Author Topic: anong mafifeel niyo kapag wala kayo kahit isang picture ng bf mo sa FB niya?  (Read 46412 times)

spicyangel

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We've been together for 2 1/2 years and still wala kameng picture sa account niya. I told him my sentiments about it,but he gave me so many reasons. 
I just want to know how you girls would feel about this..

we're married for 10 years pero wala din akong pic sa fb nya and di ko sha ka fb. nung una, nasaktan ako pero ginaya ko na lang style nya. wala na din sha pic sa fb ko. and wala na ko pakialam sa fb nya. masaya sha sa ganon eh, so bakit ko ipipilit na ilagay nya pic ko kung ayaw nya diba?

jillai

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sometimes talaga, social networking sites bring more bad than it does good, lalo na sa relationships. I was once a victim too (friendster pa lang nun, buti na lang wala na/di na uso friendster hehe) i guess it's really not fb per se. The thing is, us girls meron tayo gut feel/instict when something is wrong..and parang nagging daan lang or medium ang fb para ma-validate yung feelings na ganito. Yun nga lang, let's be fair to the partner din naman, baka naman talagang 'wala lang'. Talk it out with your guy, if it really makes you feel uncomfortable. His response to that will tell you a lot...after all, he should be considerate of your feelings too.
 

chirochan

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^ sabi ni bf dahil ayaw ng guy sa girl kaya walang pic. For short daw kinakahiya or worst is ayaw ipakita sa kafb niya na taken siya ganun lang daw kasimple yun other reasons are just alibis para hindi daw magalit partner niya

spicyangel

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^ for me hinde sa kinahihiya or ayaw nya sa gf/wife nya, kundi baka makaloko pa sha ng ibang girls. eh shempre pag may pic ng asawa nya paano pa sha papansinin diba? lumalandi ang lalaking ayaw maglagay ng pic ng partner nila. period!

jillai

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^ ouch! but I can't agree more...that is (unfortunately) sooooo true  >:(

spitfire

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Wala rin akong maisip na ibang reason..

either ikinakahiya ang gf or gustong pumorma pa sa iba at ayaw I announce na he is TAKEN!


r3d

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This used to be an issue with us too. But my bf said he's just protecting our relationship. He doesnt want daw na pagfiestahan sa fb. Esp before that his ex was the maldita and eskandalosa type just like her mean bffs. But he already introduced me to his family and friends. One time meron sya super big mistake na ginawa.. Punishment ko for him is to post our pic on his profile for one year, the moment he changes it to something else we're off. Pretty childish nga. Ha ha.  But he did it anyway. Told him na kaya ang daming nagfiflirt sayo coz d mo profile pic yung pic natin. So yun. It really kept his "fans" at bay.
Sis maybe he's just protecting you too. But I dont dig that he tagged his cuz and not you.

spicyangel

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ako sis ang ginawa ko, block ko sha. kase we have like 100 plus common friends and nakikita pa rin namin posts ng isat isa and i dont like the idea. since ayaw namin add isat isa better na i block ko na sha para totally wala ko alam sa ginagawa nya.
one time i read himi posts comments like "you're sexy!" and some flirtatious comments sa girls. nakaka bwisit lang. tapos ayoko ng tinatanong kami na bakit di kami mag ka FB. kase noon inaadd ko sha tapos ayaw nya eh, so ayoko na rin. block na sha for life hahaha

chirochan

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^ yan ang magpapatunay sa sinasabi ng hubby ko na ayaw maglagay ng prof. pic. kasi lumalandi siya, ganyan kasi gawain niya sa ex niya before, he's a changed man now eh

yellowkitten

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i don't have a facebook but my boyfie does. it annoys me but oh well.

he hasn't had a girlfriend in over two years. so when we got together, he changed his status into in a relationship. all his friends were so shocked. haha. he's not really the type kasi who likes commitment. we go out a lot with his friends and we've got loads of pictures on his facebook na. mostly, his friends upload them then tag him. so it's all good. :)

michipoo

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ako din i dont have fb pero siya meron. alam ko din wala ako pic sa fb niya pero keber lang. may tiwala ako kay bf. wag nya lang sisirain kahit isang besess tiwala ko sakanya or else...

missgoodvibe

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Maybe magtatampo ako.. Pero luckily for me, before maging kami, picture na namin yung profile picture niya. Hehe. And siya pa nag-insist maglagay ng "in a relationship with.." :)

prettychestnut

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My man told me facebook lang daw yun.

Pero ang picture ko nasa wallet nya at yung 2 pic na foldable frame nasa room nya.

it makes sence rather in fb.

=)

chirochan

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^ precisely sis facebook lang yun kaya di mahirap ilagay, sa mga friends ko din may mga couple pics. sila proud kasi sila with the gf and sabi ni hubs parang sign nadin ang pics na yun sa fb na taken so don't approach hehe

chris_mend

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si bf di sya mahilig mag fb..he does have an account pero di nya lagi inoopen at wala rin sya pic sa fb nya. tsaka lahat ng nasa fb nya naman ..kilala ko. kahit bestfriend nya at ibang close friends wala sa fb nya.

naka-block ako sa account nya. we had a big fight kase and naka-away ko ate nya. since then, i have been stalking his profile using my fake account. pero un pic ko nasa wallet nya.


pixiegurl

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honestly, kung ako yun mahuhurt ako talaga.. lalo na kung sinabi ko sakanya yung concern at wala pa din syang ginawa.. pero iba iba naman ang personality ng tao.. :) pero kung talagang its bothering you, its best na pagusapan nyo talaga.. sa totoo lang, fb complicates things eh.. hehe.. ako din kasi eh naging victim ng fb issues.. what i did is naging vocal ako sa nararamdaman ko.. ngayon ok na :)

code_blue

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Im friends with bf sa fb pero we dont post our pics... our reason is the same with the others... ayaw namin pagpiyestahan kami sa fb... even our status... single pa rin kaming dalawa... you know naman in fb konting change lang lahat ng friends comment agad.. may new pic comment agad..
talk to your bf about it and baka naman he has a very valid reason why he doesnt want to post pictures...

lady_avoidant

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ganito bf ko.. though naka 2 months pa kami pero naghahanap ako ng reason bakit wala man lang siyang na post ng pic namin together.. anyway, wala din naman akong pinopost na pic namin sa fb ko kasi i want him to be the first one posting our couple pics if ever.. actually, offline e very sweet kami.. pinapakilala niya ako sa mga close friends niya as his gf.. may time pa nga na yung friend pa niya ang unang naka identify sa akin kasi pinakita na lagi ng bf ko yung pic ko while may bonding moments sila ng barkada niya.. kahit di pa nila ako na meet in person e alam na nila kung anong name ko kasi mine mention ni bf yung name ko na kasama ko ngayon si blank .. so gets na nila na gf niya  kasama niya.. in short, okey kami offline.. very secured o walang doubt pag kasama ko siya.. sa fb lang talaga ako nag isip..hayy okey na sana e..

creativehunk

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coming from a guy's point of view, simple lang ang dahilan nyan, gusto lang ng lalaki na maka-isa pa while he is already committed. having not friends with your bf/husband, gf/wife is very unreasonable and much worster is not having a picture/s of you in his/her account? wow! kailangan nya ng maganda-gandang reason for me to believe in her/his alibis. kapag ganito ang scenario, ibig sabihin lang na he doesnt really want to be committed to you and not really serious with you. you can also say kung husband or wife mo na sya, hindi sya ganun ka proud sayo. asawa mo sya and yet  wala ka man lang picture sa account nya! tsk, tsk, tsk! most likely, this is a case of him/her fooling and playing around. be watchful on his/her activities. malaki ang tendency nya na mag loko.

sexykha

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Number 1 - he is not serious about having a relationship sa'yo. Lalo na kung di updated ang relationship status.
Number 2 - kinakahiya ka niya :D
Number 3 - trying to hook up another girl/guy

So beware girls and guys as well :)
Unless you are in a another type of relationship..

 

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