anong mafifeel niyo kapag wala kayo kahit isang picture ng bf mo sa FB niya?

[simang]

Aliw basahin yung thread na to ;-) Happy for you TS that everything is well now.

Iba iba talaga tayo ng 'love language' (siguro dapat isama na as 6th language ang facebook haha), so the most important thing is respect.

Share ko lang, when my bf and i were still dating, i wouldn't tag him in any post especially if we're out together (checkin, etc), and ganun din sya. We have one common friend (who introduced me to him) and everytime magsaswak yung fb posts nmin, bibiruin nya kame by commenting on our separate posts na 'nagdate na naman kayo'. It was actually fun kase i felt like i was selling the mystery to our common friend.

Anyway here's another: my sister and her husband lives with my parents, and my sister posts cheesy fb statuses tagging her husband like crazy. For example: family picture sa car going somewhere (usually out of town), status about how her husband holds her hand as they sleep, or stares as her as they wake up, and how happy they are as a family, yeah those overly cheesy vomit inducing stuff. But here are my issues: they dont own the car (that's our parent's car) Another thing, when i go home to my parent's place, i notice that they argue a lot, my sister is the typical wife who asks her husband what to do, but ends up insisting on what she wants, ans a little naggy too.

My point is that what you post on facebook is what you want people to think of you. It's an image. It doesn't reflect your real life. We create a pseudo-self that is likable, but unreal, and im talking about those who are obsessed about facebook.

[sugardrop]

I don't mind. Iilan rin lang naman ang pictures ko sa facebook, di ako mahilig mag-upload because I still like a little privacy doon. Mas madami pa yata pictures ng aso ko kesa sakin sa account ko. There's more to a relationship than posting pictures on facebook or updating one's dating status and escapades.

[budzwhiz]

Well said, sissies sugardrop and simang. Nakakagaan ng loob ah. Samin kasi hindi rin talaga pwede, kasi di pa kami legal. Kung minsan mejo nakakapagtampo rin, kasi sya hindi rin nagpopost. Although sinasabi nya naman sakin na, kilala naman ako ng lahat ng malapit sa kanya. Ako lang talaga mejo makulit ayoko nang may aaligid pa that's why I want him to post pictures rin. Kairita kasi yung mga kuto e. Pero tama nga naman. And like what kim chiu said, we don't owe them our private lives! hahahah

[sugardrop]

O diba, may tama din si Kim Chiu! Haha!

[winkypops]

for me okay lang kahit wala ako picture basta alam ko kung ano ang status namin dalawa. saka gusto ko rin un privacy..di naman kailangan ipangalandakan sa fb lahat ng tungkol sa buhay natin

[smurfs]

dapat lang talaga valid and understandable reasons nya for doing so.. social media like FB is i think one of the small ways to show how proud you are of your bf/gf.

[Giri]

There is something wrong pag wala kayo pic sa fb ng gf/bf ninyo kahit isa man lang na magkasama kayo. Understandable naman iyung ayaw ni bf/gf na marami kayo pic na magkasama sa fb, kasi nga baka pag piyestahan. Pero iyung ni isa or dalawa man lang na pic na magkasama kayo ay wala,magisip kana.

Dalawa lang naiisip ko na reason kung bakit wala ka pic sa fb ng bf/gf mo.

1. Hindi siya proud sayo.
2. He/she tries to hook up with another girl/boy.

[onilord]

Baka naman si BF e hindi lang talaga active sa mga social sites tulad ng FB.

Tingnan mo ang wallet nya, pag wala kang picture dun, dun ka na maghinala ^_^

[alice_alice]

Hindi ito big deal sa akin kasi ako mismo hinde masyadong mapost sa fb maraming tsismosa/o na pagpipiyestahan yung pictures or worst baka lait laitin pa kame

Yung status, siya nagsabi na ilagay in a relationship tapos may name name sabi ko kahit wala ng name ko basta nakalagay in a relationship siya kasi ako makalkal ako ng fb profile ng iba hahaha fb stalking so ako siniguro ko na sa account ko wala masyadong makikita yung mga tao even my closest friends para iwas tsismis talaga.

Pero sa phones at ipad puro pics namen 2. Discreet talaga kame.

[Yamski]

Hmmm.. with the nature of his work, he can't post pics of us. I even had to erase all past pics namin online. Nasanay na lang and natuto na rin na hindi maging ma-post ng pics. Kaya deadma lang. Pero both of us "in a relationship" ang status. Sa mga status, if magkasama kami or having a date, tipong "... with my love" lang ang karugtong ng shout out ko.

[jamimi29]

This happened to me before with my previous relationship. i had this ex na wala kaming picture together sa acct. Nya, unless tagged lang sya. So I asked him, sabi ko, if he can post a pic of us, blahblahblah.. then he broke up with me
 Hahaha. Yes sissies, he broke up with me when I asked him to post a picture of us.

[sw33tsw33t]

He doesn't want people to know that he's committed, ikinakahiya ka niya or he's looking to hook up with other women

[k_fine]

i had the same experience with my ex-bf. friendster days pa. wala talaga kami pic sa fs nya. turned out marami siyang ka-chat, textmates, callmates and who knows kung saan ako naka-kategorya doon. imbyerna!

[katrinac]

Not really applicable for me, kasi yung asawa ko, hindi marunong mag facebook. FB ko ang madalas na ginagamit nya, even my twitter. He doesn't even know how to check his notifications, ako pa nagturo. di talaga sya kasi mahilig sa social networking sites. Di rin sya nag uupload ng pics, and wala din syang status.  Ang bukod tanging album lang ata na andun is yung wedding photos namin, na sya pa nagutos sakin na iupload ko daw. hehe! nandun lang sya to check status ng mga friends nya, and pa like like lang ng comments. Other than that, wala na. mga pictures nalang na tinatag sa kanya ang madalas na andun.

Anyway, I have a friend, 4years din sila ng bf nya (ex na nya ngayon), yung first few months, si guy eh nag popost pa ng picture snila sa FB> pero after few years, as in totally wala na. Puro selfie nalang nya talaga. kaumay lang kasi lalake sya then puro selfie. in love sya masyado sa katawan nya. hehe! so ayun, yun pala si guy eh madaming ka affair. and whats worse eh hinide pa nya lahat ng status nya dun sa friend ko. sa habang sila, hindi updated yung friend ko sa lahat ng status ng guy. So ayun , nag break din sila. Good riddance.
Ngayon, yugn guy may bagong gf, and todo posts ng pictures nila mapa IG and FB. 

[Prinsesa Mumela]

Ayos lang. Hindi issue sakin yun  hindi naman porket wala kaming pic dun sa facebook nya eh hindi na nya ako mahal, na hindi sya proud sakin. Kanya-kanya lang talaga ng trip yan.

[roxy14]

Para sakin okay lang. 3 years na kami ng boyfriend ko at dalawa or tatlo lang ang picture namin sa facebook. nung minsan nagaway kami, 2 years ago, ginawa kong single yung status ko and hindi ko na pinalitan ever since. never naging issue samin yun kasi we're both very private. hindi kami yung tipong pala post ng picture na kaming dalawa lang nag dadate. but I have a compilation of all our pictures in my laptop. para sakin nasa trust lang yan sa partner mo and based rin sa personality niya. honestly, madami kasing usisera sa facebook paranoid lang. haha! kaya mas gugustuhin ko na hindi gawin public ang relationship namin. mas gusto ko na magulat na lang sila after so many years na, 'kayo pa pala?" kesa malaman ng buong facebook community na wala na kami

[supergirl01]

Nakakainis yung mga ganitong guys.  I had a boyfriend dati never din sya nag-post ng photos namin kasi he's a very private person. But then I found out, he's hooking up with another girl pala, exchanging flirty convos pero he never had a chance to meet her kasi nasa akin sya palagi Ako din naman very private, pero isang picture lang pinopost ko para hindi pagpiyestahan masyado. lol

Nabubuksan mo ba ang Facebook acct nya sis?

[sugardrop]

Ako walang relationship status and walang kahit isang picture nya or naming dalawa. Hehe.

[redsh0es]

magagalit - kasi wala namang dahilan para hindi ipost ang picture ko sa facebook niya, kung kami talaga, dapat sinasabi niya sa lahat na ako ang gf niya at eto ang picture namin hehe

magdududa - oo agad agad! bakit hindi pinapakita ang picture ko sa facebook niya? may tinatago lang?

[DianeShishio]

Case to case basis. This is a red flag for a partner who constantly uses social media. One of my exes had multiple accounts and has even established a pseudo-identity online, yung isa naman, since ayokong nag f-fb nung time na yun, broke up with me out of the blue... nalaman ko na lang sa facebook na may iba na siyang girlfriends  Jeez... good f*cking riddance

My current BF naman isn't really into social media platforms and even deactivated his account after a brouhaha with his family. He created a new inactive account just to check on my posts though )

So kahit walang online photos on his end, in real life naman, he dotes on me like newborn baby. Everytime na may maganda kaming digital photo, kukulitin ako na "Pa print mo yan, pa print mo yan!" I have a photo on his office desk and wallet. And he has also introduced me to his circle of friends and colleagues. So no worries naman....