How would you know if you already love yung nanliligaw sayo...

[imyourangel]

...or baka naappreciate mo lang siya dahil dumating siya nung heartbroken ka.

I don't know what I'm feeling right now kasi, ayoko naman maka-sakit ng tao... na baka sagutin ko siya dahil lang natutuwa ako sa presence and pagpapahalaga niya sa akin, na hindi ko naexperience dun sa guy who broke my heart.

[xta]

you won't. love is hard work. love felt at the stage of courtship is superficial. you know you love a person when despite the bad things you see and know about him, you still accept him. at Ligawan stage, (see ligawan; focus on its root word 'ligaw'), you can barely say you know him too well.

you'll know only when you take the risk of actually being with him.

[Serena.]

For example, he used to text you everyday, at kapag hindi sya nakapagtext kahit isang araw lang hinahanap hanap mo na sya.

[aquacharly]

When you always make time for him na

[JHAZbewithyou]

Pag ramdam mong gusto mo sya laging makita..

[angelee]

Siguro siya na naiisip mo pagkagising at bago matulog. Tapos lagi ka naka-smile kapag magka-text, chat or usap kayo.. at lagi mo siya gusto makasama

[Girltalker2]

For example, he used to text you everyday, at kapag hindi sya nakapagtext kahit isang araw lang hinahanap hanap mo na sya.

Minsan it is just the attention that I miss. Kaya di ko masabi talaga 'mahal' ko sya. What I did one time is to date other people din. Kung baga meet and mingle. And see if he really stands out or runs through your mind kahit iba kasama mo or kahit iba ang nagbibigay sayo ng attention. Pag nabaling ang isip mo at sa iba ka kinilig kahit minsan, then hindi mo sya ganun kamahal pa.

[Girltalker2]

^ typical Filipino. Kaya ayaw ko sa mga Pinoy ganyan sila.

[rheinfall18]

imo, you will not know it, you will feel it.. o ha! tee hee!

(@.@)

[sacred cow]

you'll know when you don't have to ask trivial questions like these..kasi it's already painfully obvious

[Mommy•Shey]

Para sakin, ma fe-feel kong love ko na siya kapag:

• Nasabi mo na lahat sa kanya ng tungkol sa buhay mo, maganda man or pangit but still he's there for me and accepts me for who I am.
• When you told him na "Hindi kapa masyado nakapag move-on" ( kahit na isang taon na kayong wala ni ex ), pero, he's so patient on picking up every piece of broken you, para mabalik yung buong "ikaw".
• Hindi siya demanding sa oras.
• at higit sa lahat, may respeto sayo.

[snix]

matgal kami nagligawan ni bf and on his eigth month ng panliligaw ng nakita ko siya na may kausap na iba at parang nakikipaglandian siya (exxagerated syempre sa part ko) ayun nagselos ako at nasasaktan iniyakan ko pa magdamag pinsan niya pala dun ko nalaman na gusto ko na siya and i love him not as a friend anymore but more than that..

ng mga unang stages kasi pinapakiramdaman ko ba kung hinahanap ko lang tung atensyon niya o talagang gusto ko siya.. i think you'll just suddenly feel it

[aquacharly]

...or baka naappreciate mo lang siya dahil dumating siya nung heartbroken ka.

I don't know what I'm feeling right now kasi, ayoko naman maka-sakit ng tao... na baka sagutin ko siya dahil lang natutuwa ako sa presence and pagpapahalaga niya sa akin, na hindi ko naexperience dun sa guy who broke my heart.

Gusto mo know IF the beginnings of true love na yan, or rebound???

Well, in both cases kasi - you start na hanap hanapin na yang manliligaw mong bago.
So all I can say: Sige, paligaw  ka, enjoy the courtship; but do not jump into a new relationship muna.  Get to know each other really  well first.

[blackgreen]

I'm in this situation now. I don't know if I love him or I'm just fascinated with the attention he's giving me.

Sabi nila love ko na, kasi kahit ang jologs niya pumorma sumasama pa rin ako. Tapos nagseselos na rin daw ako eh kahit close workmate lang niya yun tapos ikakasal na. Hayy..

Masayang mahirap mainlove.

[lulacruz]

Everything needs time. Time will make you forget the hurt that your ex-partner caused. Time will make you fall in love the one who is flirting with you. Why don't you play territorial io with him to have fun and tighten your relationship?