support group for those sisses na nagmomove on and the likes...? ;)

[pretty_B]

^if you dont mind, how young are you sis?  

grabe nuh? bakit kasi kailangang mafeel natin yung ganito. bakit yung saya nasa umpisa lang tapos imbis na lungkot lang may kasama pang sakit sa dulo.

yes, time heals all wounds kaso kasi nanghihinayang ako sa lahat lahat ng pinagsamahan namin. itinuring ko din kasing matalik na kaibigan itong bf ko hindi lang basta bf. hays. 

[freelancer_babe]

^ Ay best friend pala.

Wala pa akong 40s hehe. Pero malapit-lapit na rin.

Transition from best friend to boy friend is tricky business. Kasi pag nag part ways na, you also tend to lose the best friend status and possibly the friendship na rin. Awkward nga naman kasi kung best friend mo pa rin siya after the relationship - and I think even if ample time has passed and you have moved on to seeing other people na rin.

[pretty_B]

^di naman bestfriend-to-boyfriend ang drama namin sis. actually, it's the other way around. hindi naman sa sakanya lang umikot ang mundo ko kasi LDR kami for 2 years, so i have time for/with my friends. tinuring ko nalang din syang bestfriend kasi nga open talaga ako sakanya sa lahat ng bagay. di ako nahihiyang ipakita yung flaws ko and all. basta yung ganun na kaclose, na kahit mga officemates ko napapansin na ang cute nga namin kasi parang di kami mag bf-gf and more of barkada (minsan magkapatid pa). hays. :<

[abbmg]

yes, time heals all wounds kaso kasi nanghihinayang ako sa lahat lahat ng pinagsamahan namin. itinuring ko din kasing matalik na kaibigan itong bf ko hindi lang basta bf. hays. 

sis, the more na manghinayang ka sa pinagsamahan niyo, the more ka mahihirapan mag move on. LDR din kami ng asawa ko bago kami kinasal, more than 5 yrs kaming bf/gf, everything was smooth, ngayon magwa-one year pa lang kaming kasal pero umayaw na siya. kasi kahit kasal na kami, hindi pa rin ako at ang magiging baby namin ang priority niya (preggy ako).

totoo naman malungkot talaga, pero dapat hindi na pinanghihinayangan especially when you yourself know that you did everything you could to fix things, mahirap naman pilitin ang taong ayaw na.

 focus on yourself and you'll feel better in no time

[pretty_B]

^aww. sorry to hear your story sis. ang hirap ng sayo kasi married kayo at may anak. ano ba namang klaseng lalaki yan!  sorry. >___<

in my case naman, honestly, idk kung nagawa ko na ba ang lahat lahat for him, baka i can do more. i can win him back again. baka lang. kaya nanghihinayang ako.

[maplesyrup]

I should be here pala.. i think i need an intervention, i really miss him so much and almost texted my ex today just to say i miss him, or can if can see him... im feeling so pathetic.
(Lord) please let me get pass this day ang hirap talaga 

[carmilina]

Sobrang depress ako, tinatamad ako pumasok sa work ngayon, tapos ngayon dhl sa depression nag kkasakit ako,


Na pre pressure na din ako, I am not getting any younger, ayokong tumulad sa mga aunts ko na tumandang dalaga dhl sobrang higpit ng Lolo ko.

Gusto ko ulit makakilala ng guy na hindi ako lolokohin, sobrang nahihirapan na ako.

Ilan years na nakakaraan, hirap na hirap pa din ako.

Desperada na ako: (

[pretty_B]

if you dont mind me asking, gaano na kayo katagal nagmmove on girls?

[juwie]

in my case naman, honestly, idk kung nagawa ko na ba ang lahat lahat for him, baka i can do more. i can win him back again. baka lang. kaya nanghihinayang ako.

I can hear myself from these words from almost 4years ago. Sis, in my experience, ikaw lang talaga ang makakapag sabi when enough is really enough. Mafiffel mo na lang yan one day. In my case I felt na ubos na ubos na ako trying to win back an ex. I felt used and abused and that's the time I told myself it's unfair. I needed to love myself again.

[pretty_B]

^4 yrs ang moving on process mo sis? waaa. currently, im not doing anything to win him back. onti onti ko ng kinukuha ulit ang pride ko sis. honestly, mas gusto ko ibaling time ko sa ibang guys. i know sounds stupid! pero at time kasi, naaalala ko pa din si ex at nalulungkot lang ako.

[hansel13]

Last week lang kami nag break haay. Fault ko din naman eh hindi ako nag exert ng effort nung kame. [textspeak!] do you think girls, move on na ba ako or mag effort ako to show him na love ko naman sya. Kaya lang nasasaktan na ako sa pag push nya sakin palayo kasi wala na daw and parang may bago na siya eh.

[cutie gal]

Mga sis 7pm call time sa luneta para sa mga bitter. Don't forget to bring pictures of your ex para sabay sabay nating sunugin. 

[psyche29]

@sis pretty_b, it depends sis. kung ano yun mind set. i got over a 6 year relationship in a month.

i had a 6 yr relationship that ended because he chose to be w/ another girl. i got over him after a month. was even working in the same building. but i thank God na we never crossed paths while i was in the process. tinatak ko sa isip ko na kahit na bumalik pa sya or something, ayoko na. isang sakitan na lang. i changed number, removed him in my friendster (yun pa uso nun, hehe), never requested any info about him or the girl. syempre andyan yun fam ko and loyal friends. iniyak ko sya. and at the same time, tinanggap na hindi ko controlled yun nararamdaman ng ibang tao. na kahit gusto mo, kung ayaw na, wala ng magagawa. syempre nakinig ng mga worship songs. went on retreats, met new friends, immersed myself sa mga bagong activities. syempre, nagayos ng bongga. not to look for another relationship but to feel good about myself. feb kami naghiwalay nung ex ko, july ko nameet yung asawa ko ngayon. been w/ him na for almost 8 years. i was whole the time i met my hubby.

we have to go thru the process. walang short cut. let go pag mahirap na. you were not given this life para mag suffer or malugmok sa sadness. God wants you to enjoy and He wants us to be happy. everything happens for a reason. i know its cliche na pero totoo sya. may purpose kung bakit nangyayari or kung bakit dumaan lang sila sa buhay natin. either to make us or break us. its a choice. moving on is a choice.

from relationship rules fb page: "if life can remove someone you never dreamed of losing, it can replace them with someone you never dreamt of having."

[pretty_B]

^grabe sis psyche29! 6 years in just 1 month!  well, napabilib mo ako dun sis! hihi. pero infairness, IMO, madali nga naman kasi ang moving on kapag may lokohang nangyari. kababasa ko lang sa fb ito: "ANG PINAKA-G*GONG PWEDE MONG GAWIN KUNG MAKIKIPAGBREAK SA KASINTAHAN AY ANG WAG MAGING g**o." make sense!

PS: dami kong pang hugot post sa post mo sis! haha.

[psyche29]

^malaking check. siguro sis, hindi ko inisip na move on ek ek. naisip ko lang before na, magsasawa rin ako umiyak. mapapagod. iyak lang kung iyak. tulala nung nilabas ako ng fam ko. dati, nagpapatay ako ng ilaw sa room, pero after nun, lagi nakabukas. kasi ang lungkot. i accepted na, hindi ko sya masisisi, kung dun sya masaya e. i have to find my way to be happy rin. ng ako muna. simula college yun and araw araw kami magkasama until yun first job namin. nung nagkahiwalay na kami ng work, dun na nagloko ang mokong. its a turning point in my life. i learned that whatever happens, my family will always be there and that happiness should never be tied to a person or anything na pansamantala. nakita ko rin yun mga pagkakamali ko. and in the end, if i know na nabigay ko na lahat, ano pa yun ibibigay ko to make him stay? wala na. so dapat, magtira talaga sa sarili. para you can still pick up the pieces.

[honeylet04]

dito pala ako dapat mag post currently in pain right now . . this is may story

I just want to share my 2years LDR story.

I've been in LDR since March 2013 up to know present but right now moving on na ako. Last January 2014 i found alot of secrets on his life. I've been faithful to him and keep waiting for him to visit me here at Phils. Mag 2years na dapat kmi this coming March nagtataka na ako bakit until now hindi pa nya ako pinapakilala sa family even thru FB. Nag away kmi one day I blocked him at FB nagtaka ko bakit 2 names nya ang lumbas dun ko nalaman na may orig FB pala sya na talaga sa family nya, friends nya. whole year ng relationshp ng 2014 namin are all LIES hindi pala totoong na stroke boss nya kaya hindi sya makauwi, he always make story everyday. Last week kinulit ko sya for his password then i found sa orig FB nya na HE'S IS MARRIED (married for convience i read all their conversations at FB married sya since 2010.) umamin sya kasi eto na evidence sabi nya he's divorced na daw but before i showed him my evidence he denied na sya pa to galit sa akin until i show him my evidence ayun umamin sya. said i should give him another chance magbabago nya sya he wanted to keep me wanted to marry me. I gave him another chance, he even add me to his orig FB upload kunwari sya sa FB nya ng pics i know kahit di nya sabi naka custom yung pic ko kung makikita yun ng family nya of course mag comment sila kung sino ako but ni isang like or comment wala, even status he hides it, even his friends di ko ma view kahit na ka add ako sa FB nya but eto pinalitan nya password orig FB nya i told him bakit need nya palitan alam ko naman na lahat and if he sincere na magbago dapat open na sya sa akin. sabi nya kasi daw dun tumatawag boss nya, mother nya at mga kapatid. napaka unreasonable. Eto tinigilan ko na masakit sobrang sakit pero kung aalamin ko pa kung ano pa deeper secret nya there is no use kasi lalo ko lang sasaktan ang sarili ko. by the way he is Filipino and i met him on dating site.

[pretty_B]

^sis, he's not worth it.

[honeylet04]

^sis, he's not worth it.

lahat ng friends ko yan din sinasabi sa akin sis. kaya kulang nalang talian ko tong kamay ko mapigilan ko lang mag log in sa dati kong FB (since I created a new one).

[chicafabulosa]

Sis he is not worth it. Once ka na nya niloko, kaya nya ulit gawin yun. Besides I am sure the right guy is just around the corner. Sometimes God let us meet the wrong ones for us to appreciate when the right one comes along.

[honeylet04]

Sis he is not worth it. Once ka na nya niloko, kaya nya ulit gawin yun. Besides I am sure the right guy is just around the corner. Sometimes God let us meet the wrong ones for us to appreciate when the right one comes along.

Salamat sis! lalo gumagaan ang pakiramdam ko since na unload ko din dito yung sakit na nararamdaman ko right now. Pinipigilan ko talaga sarili ko sis na open FB alam ko may mga messages na naman sya dun at susuyuin na naman ako, kaya pagnagpadala na naman ako sa kanya mauulit na naman. natatakot na ako magtiwala uli sis kaya ang hirap kalaban ng puso.