2011 Brides, now 2011 Wives

[princessrio]

o.. dito na ituloy ang usapan!

[Prunella]

Hi, sisses.

How has married life been for you?

[princessrio]

Naku sis.. di ko pa masyadong ramdam! haha.. since, LDR kami ni hubby, ang nabago lang eh nagpapadala na sha ng pera sa akin. haha.. yun lang, napadalas ang pago-online nya (may bayad kasi ang load dun e) to monitor me and our baby. will give birth anytime last week of feb or first week of march.  we're excited to see our baby boy.

tapos darating sha sa april! whoopee!!

[gogreengorgeous]

Good morning!!!

Hmm, ako naman, well same lang. Except for the puppy haha, para kaming may instant baby ni hubby! Saka ngayon we try to upgrade our items na for our flat. Saka ngayon nakakahiya hindi umattend sa mga reunions ng family syempre kasi expect nila na dapat kasama ka na....and ang pinaka-big question ngayon lagi samin is "ano may laman na ba?" LOL

[carmichael18]

wow bagong tambayan!!!

o siguro dito wala ng OT.. hehe kasi married life na ang usapan...

prunella - sis! it's so nice to see you posting here again..

well everything's been nice. I resigned from work, but God is good, kasi he opened windows for me. As in widely open sa dami ng opportunities and clients na nagbo-book sa amin... As for us ni RJ, minsan nagui-guilty ako na hindi ko na siya napagluluto ng dinner, or ng baon niya for work kasi late na ako natutulog or umuuwi from meetings.. but I'm sure he understands, pero ako yung may guilty feeling.. kasi sinanay ko siya ng ganon, and know I feel bad na hindi ko na nagagawa yun madalas..

ang ultimate question -- wala pa bang laman yan? -- ang lage kong sagot, "meron po, tae.." bwahaha!!!

eh kasi naman pressure kung pressure, every week na lang na uuwi ako dun yun ang tanong!.. haha...

[carmichael18]

my post re sa 2011 bride topic...

worst talaga yung feeling ko nung wedding ko about dun.. imagine i didn't invite any officemate and other close friends.. kasi gusto ko yung solid barkada ko nung high school ang andun, since hindi na keri ng budget ng sobrang guests.. I reserved 18 seats for them (including their hubbys), come our wedding day, only 3 of them came.. my best friend and another friend with her hubby and kid.. I bet kung hindi abay yung anak niya baka hindi rin siya pumunta...

remember nakwento ko before n violent reaction sila when I said morning and wedding ko at sa malate... I bet tinamad sila lahat dahil taga rizal kami and just gave me reasons na may work, hindi nakaleave, or may aasikasuhin sa business.. come on!!!

i really felt bad, kasi ako nag-asikaso ng lahat ng weddings nila.. as in full coordination with emcee -- di ba everything for a friend, then nung turn ko na, they were not there, like they never cared at all... kung wala yung mga GT sisses, puro kamag-anak ko lang bisita ko...

but of course, dahil mabait ako.. sila pa rin ang best friends ko till now.. this is the second time, they ganged up against me (one was with my ex-fiance.. as in lahat sila dun nagkampihan when we split.. to the point na lumalabas sila kasama siya, and hindi nila pina-paalam sa akin.. may mga lakad kami na kinancel nila saying hindi tuloy, yun pala natuloy, pero kasama si ex, ayaw nila kami pagtagpuin, kaya they'd rather go out with him na lang...ako na lang yung hindi kasama...)

[gogreengorgeous]

^ay naku sis ang bait mo naman...ako siguro kung dun pa lang sa 1st na incident na yun e nagkaalaman na kami e goodbye na lang siguro. Dun ako syempre sa friends ko na kahit ano pa man, would stand by me, hindi yung yayariin ako ng nakatalikod ako. Haaayayay...

Anyway, usapang laman, nakakapressure nuh? Nakakadepress tuloy pagka-minsan..Everytime tuloy na papalapit na ang period ko kinakabahan ako kasi baka magka-period ako. (Baliktad nung iba na kinakabahan baka delayed) LOL

[princessrio]

4g gumawa kasi kayo sa umaga..tapos pag nagclimax na, taas mo lang paa mo for 15 minutes, lagay ka ng pillow sa ilalim. let them swim muna. don't wash agad. tee hee!...

[gogreengorgeous]

@rio hahahaa sis!! Naloka ako sa advice mo!! Hahaha pero ma-try nga thanks! eto nga nagvvitamins na ko e (Vit.C and E) kasi baka kulang ako sa vitamins. Pero kasi dati pag umiinom ako vitamins nagkakasakit ako e hahaha. Thanks!!

[Prunella]

Sis Rio, OMG. Time flies! you'll be a mom soon na. I remember your post last year when you found out you're preggy. Seems like yesterday. Take care!


Sis 4G, baby dust! Just relax, don't think too much about it, and most of all enjoy.


Sis Carmi, hi! We're wifeys na. Still can't believe it. It feels surreal, no? Anyway, you're too kind. If that happened to me, they would no longer be my friends. I find that very inconsiderate.

About "laman", natawa ako sa reply ni sis Carmi. Haha!

For us naman, super busy. After the wedding, we packed our stuff and moved to the Middle East. I was busy house-hunting, decorating our new place and just running errands. I thoughtI would be burned out kasi sobrang intense talaga last year.  I only had time to breathe a little in November.

Then last month, I got a job as a senior photographer. And it keeps me unbelievably busy. My sched overlaps half of the time.

Hindi man lang kami nakapag-honeymoon.


But we're happy. I'm still not used to being called his "wife". It makes me feel so... grown up.

[carmichael18]

haller!!!

rio - kaloka ang advice ha.. medyo depressing nga, kasi eversince naman hindi kami safe sex ni hubby kahit magjowa pa lang kami.. and we do yang tataas ang paa - kulang na nga lang bumaliktad ako para walang lumabas kahit 1.. hehe... pero wala pa rin..

4G - ako rin tensed pag malapit magkaron.. minsan nadedelay kasi iniisip ko na baka delayed ako.. hehe... pero wala pa rin eh... ako hindi pa nag vitamins... usapan namin pag 6 months na kami at wala pa rin, we'll see a doctor na...

prunella -- yes, seems like yesterday, miss pa tayo.. until now, nakakalimutan ko pa rin yung bago kong last name buti hindi naririnig ni hubby.. hehe... don't worry makakahanap din kayo ng time for your honeymoon!..

[Prunella]

Sis Carmi, we'll be honeymooning daw next month. Yay! naku... I'm getting obsessed din and I can't help but feel disappointed everytime my period comes. Oh well, in God's time.

[carmichael18]

^ true sis! in God's time...

btw, forgot to say congrats on your new title! wow senior photographer.. talented! hmua na photographer pa..

[Prunella]

Thanks, sis. I'm focusing on photography at the moment. Mas stressful kasi. I like stress. LOL.

I was just looking at your wedding website. You looked so happy walking fown the aisle. I love your birdcage veil and your dress. Parang ang sarap ikasal ulit.

[mafiapenguins]

gandang morning mga sis... quickie post lang dahil may bagong bahay na...

usapang transition to being a wifey, actually wala naman nagbago sa amin, i go to work he stays home. he cooks and does everything sa house while beating his deadlines sa mga projects, habang nagpapaburyong ako sa opis. but the feeling - iba talaga. i dont know pero parang mas strong ngayon and i would have to agree to what sis pru said - surreal nga sya. until, now parang magjowa pa rin kami just like how it was before the wedding, then it will grow stronger pag narealise ko na mag-asawa na kami

usapang injan friends... hay naku at isa pang hay naku. kung pwede lang talagang maglista ng friends na presona non grata... tapos eto, yung dapat best man ni hubby na hindi natuloy, kinasal pala nung 15, a day before us. ok [textspeak!] naman kasi nagsabi sya kay hubby na hindi sya makakarating, then later nalaman namin nga na ikakasala din pala sya. well, hindi naman sya ang issue namin, but their common friends. may tampo mode kasi yung mga friends nila na hindi sya (si dapat bestman ni hubby) naginvite sa wedding nila. nak ng tokwa yan, kung sa amin nga, na ininvite sila, eh hindi sila nakarating, tapos dun nagtatampo sila na hindi sila ininvite?

usapang bebe, eto na naman tayo... chill lang daw. may nabasa ako na possible challenge din to concieve is stRess. kami, may pressure, and probably mas mabigat vs normal, kasi triplets ang demand nila nanay. kamusta naman diba. pero sabi namin, kung meron, eh di meron, pag wala eh di try ulet. no pressure lang, hindi naman sila ang magbubuhat diba ü

usapang honeymoon, wala din kami nyan. after the wedding, nagstay lang kami sa hotel for two more nights  tapos uwi na then may family outing after. tapos xmas na then new year. 5 days lang nag leave ko for the wedding at maraming naiwan na trabaho, same with hubby. so ayun, back to work agad. kaya nag honeymoon ay instAllment basis. mejo corny lang kasi kasama namin si SIL and hubby nya plus kid sa mga trips namin ü

[kaice]

gandang morning!

ako yata pinakamatagla ng kasal dito as of the moment! hehe!

transition - hubby and I moved to our new house on our wedding night. first time that we sleep there but most of the stuff are complete prior to the wedding except that his things are still on suitcases  . i am very domesticated and he is senyorito  kaya wala namang problems though since both of us are working, we try to divide household chores among us. natuto na sya maghugas ng plates, maglaundry (pero aabutin ng 10 years), etc. we have very stressful schedule kaya we try to maximize the time that we are together in the house. plus i'm home alone 3x a week if he is on duty. 

baby issues -  after 5 weeks, we learned that we are going to be MOM & DAD! it was truly a blessing because i am already looking for infertility doctor kasi i have hormonal imbalance, thyroid problem, blood disorder, etc. pero nayon pa lang naman daw kami nagta-try kaya wag muna. but GOD gave us a real blessing and coming soon na si BABY KATE kaya don't be pressured, GOD will bless you in his perfect time. kahit yung OB ko di makapaniwala kasi sa kanya ako nagco-consult ng fertility doctor then after one week tinawagan ko na siya kasi preggy na ko

honeymoon - wala kami nito kasi we stayed at our house nga on our wedding night  at least love nest talaga yung bedroom namin haha! pero we plan to have one by end of the year. di lang namin sure kung kaya namin iwan si baby kate. pero definitely no baby #2 muna, after 4 years na siguro haha!

rio - kakaibang technique naman yan.. haha! madami pa yata akong dapat matutunan haha! ours is mainly "tsamba" or "hit or miss" haha! i had my period pa kasi 4 days after the wedding haha!

[carmichael18]

hola chikas!!!

good morning! parang ang dami kong nilistang gagawin ngayon pero wala pa ako nagawa.. ahha

bayad ng bills at sss, punta kina ate fe at papaquote ng gown ng clients (2 sets) at magdadala na rin ng pamasko sa kanila, at may meeting after lunch... pero eto nasa harap pa rin ako ng pc, at wala pang nagawa.. hehe, except to answer a few emails...

kaice - ang bongga ng advise ni rio.. di ko akalain fertility guru ka pala rio.. hahaha

prunella - yes! thanks sis! sabi nga ng kapatid ko nung nakita pics, bakit daw ako tumatawa? (kasi hindi siya smile eh, tawa talaga)

mafia - ayun, persona non grata yung iniisip ko.. salamat! oo nga kainis yung mga magtatampo pa eh hindi naman din sila pumunta.. hay naku... di bale, wala na silang pro-bono na service sa akin next time.. 

[gullible]

hello mga sis

grabe na-miss ko mag-post:D

honeymoon - wala pa rin kami nito...wedding night kasi sa apartment ni hubby na kami nag-stay...hopefully this year makapag-out-of-town kami na kaming 2 lang...nitong holiday kasi laging with our families ang out-of-town namin:)

transition - kami parang nagbabahay-bahayan pa rin...siguro dahil wala pang baby... pero mas madalas si hubby ang napapaisip kung totoong kasal na kami...minsan di pa rin siya makapaniwala...haha...sis carmie, like you nagi-guilty rin ako kung minsan kasi si late ako makatulog at late ako magising kaya si hubby nagluluto ng breakfast namin lagi...dinner naman, bihira lang ako makapagluto kasi late ako nakakauwi..pero this month sa paglipat namin sa bagong apartment, susubukan ko na gumising nang maaga, para makabawi naman kay hubby:)

baby - first of all congtrats sa mga malapit nang manganak...sis rio and sis kaice, i pray that you have safe delivery:D sa mga gusto nang magka-baby mukhang okay nga ang advice ni sis rio:D kami kasi ni hubby safe sex pa rin ngayon kasi gusto namin makaipon muna before ako magbuntis...in 6 months siguro ready na kami:) at pag hindi rin agad kami magkaroon ng baby, try ko advice ni sis rio

[princessrio]

carmi - haha.. fertility guru ka dyan! hihi.. it took us also a very very long time bago nakabuo noh? well, except for the last 2 years kasi shempre, nag-OFW na ang lolo mo para makapag-ipon.

eh kasi naman sisters, yung asawa ko, pagbalik eh medyo maraming naipong bala.. haha.. teka! nababastusan na ako sa sarili ko nito.. 

honeymoon?? eh pagdating pa lang ni hubby eh honeymoon na agad. tapos kasalukuyang nag-aayos ng wedding eh nagawa pa naming magbaguio. after the wedding, one night sa hotel, tapos gora to bora naman.

i'm still staying here at my parents' house. maayos naman ako dito. wala ring kaso sa parents ko since they would want na dito na rin muna ako dahil wala yung kapatid kong bunso at nagwork sa hungary. saka, gusto nila nakikita ako lagi kasi shempre buntis nga ako. alagang alaga ako ng tatay ko sa pagkain. umuuwi rin ako minsan sa inlaws ko, pero last na uwi ko muna yung after christmas. di ko na siguro kakayanin yung malayuang byahe.

[kaice]

eto na ang favorite topic ko haha...

HOW WAS your IN-LAWS?