gandang morning!
belated happy birthday serendipity
carmi - dont cha worry, not all couples naman eh ka-sweetan ang way of showing of LOVE
share ko lang in one transformational leadership workshop that i attended, there are 5 languages of LOVE according to Gary Chapman
Words of AffirmationActions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.
Quality TimeIn the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
Receiving GiftsDon’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.
Acts of ServiceCan vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
Physical TouchThis language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
dapat daw i-assess nyo yung top 3 na gusto nyong ginagawa sa inyo to feel loved and top 3 na ginagawa nyo to show your love (both hubby and wifey). that way, you can reciprocate each other's needs. ako kasi i show love through acts of service, physical touch and quality time pero i feel loved through words of affirmation, receiving gifts and quality time. pero since di mahilig magbigay ng gifts si hubby, bumabawi na lang siya sa iba
di lang to sa couples applicable even you your friends and loved ones, even coworkers
advance happy hearts day na
