Online Dating

[way_farer]

Tinder, OKC at wechat ba ang pang date online? sorry noob here.

Check out the new apps here other than Tinder

https://youtu.be/J9V3fLUSQFM

[yshmael]

^bakit ano yung problema?

[sensi]

nakarelate lang ako hehe
because after my pinoy ex bf of 4 years, i signed up for this dating online thing which was badoo...nnandito na kasi ako sa rwanda since 2011...so most of the guys i dated were foreigners.but no to rwandese..lol
i met a few too, dinner there, lunch dito, trip doon, mga ganon...i wasnt looking for a relationship naman..just someone to talk and spend time with yun lang..nagrerebelde rin ata ako that time kaya ganon.
anyways, may netlog pa pala...so remembering i had this account since 2007, i logged back in and started chatting with my long time online friend...tapos we gave each other's facebook,so doon na kami nagkausap most of the time..egyptian siya. tapos nagkadevelopan..naging kami,tapos i decided to visit him and his family(parents and brothers) sa egypt..i flew..stayed with him for 3weeks...i enjoyed egypt and feel inlove with his family as well...super nice people lang talaga sila and down to earth kahit sobrang rich nila..humble people i can say...
after, i came back here sa rwanda. we continued our long distance relationship, syempre hindi naman maiiwasan magaway eh diba? mahirap lang sakaniya, high pride siya when whenever we fight..pag long distance kasi ,mahirap ng to deal with high pride kasi pagdating sa suyuan,mahirap kasi nga malayo. puro calls text and video calls lang...so to cut it short, we ended our relationship..it lasted to 2years rin..

after him marami pa akog nakilala from online. but i wasnt that serious na...fling nalang,then nagsawa narin ako after..so i chilled for a while from going online...after a year,i just tried to logged into badoo...checked my messages...as usual, madami akong binasa..hehe..
then ive seen a message from one guy sympre foreigner parin, i dont know why but i replied. sa picture he wasnt that gwapo naman. the next day nagreply na agad siya. i wasnt interested talaga sakanya kaya late palagi ako magreply sa messages niya.sometimes kasi nakakalimutan kong mag online..kasi nga hindi ko na masyadon hilig mag online.haha..
but there was something about him that made me feel secure..he asked for my whatsapp number but sabi ko its better if sa badoo nalang muna kami magusap since i just want to get to know him more doon lang.mahirap na pag malaman number ko  tapos di rin pala magwork out diba? after 2 months, i finally gave my number...so graduate na kami from badoo..sa whatsapp naman kami..then finally he asked if he can call me..i said no 3 times siya nag ask...and then one day i just finally agreed..so texting went to calling...tapos finally he asked if pwede na kami mag meet...but hindi pa kami non ha...we met for dinner...it went pretty well,only to find out, he really was a cool guy. sobrang click personality namin...

now we've been dating for 1 year and 3 months na...since we dated hindi pa siya nakauwi sa Kenya kaya di ko pa nameet family niya but all of them nakausap ko na through phone and video calls..hopefully next month we can pay them a visit...since ikakasal narin pala kami..civil muna...hehe
so yeah, maybe online dating isnt for everyone i agree,but for some, its through it na nahanap namin ang perfect one;)

[teejiko]

"May we all be blessed and lucky enough to find our soulmates <3"

[TomHansen]

^ Soulmates, The One, Destiny totoo pa ba yang mga yan?

[Shadow Angel]

^for me ha happiness is a choice.

[kawen]

After my not-so-good first experience in Tinder, I met another one.. known him for almost 2 months now, we have been steadily dating and it feels like I have known him very long, we have chemistry, I think we're getting there. I still believe in forever, that there's someone out there meant for every one us. Don't be afraid to take chances, we all deserve to be happy and its a choice! My life is happier now with him.

Retire na ako, LoL...

[inday101]

question lang mga sis, nasa modern day na tayo and unlike before medyo nakakahiya when friends asks "where did you meet your guy?" sa ngayon ba does it matter whether you met online or in real life?

[TomHansen]

^ if kaibigan ka talaga nila hindi ka naman siguro nila i-jujudge kung saan mo nakilala yun guy. Sa panahon naman ngayon lahat nasa net na at hindi na bago ang mga couples na nagkakakilala online.  For me it doesn't matter where you meet your partner whats important is how you handle the relationship after.

^for me ha happiness is a choice.

Tama nga naman sis, we can be happy may partner man or wala.

@kawen, most girls use tinder to hopefuly find their "the one", most guys use it for hookups lang talaga. You're lucky nakakilala ka ng bf material. I work in a mobile app development company and once asked my officemates if we can make a dating app na pang-dating lang talaga at hindi for hookups, sana someday marelease din namin yon.

[Shadow Angel]

About nakakahiya thing i think its up to the person... Ako kasi wala ako paki kung ano sasabihin ng iba kung ang happiness naman na nararamdaman ko ay hindi ko naman nakukuha sa kanila.. My husband proud sya kung saan kami nagkakilala na inspired pa nga mga ka circle nya kasi nag join na rin sila sa dating site. About me naman i shared it to few friends. Well hindi ko masasabi he is the one, he completes me or love at first sight ang alam ko lang kung happy ako noon mas happy ako ngayon. Sometimes nga na Ooverwhelmed ako sa mga nagagawa ni hubby pero nasabi ko na lang sa sarili ko i know i always deserve this... I've been to 6 years relationship pero hindi ako natakot na i let go sya kahit pa over 30 na ako i mean i will never settle for less. Buti hindi kami nagkatuluyan ni ex i mean ang mga signs na may something off sa kanya na binalewala ko lang dati. Na hindi ko rin naman kakayanin na panindigan kung naging mag asawa na kami. Anyway overall ang dating site ay hit and miss na sayo na lang kung paano mo ihahandle. Advice lang use common sense, instinct if something off or doubt wag na ipilit madami pang iba. At never settle for less hindi dahil sya ang nandyan or available go agad. Good luck sana kayo rin makita nyo na ang taong mas magpapasaya sa inyo.

[sensi]

^same here sis, fiance is proud to say na sa badoo kami nagkakilala...heheh

[snowhite_12]

May na meet another one last night.kasi collect and collect muna.hehe. Hindi ko feel talaga. Super awkward. Kasama ko dati sa work ko. But hindi kami friends noon. Tawang tawa yung mga friends ko noong nag kwento ako.sabi nila may alam na sa bisyo ko na kasama ko sa work dati.

[sugardrop]

May success story dito sa GT.

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2 years na kami ni bf that I met on a dating turned hook up app. When we met medyo tame and discreet pa yung mga tao dun. When I checked this year how that app is, jusko, pwede nang pang-soft porn yung ibang pics.

My advice - anything a guy tells you in those dating apps, take it with a grain of salt and don't take everything on face value. And of course, ingat pa din.

[snowhite_12]

May naka date ako a new one last night. Meet him in sa online date din.Parang weekly na ako nakikipag date. It was fun.he was a gentleman.na realize ko iba iba mga  personalities nila. but what scares me lang i dont want may makita nakipag meet ako to a new guy sa mga previous guys na meet ko online.

[Ahim de Famille]

Hindi ko ito experience pero sa friend ko.
May kachat lagi yun hanggang sa nainlove na siya sa kachat niya. Nung mag mimeet na sila sa mall di na nagpakita yung guy sa kanya at hindi na siya kinausap pa.
Siguro nakita na siya nung guy at hindi siya type.
Kaya konting ingat lang. Baka yung akala nyong kachat sa online na gentleman at mabait kuno eh nang ttrip lang pala hehe...
Kung may successful man siguro sa ganitong set up, siguro sobrang bihira lang yun. Swertehan nalang yung may mamimeet ka sa online na matino.

[junetwentythree]

The thing with online dating is that while it's an easier medium to meet new people, it's NOT meant to be the main means of communication. It's better to meet the person sooner than later, so you can assess whether or not it's worth carrying on with the relationship.

One shouldn't fall inlove with someone you've never met. You need to approach this pragmatically if you want to eventually meet the real deal.

[TomHansen]

^ My ex is now in a long distance relationship, hindi pa niya na-meet yung guy pero sabi niya masayang masaya daw siya ngayon compared to when we're together.

[kawen]

I was back into writing and I wrote about my experience through an open letter, I guess we're in love, I can say...

http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,292053.0.html

[lesters_gal]

After my not-so-good first experience in Tinder, I met another one.. known him for almost 2 months now, we have been steadily dating and it feels like I have known him very long, we have chemistry, I think we're getting there. I still believe in forever, that there's someone out there meant for every one us. Don't be afraid to take chances, we all deserve to be happy and its a choice! My life is happier now with him.

Retire na ako, LoL...

Gooo lang sis. Ako it's been one and half year since we broke up. Pero i never dated anyone yet. Pahinga muna. But i told myself mga next year gooo na uli ako. Despite of all the pain that i went through naniniwala parin ako sa  LOVE....😊😊😊 sarap kaya mainlove di ba...lol

[TomHansen]

^ yup sarap mainlove lalo na honeymoon stage, everything's perfect kasi sa umpisa.. If need mo mainspire look at old couples..

I use tinder tuwing bored, not para makahanap ng date/new relationship - nageenjoy lang ako nakakakita ng ibang tao. I do get matches pero hindi ako masyadong nakikipag-usap curious lang ako kung may magsswipe right sakin and because i know hindi pa ako ready makipagmeet ng ibang tao..