Worse wedding you experienced/seen (Part 2)

[peachlipstick]

I agree with sis j.adore, medyo paranoid lang ang peg pero better safe than sorry.

[barbillie]

1. Relative's wedding.
It was a Christian wedding so expect a very long homily. Parang isang oras yata yung homily ni    Pastor. Yung bride and groom, hindi yata nasabihan na kelangan ng vows. Nung part na ng exchange of vows, wala silang masabi sa isa't-isa. Si Pastor na ang nag-fafacilitate, "O bride/groom, anong ipapangako mo sa iyong mapapangasawa? Sasamahan mo ba sya habang buhay? etc". As in ang tagal namin naghintay matapos yung part na yun! The wedding started around 9AM and natapos yung ceremony ng 12 noon. 3 hours na ceremony, the longest I've attended! Gutom na gutom na yung guests tapos hindi enough yung food. Ayun pala, yung MIL nung ikakasal hindi lahat dinala sa reception yung food kasi after wedding meron pang celebration sa bahay. After kumain ng guests, sa sobrang haba ng ceremony, nagsi-uwian na. Hindi na tinapos yung reception program. Naka-kaawa din yung couple kasi parang ilang tables na lang yung may tao.

2. Friend's wedding.
Nag-abay ako sa kasal ng friend ko. Sa caleruega yung church and the reception is in Villa Ibarra. So okay, travel to Batangas for friendship! After the ceremony, umulan! So from Batangas to Tagaytay eh ang traffic! Inabot din kami ng more than 1 hour. So nung kami ang kinasal, we ensured na hindi mararanasan ng guests namin yung hirap ng travel between the church and reception.

2. Another Friend's wedding.
Nag-abay ulit ako sa kasal ng friend ko. Sa San Agustin Church yung venue. Since sikat yung Church, parang oras-oras may kinakasal. Tapos December pa so peak month. Yung friend ko hindi pa tapos ang recessional, nakapila na sa labas yung entourage ng isusunod na ikakasal. Kasi right after makalabas ng friend ko, magstart na yung susunod na wedding. Grabe! Kaya kami very thankful na solo namin yung church on our wedding date. Kahit sikat din si Our Lady of Lourdes Tagaytay, we picked a weekday wedding para sure na wala kami makakasabay.

[deathwatchspider]

2. Another Friend's wedding.
Nag-abay ulit ako sa kasal ng friend ko. Sa San Agustin Church yung venue. Since sikat yung Church, parang oras-oras may kinakasal. Tapos December pa so peak month. Yung friend ko hindi pa tapos ang recessional, nakapila na sa labas yung entourage ng isusunod na ikakasal. Kasi right after makalabas ng friend ko, magstart na yung susunod na wedding. Grabe! Kaya kami very thankful na solo namin yung church on our wedding date. Kahit sikat din si Our Lady of Lourdes Tagaytay, we picked a weekday wedding para sure na wala kami makakasabay.

true. nawawala din talaga yung solemnity nung occassion seeing other guests mingling around kahit hindi pa tapos ang kasal. parang conveyor belt lang ang peg, sunod2 talaga!

although i agree that the church indeed has very nice interiors. pero sana naman they control the number of weddings they accept in a day. hindi yung parang negosyo na.

[nicola_juliano]

Kami din, we pick a week day para sure din na walang kasabayan sa reception at church. However, ang inaalala ko lang is the traffic. di naman ganun kalayuan yung venue from the church pero medyo traffic kasi kapag pa-hapon na.

The worst part na na-attendan kong wedding is malamig na lahat ng pagkain. Pati soup! Dapat hot serving, pero gininaw ako ng todo sa sobrang lamig ng sabaw.

May naattendan din ako na another wedding, panis ang soup.

[deathwatchspider]

The worst part na na-attendan kong wedding is malamig na lahat ng pagkain. Pati soup! Dapat hot serving, pero gininaw ako ng todo sa sobrang lamig ng sabaw.

May naattendan din ako na another wedding, panis ang soup.

^ this is really the worst among the worse. pag food na ang involved. the guests may forgive other lapses (like bad music, gaudy decors, poor emcee, etc.) but not bad food.

[traxxex21]

I heard lang from my officemates.. on the day of the church wedding..
The sister of the groom came instead of the groom, just to tell the bride that he can't do "it".

Out of town wedding to. the bride's friends and family flew in from Manila just to attend the wedding

[donselle]

^ whut?! ang saklap naman nun.. more than the hassle that the guests have to go through, masakit para sa bride na malaman na hindi pala sya pakakasalan ng groom nya.. sigh.. 

[peachlipstick]

Ang sad naman nito sis traxxex21 , bakit daw umatras ang groom? 

[philpotts]

grabe yun sis traxxex21

[CityHunter]

Yup.  Actually had a talk with someone back thenwherein at least 3x siya iniwan sa altar - iba't ibang guys yun ha not just one guy.  I can't recall the details na as it was a long time ago but definitely at least one of those ay doon na sa altar niya nalaman na hindi pala sisipot yun guy.  Happily married naman na siya ngayon.

[j.adore]

Pwede yun idemanda for damages though.. But great to hear she never gave up on love!

[peachlipstick]

Akala ko sa pelikula lang nangyayari ang may hindi sumusipot sa kasal. Grabe naman, sana man lang a few months before pero on the day? I wouldn't know what I'd do pag sa akin nangyari

[funky f]

My boss before, 2x naman. First, kahit paano, around 2-3 months when his fiance cancelled. Then, a few years after, ibang girl din, didn't show up naman sa church. Dun sa first, preggers pa yung girl and my ex-boss claims that the child is his though my other ofcmates (yung mga kasingtagal nya sa ofc) think otherwise (chismis, hehe...)

Ngayon, married na rin sya

[traxxex21]

Yup sis.. may blog pa sya about it kaya lang nasa multiply kay d na maaccess.
Ang hirap lang sa part niya because willing sya to relocate for him. She even requested the company to transfer from Manila to Cebu. after all the preparations on the day pa nya napiling hindi sumipot.

I dont know the reason why the groom didn't show up. Obviously, he doesn't have balls because he let her sister drop the bomb on the day of the wedding.

Pero she's a brave girl, ngayon eh in a relationship na sya and happy

[iceheaven31]

not really worse, pero let's say, "Bride's Father Fail"

1) wedding of colleague:
-bride's father 'threatening' the groom during the father's speech. so, in the microphone, in front of all the guests, he goes like: "o ikaw [groom]. alagaan mo anak ko kundi... alam mo na."
-e syempre andun ang parents ni groom so parang, 

2) wedding of friend:
-bride's father was trying to bring up the bride's past relationship during his speech. it goes something like, "kung alam niyo lang yung dati eh...." [buti nalang he stopped na and nagrereact na talaga si bride].
-e dahil sa maraming nakakaalam nung kwento ni bride about sa ex, totoo naman ang sabi ng dad nya. pero sana di na lang nabanggit in public. buti nalang close si bride at si dad nya so parang tinake nalang as lokohan.



dahil sa mga ito kaya ang may speech lang nung wedding namin e yung best man na medyo pinagtripan namin. pero ok lang, masayang katuwaan.

[donya_dyosa]

ang basehan ko ng worse wedding is yung ginastusan talaga pero ang pangit parin hehe..

wedding of a friend. sa bamboo organ. crowded yung church sa labas. ang daming tao, vendors street children. pag enter ni bride andaming extra na nakasilip sa likod. mga pedicab drivers, tambays, vendors. so yung pix nya sa likod like.  eww. so i swore to myself wala dapat  nakadungaw sa entrance ko.
nung kinakasal na sila yung mga street children nasa loob narin ng church... nanlilimos pa saamin... my goshhh... tapos yung nga bisita nila. mga nakatshrts lang at jeans.
come reception.. friends nila yung hosts. una todo english.... after ilang minuto tagalog na.. haha at since magkakakilala sila, sila sila lang nagkakaintindihan... sobrang boring. . umalis nalang tuloy kami.. pag kakain tutal hindi naman kami naasikaso don hehe

[donya_dyosa]

sorry.. add pa more
wedding ng officemate ko..

wedding nila was a saturday. a week before innanounce... magkakascheduled brown out daw that saturday. i told her to cancel it nalang. ayaw nya ayun... sobrang init summer payun. hindi naman siya totally ginastusan pero imagine.. brownout?

kwento ni pv. umaga wedding. nung may coordinator na sa reception.. wala daw yung caterer. todo contact nila si caterer. miscommunication kala hapon pa ang wedding... ayun dumating sila sa reception ng walang set up. at mga 2pm na yata dumating ang food. nagalisan na bisita sa gutom. ouch...... si bride daw naging demonyo. na sa lahat ng tao sa galit

[j.adore]

Hehe that's why I never liked speeches. Meron din mga MIL saying the bride should serve their son o kaya mga personal stuff like "sa totoo lang ayaw ko tumira kayo sa amin"..


Dami ganyan laki gastos sa wedding but not tasteful.. struggle to be happy for the couple when you're so annoyed tapos ungrateful guest pa dating mo.

[design21]

wedding of cousin in law, hats off kay bride kasi super calm lang parang walang nangyari. Sa caleruega tagaytay kasi dati pa sa dun din reception. ang problem is super lakas ng hangin! to the point na may ilang plato na nabasag linipad ng hangin.

[CityHunter]

Another bad wedding experience was yun sa inaanak ko sa kasal.  Yun service that would bring us to the place on time dumating at ako rin on time dumating pero yun mga iba only then pa lang maliligo at nag-aarte pa yun iba kung pupunta sila or not!  Pa-espesyal pa yun isang ninang kasi councilor sa barangay or some such.  Umiinit na yun ulo ko then sa mga pa-VIP pa.  When we finally arrived sa place ay yun relative nila who volunteered as coordinator nakatunganga lang.  Mabuti na lang I went up where I saw people coming in and out of - mga mag-shoot ng video and pictures - as was wondering where nga yun venue sa kasal as may 3 places doon for it being readied.  Mabuti na rin I asked kasi yun so-called coordinator was not coordinating sa driver kaya yun ikakasal naghihintay pa doon sa hotel.  At least things went smoothly after though I had to rush to a batch meeting after that dahil things started late so we ended up late rin