anong mafifeel niyo kapag wala kayo kahit isang picture ng bf mo sa FB niya?

[annkarenc]

okay lang sakin ang importante yung status niya dun is IN A RELATIONSHIP. it's just facebook, what matters the most is yung pinakilala ka na sa family and friends ng bf mo kasi they are real people. actually mas gusto ko nga na wala kaming pic sa fb kasi i want our relationship to be in private, what i mean is walang makikisawsaw at walang pakialamera at inggitera

[simang]

okay lang sakin ang importante yung status niya dun is IN A RELATIONSHIP. it's just facebook, what matters the most is yung pinakilala ka na sa family and friends ng bf mo kasi they are real people. actually mas gusto ko nga na wala kaming pic sa fb kasi i want our relationship to be in private, what i mean is walang makikisawsaw at walang pakialamera at inggitera

the problem is... most girls want faceboo proofs of their relationship para may makisawsaw at kainggitan sila ng iba some people have this celebrity status on facebook na if you're not the trending one, then you must be up to no good. that's how serious they are with facebook. hahaha

[blackgreen]

Okay lang sa akin kasi si boyfriend di naman talaga ma-post ng buhay niya, pero kung si boyfriend eh open book tapos wala kaming picture dun ako magtataka.

[sugardrop]

^^
That's true. I guess there are a few of us who aren't wired that way. I prefer keeping my relationship status private kesa naman todo post tapos pag naghiwalay, todo bura and you'll have to answer questions from people who have nothing to do with your relationship pa talaga.

Then again, that's just me. Kanya-kanyang trip.

[slickchick]

^ same reason sis. better to keep the relationship private para if may trouble, hindi nakikisawsaw ang buong bayan. it would also be easier to settle any disputes between the couple kung walang mga nakikisawsaw - be it family or friends (and not-so-close friends).

my guy and i we don't post our pics together, and we also don't update our FB relationship status. he doesn't update his, i don't update mine. he's not that active din naman in FB. we face the same risk, but then again, trust is an important factor in a relationship. and same with what sis simang said, ayaw namin mag-trending sa FB. parang K.S.P. naman ang dating.. just my opinion lang din..

[Genesisbabelove]

Naku malamang masakit , for sure may pinagtataguan sya kaya ayaw ipost picture sa facebook

[wildorchid]

Weve been together for almost two years as bf gf. Im in this situation also kasi he finds it baduy daw. Mag i love you nga, nababaduyan sya. Magpost pa kaya ng photos namin. I also dont post our pics. At nakakatamad na rin kumuha ng bagong photos together. Sa sobra bitter ko, dinelete ko din lahat ng pics namin before. Sure it hurts. Pero he doesnt seem to care at all kung nabura ko na lahat. Asar. Haha

[Miss.Pancake]

Nangyari to sakin lately. Nun nagbreak kami ng fiance ko. After a week pagtingin ko ng FB niya tinanggal na niya yun pics namin tapos ang dami na niyang inadd na girls sa fb niya. Syempre sobrang nahurt ako. Gusto ko nga siyang tanggalin sa friends ko kaso hindi pa ko ready alisin siya.

[t_r_i_s_h]

I replied to this thread before and I said YES it is important maybe because that time active ako sa fb hahaha but yeah this is case to case basis. kung di ma facebook si guy okay lang pero pag active naman sya medyo nakak offend siguro kung kahit isang pic wala.

[Miss.Pancake]

^lakas maka tabla di ba? 

[truthfruit]

Nangyari na rin to sakin before with myexbf, pero alam ko rin naman reasons nya kung bakit kasi pinagiinitan sya ng mga may gusto  sakin na alam naman nyang di ko gusto. Kapag gusto nyang ipost ko pic namin sa fb ko, ginagawa ko pero if sya minsan pahirapan pa. Siguro dahil mas mahilig talaga mga babae sa fb kesa sa mga lalaki. Naiintindihan ko naman sya at first, kaya lang hacker din kasi ako so ayun nahuli ko rin sya sa inbox na may mga nakakameet pala sya at minemessage na mga carshowmodels, grabe mga nabasa ko, muntik ko na syang patayin sa galit.

[t_r_i_s_h]

^ true.

minimal posting is okay pag oa umay eh. I have friends on fb pati away nila nakapost, over sharing eh. tapos yung mga photos na nasa kama tapos medyo half naked-ish yung look.. UMAYYYY!

[Jaguar.Paw]

dedma.

teka, is it just me? mas mas ayaw ko pa nga magpost sya ng pictures namin sa FB nya e. di ko lang talaga feel. except yung mga travels namin. yun ok lang i post nya.

hindi ako ma facebook na tao. check check lang ng message at notification. minsan i deactivate my account. ang dami na ngang pending approval na post at tag. hay. kundi lang sa mga friends ko na na meet ko during travels from different countries, malamang matagal ng patay FB ko.

[purplegravity]

Well, he's not just into you.  He's not proud of you and most likely, di ka nya ganun kamahal.  It hurts but thats reality.

[Marquita]

This has been an issue for a while back when me and my bf started

later on nalaman ko may previous girl pa pala kasi siya at di pa niya hinihiwalayan.

eventually after months and years of losing trust and fixing naging okay na at nagppost na ng pix pero may mga tao lang talaga na di sobrang showy lalo na sa social media.

i myself become lazy to show off our relationship, di ko lang alam kung dahil nawalan lang rin ako ng gana in the long run. Para bang kung ayaw mo bakit ako mageeffort.

[good_girl]

nakalagay naman sa status nya na he's in a relationship with me.. then me one pic naman kami together sa timeline nya. but on my post he's not not a frequent liker. I confronted him. He said that was two years ago na raw.. different way na raw sya maghandle ng relationship. Wag na raw ako mag isip kase we are always together naman.. like every time wala syang work. I even know his parents and siblings, pero my concern kase is yung mga tao sa pinas, his friends.. I even saw one message from his ex besfriend asking how is his lovelife and active na raw ba kame magpost sa fb about samen. Syempre nagkaka doubt tuloy ako.

[simang]

Pano naman if [textspeak!] boyfie mo ay di ngayon mapost sa fb pero sa past relationship nya is very vocal sya how he love her at sya pa [textspeak!] frequent nag comment?

Hmm what happened to his past relationships? Well yes, they ended, right? Being overly PDA on facebook is never an assurance that your relationship will last. Kung past nga nya natapos din eh. Maybe he's trying a different approach with you, like maybe, trying to be a genuinely good boyfriend in real life.

[sugardrop]

Facebook does not define your relationship not does it guarantee how much your partner loves you. Mapaparaning lang kayo kakaisip.

[good_girl]

Thank you sis Simang! I will understand him  and Mas gusto ko naman na showy sa personal kesa sa Facebook. pero much better if me pakilig pa rin kahit minsan .. kase im so proud of our relationship kaya ako nagkakaganito. pero 101% me point ka .

[good_girl]

Thanks sis Sugardrop! You are right di ko na iniisip ngayon. Parang ako kase ang di maka move on sa ex nya di si bf. hihi.. I love him and `i know ganun rin sya saken. Thanks sa lahat