Attitude problem ng mga kids!

[i.love.siomai]

we have this problem na nakakasira talaga ng mood. i have 3 nieces kasi yung dalawa magkapatid, sila lahat nakatira sa bahay. iba sila eh, sumasagot sagot tinuturuan sila para sa ikabubuti naman nila.they dont respect us, im 22 and they were only 9 and 11 years old matapang pa sa amin. ayoko kasi ng mga bata kung kelan binabawalan eh susuwayin ka pa.eto pa ,parents just laughed at them! for me, they are no longer kids.parati sinasabi bata lang yan. pero may mga kakilala naman ako na bata pa sa kanila but still they already know whats right and whats wrong.. pinakaayaw ko natutulog ka pa tapos magigising ka sa ingay, pumapasok sa room at kumukuha ng mga things na hindi nagpapaalam. minsan minumura pa kami.ikaw hindi ka ba mahihiya mga tita mo ginaganyan mo na alam mo nakikitira ka lang? parati ako nawawala sa mood. paulit ulit na lang na kailangan pa sila sabihan tapos mamaya gagawin ulit! ayoko ng mga ganyang bata. sabi naman ng mga ate ko parents din nila mahihirapan when they grow up.siguro kahit sabunutan mama nila magagawa nila.hindi kasi nila tinuturuan ng good manners kaya ganyan..kami pa napapasama pag pinagsasabihan namin sila.

[yapeegurl]

Sis, mahirap talaga makipag deal with kids specially if they are really aggressive and hyper. Add mo na din ang factor na mahirap sila intindihin specially if you are not a mother yet.

Have you tried sitting down with them and ask them nicely to behave? Or possibly explain to them how you want things done around the house? You can also lock your room while you're sleeping para they wont disturb you. What about the parents? Have you discussed this with them? Or you might want to buy a book about manners and give them as presents to the kids. This will help.

[mom_G]

Based on your story, I think a big part of it is that their parents condone that kind of behavior.  Kung di sila binabawalan ng mismong parents nila, lalo silang di makikinig sa iba.  Hindi ba kasama parents nila sa house ninyo?  If not, then I guess kayo yung mag-aasume ng "parenting role" and kailangan mag-disiplina sa kanila.  I agree, try talking to them in an nice way and enforce some house rules, which everybody will follow.  Simple things like, not getting things na walang paalam, knocking before going inside the room, being quiet pag may natutulog.  These are very basic and quite easy to follow.  At ages 9 and 11, dapat talagang may good manners na

[i.love.siomai]

Thanks sisses!
yes, most of the time kinakausap namin then later on ganun nanaman nakakalimutan ulit yung sinabi namin..pati mama ko sinasabihan din sila. yung parents naman eh tatawanan pa kapag may ginawang kabastusan...grabe kung makasagot.sabi ko nga sila na lang tatawagin namin tita,sila na mas matanda sa amin.

[muahmuahmuah]

maybe it's about time for them to move out. whatever the arrangement is or story behind it if they can't play by your rules let alone respect the sanctity of your household might as well have them leave.

[yapeegurl]

^^I think they just need your constant reminder. May mga bata talaga na kailangan paulit ulit para mag sink in sa kanila ang message. But more than anything else, mas maganda pa din talaga na manggaling sa parents nila. Pero like what you said and described na tino-tolerate ng parents, ikaw na lang ang mag tyaga na mag remind sa kanila. They will thank you in time.

[MomTrish]

mahirap talaga pag sabihan the way na gusto mo especially pag hindi mo anak pero they will thank you in time pag sinasabihan mo silana mali yung ugali nila

[sexy_maldita0089]

Naku yung apo ng land lady namin sobrang maldita!  5 years old pa lang, kung makasagot sa lola nya akala mo matanda.. nakakainis! Walang tumatagal na yaya kasi sa ugali ng batang yun, kung minsan nga gusto kong sabunutan or di kaya kurutin sa singit kasi nakakairita kung sumagot sa lola, walang respeto sa matanda sa kanya kaya lang di ko naman pwede gawin kasi di ko naman kamag-anak saka nakakahiya sa land lady namin.. hehe