites, para saan pa diba. kaya pumupunta ang tao dun para makahanap ng partner at kapag meron na automatic dapat delete na unless gusto pa ring tumingin tingin ng lalake/babae. if di ready ang tao na idelete yung profile niya ibig sabihin hindi pa siya ready sa relationship.

[amethyst028]

@TomHansen i deleted my profile na today. hehe! if i ask him kung na delete na niya yung profile niya will that sound weird ba?

@ohcmon i've been wondering about that stage. hindi pa pwede maging kayo?

anyway thank you sa replies.

[TomHansen]

^ No.. ok lang yun di yun weird, you can start by saying you already deleted yours na at nagwowonder ka lang kung nadelete na niya yung kanya.

[Gaysha]

1. sa mga nagka tuluyan through online dating, when did you decide to delete your profile?

2. and does it bother you if your partner is still on that site?

3. and hindi ba kayo bothered na baka active pa sila sa site na yun?

1. When I said I will delete my profile because I already found you. He also deleted his.

2. It will bother me enough to not be serious with him if he is still on that site.

3. I will be a bit bothered na maybe meron syang alternick but WTH basta ba yung orig nyang profile e dinelete na nya e.

[Shadow Angel]

About mine si hubby ang nag ask sa akin idelete ko profile ko sa dating site when become bf/gf na. Sya pagkasabi nun delete agad. If bothered ka if totoong wala na syang ibang account dun ibig sabihin wala ka pa tiwala sa kanya.

[Girltalker2]

^ yup, di ba parang dating din kayo... Sya muna mag ask bago ikaw. Bakit mo naman idelete profile mo eh di naman nya inask? As far as you're concerned, friends lang kayo and nothing serious pa dapat. Cannot trust anyone that easily.

Tsaka online minsan dami ka nakikilala ng kung Sino sino. Baka may iba pa impress na businessman kuno eh manloloko pala.

[Shadow Angel]

^tama ka dyan kaya be vigilant meeting people online wala rin yan pinagkaiba sa nakikilala mo personal na manloloko. If too good to be true more or less hindi totoo.

[amethyst028]

^^yes sis you can never be too careful sa online dating. kaya it pays to always be cautious.

in my case totoo naman lahat ng sinabi niya. he shows me yung mga products niya not just sa photo but in actual ha. hehe! pinapa uwi niya nga sakin yung iba akin na lang daw kasi madami pa siya samples na padating.

hindi naman siya yung type na pretentious. very open siya pati place niya he lets me stay there for as long as i want and iniiwan niya phone niya sakin. when he receives a phone call he answers it sa tabi ko. he's going to china for 2 weeks para asyusin visa niya na maging valid for 1year and sinasama niya ako. i declined kasi may work ako and need ako ng son ko dito sa pinas. if my schedule allows visit ko siya dun next weekend.
 
i guess swertihan lang din talaga kung makahanap ka ng ok. and even if makahanap ka na wala rin naman guarantee na kayo na forever. wala rin taong perfect kailangan lang matuto tayo accept yung mga flaws ng isa't isa. warla nga kame ngayon kasi nainis ako sa kanya. we're still learning to navigate our new relationship and nag a-adjust pa kame. same age kame pero mas mature siya ng milya milya kesa sakin plus foreigner siya iba kame ng way mag isip pati ubringing.

will we have a happy ending? who knows. ang importante nag try ako magmahal ulit. be brave sabi nga.

[pan.ian4ever]

Yep. Online dating is a chance we could take. Minsan mahirap kasi we have differences na nga, most of the time malayo pa. Lalo na pag foreigner yung partner, kasama pa yung cultural differences. Swertihan din lang siguro at maybe one's other half is just truly on the other side of the world kapag successful talaga. Good luck to all of us.

[DalagangPinay]

I think bihira lang yung ganyan nagkakatuluyan thru online.

Natry ko din mag register sa online dating nung nasa pinas pa ako dahil nacurious lang kung ano meron dun. Karamihan dun mga flirt lang lalo na yung mga halos ka age ko lang na nasa mid 20s. Yung mga nasa 30s ang hanap talaga for serious relationship kaso naiintimidate ako kasi masyado na silang successful sa buhay. samantalang ako, parang paumpisa palang ako sa buhay hehe..

swertihan lang yung may mameet ka na guy na ang hanap for serious relationship dyan.

[cindy_rella]

Tried it few months ago, nabore ako.Haha

[binibiningrue29]

I think bihira lang yung ganyan nagkakatuluyan thru online.

Natry ko din mag register sa online dating nung nasa pinas pa ako dahil nacurious lang kung ano meron dun. Karamihan dun mga flirt lang lalo na yung mga halos ka age ko lang na nasa mid 20s. Yung mga nasa 30s ang hanap talaga for serious relationship kaso naiintimidate ako kasi masyado na silang successful sa buhay. samantalang ako, parang paumpisa palang ako sa buhay hehe..

swertihan lang yung may mameet ka na guy na ang hanap for serious relationship dyan.

I agree with you sis. I tried different platforms na din for online dating kaso puro flirt and one night stands ang hanap.

[kwang sun]

Mahirap umasa sa online lol... bihira lang ang matino!!!

[guavaorchard]

Na-meet ko yung bf ko sa omegle, of all places haha. Ayun kami pa rin so yey! Online dating is kinda tricky. Siguro depende na rin sa tao yun. Gaya nga ng sabi ng iba, do your research. Yung ate ko may mga na-meet na mukhang matino naman pero nung nahanap ko yung fb nila aba surprise! may gf or fiance si koya.