ex girlfriends.

[meyzteryouzah]

I dont know why pero i hate it when my hubby's ex girlfriend tries to be friendly sakaniya. hindi ko maiwasang isiping may kasamang panlalandi kasi yun e. especially nung pinakita ni hubby yung picture ko sa ex niya, and his ex was like "mukhang probinsiyana pero okay lang, maputi." the nerve diba? di bale ng probinsiyana kesa maging balyenang katulad niya. hahahaha. meany but she's getting on my nerves!

another ex girlfriend nanaman, she's like "i am happy you found a new one kahit ang bilis mo kong pinalitan, parang nagpapalit ka lang ng damit" tapos the ex keeps on posting na " maghihiwalay din kayo niyan." nanggalaiti talaga ako! Inaway ko sila pareho and my hubby ended up cursing her kasi sakaniya ko naivent out yung init ng ulo ko. napahiya tuloy siya sa mga mura ni hubby sakaniya, saying she's pokpok and why dont she just hella leave us alone. behlat. hahahaha.

[aquacharly]

Ignore exes, they had their chances.  They bungled it, sorry - no repeat chance. They didn't act enough on it -  sorry, no repeat try.  They dumped him, sorry - wrong decision. Whatever happened, The Past is past.

Keep your cool, nagwagi ka, for now.  What one should focus on is remaining as The Last One in the life of BF/hubby. 

[lulay17]

it is really normal to feel a little insecure when the topic of exes comes up. pero ako kasi, I live by the saying that " exes are called exes because you have "exed" them out of your life!" If your hubby's ex gf's act like that, it's because they are bitter to have not won the guy. Pag ako kasi I feel hurt dahil sa mga kwentong ex niya, he tells me na, "I don't recycle garbage" o kaya he says " Sila dapat mainggit kasi sila ex, kaw asawa ko" he reassures me. exes are really sometimes pain in the ... Pero nakakatuwa isipin na kinaiinggitan ka dahil di sila yun nakatuluyan

[meyzteryouzah]

naku yang mga ex na yan they should know hanggang saan lang sila...mga papansin lang eh...Just dont mind sis...isipin mo nalang...past na sila ni hubby...ikaw na yung present...ikaw ang mahal nya sila dapat mainsecure sayo

thank you so much sis

[meyzteryouzah]

Ignore exes, they had their chances.  They bungled it, sorry - no repeat chance. They didn't act enough on it -  sorry, no repeat try.  They dumped him, sorry - wrong decision. Whatever happened, The Past is past.

Keep your cool, nagwagi ka, for now.  What one should focus on is remaining as The Last One in the life of BF/hubby.

Yes sis, for now. But i wont let her go near my man. She wants a game, then we'll play.

[xiansmom]

^IMO... sis wag mo nalang patulan
kasi kapag pinatulan mo lalo lang yan manggugulo
wag nalang bumaba sa level nila,
ikaw ang asawa,mamatay sila sa inggit
magpaganda ka nalang lalo at pasexy para lalo silang maloka.
pero dapat si hubby mo nalang ang umiwas sa mga ganyan e
para walang gulo,
kasi sa kalat nya yan dapat sya na maglinis,
kung ayaw nya maggulo buhay dapat dumistansya sa ganyang
mga ex na nagfefeeling masyado.

[stormy_princess]

hubby's ex used to call and text and nagcachat pa sa kanya. its a big factor na before they clicked eh buddies na sila. then being a gf during that time di ko maiwasan magworried. eh one time ako naglog-in sa ym ni hubby then i saw messages came from her. ayun nagchat kami. i remember sinabi ko sa kanya na..

"i am not comfortable you talking to my bf. the fact that you are his ex it does not compromise kahit friends pa kayo. appreciate if you can respect our privacy at sana alam mo kung san ka lulugar kasi ako kahit kilala na kita dati pa hindi ko kayo ginulo. respeto na lang sa akin bilang babae."

ayun, after non hindi na sila nagkaroon pa ng communication until dumating ang fb. she invited hubby as a friend pero naka-hide sya bilang friend ni hubby. may mga times pa rin di ko maiwasan magduda pero hubby assures me naman kaya dun ako naghohold on.

[meyzteryouzah]

thank you so much sissies sa mga advices niyo
minsan kasi di ko maiwasang magalit sa mga bwisit na ex na yan,
fortunately, kinoconsider naman ni hubby yung feelings ko kaya di na niya ineentertain yung mga babaeng yun pero minsan, naiisip kong baka sinasabi lang sakin ni hubby yun kasi ako ang nakaharap. i dont know. i just dont trust him after everything he did.

[redpill]

eto rin ex ni hubbys kinakaibigan ako, super! in-ad ako sa FB, kuya tawag nya kay hubby, ate tawag nya sa akin..tapos nyan hiningi pa number ni hubby kasi gigreet daw nya ng happy birthday..san ka pa!

grrrrrrrrrrr!! :B

[meyzteryouzah]

eto rin ex ni hubbys kinakaibigan ako, super! in-ad ako sa FB, kuya tawag nya kay hubby, ate tawag nya sa akin..tapos nyan hiningi pa number ni hubby kasi gigreet daw nya ng happy birthday..san ka pa!

grrrrrrrrrrr!! :B

what did you do sis? nakoo. pag ako yan, nakarinig na yung girl. kukuya kuya pa siya. bwiset!

[xiansmom]

^sis redpill....LOL
kalurkey sya ha....kapalan kung kapalan talaga?!
ang lalakas ng loob ng mga yan noh
kapag sila kaya maging wife at may eeksena ganyan
sa kanila,ewan ko nalang kung matutuwa ba sila,
kami kasi ni hubby di namin inaaccept kahit paulit ulit mag add
yang mga ex eh,para walang gulo
yung mga ex nya lang naman,sakin wala namang nag aadd
pano kasi kapag sinabi ko hiwalay na wala na talaga,
as in wala ng pansinan kahit magkasalubong pa.
si hubby naging friends pa nya mga yun eh,
sumasama pa sa barkada nila kaya ayun gang nag asawa sya
feeling nila pwede pa rin sila umeksena...asa sila

[babykat]

Speaking of exes, yung isang ex ni hubby, the one he had the longest relationship with before me, nagmessage sa kanya sa FB. Sabi uwi na daw sya Pinas to get married.  Sabi pa kita daw sila ni hubby when she come home.  Di ko man alam na nagmessage pala sya kay hubby, sinabi lang ni hubby sa akin at pinabasa pa mismo sa akin yung FB message.  Tapos kanina, while on the way to work, I asked him if makikipagmeet nga sya and where, sabi niya, siguro makikipagmeet and baka sa Manila sila magkita (province kasi kami).  Tapos ask nya, ayaw ko daw ba?  Nagseselos pa daw ba ako?

What should I do, mga sis?  Honestly, di naman ako ganun kabothered pero naiisip ko lang if this is normal.  I mean, she's getting married pero she wants to meet up with a married ex-bf.  ano yun?

By the way, this ex-gf hasn't once acknowledged me after we got married.  Nung nakikipagtext pa sya kay hubby, she never once said na give my regards to your wife, etc.  It's like I didn't exist.  Pinagawayan na din namin dati yung ugali nyang to.  Di gaya nung isa pang ex ni hubby na sa bandang huli, naging friend ko pa kasi when she texts hubby, una pa nya akong kinukumusta.

[binggay]

 ^ Kung ako ikaw,di ko yan papayagan. Or, if he really just wants na mangumusta at walang malisya, eh isama niya ako.

Ikakasal na siya, baka naghahanap pa yan  ng "huling hirit" bago magpatali.

[isha21]

hay naku,super nakakairita talaga ang mga ex na yan
minsan chineck ko yung fb ni hubby,nakita ko nagmessage, at nabalitaan daw niya na ikakasal na daw kami ng hubby ko.
nagpalit na nga ng fb account ang hubby ko mega hanap pa din sya,last 2 years nagmessage din siya na kamusta daw etc,nakakainis lang dun eh in a relationship na ang status nya,tpos mega message pa.
Buti na lang at may block ang fb ayun,binlock ko na hehe

[raven03]

Ako I don't mind exes of the hubby saying hi. Thankfully, they're decent enough naman and they say hi to me too. In fact, friends kami nung isa na he had the longest relationship with, I don't mind, I actually kinda getting a kick out of the idea that she's able to see how successful and happy her ex had become 

[zheane0127]

Ako din dati super issue talaga sa akin ang mga ex ng hubby ko.  Specially nung magbf/gf pa lang kami.  Kasi my isa siyang girlfriend nun na naka STD and yung hubby ko daw ang nakahawa sa kanya.  Eh nagkataon naman na medical exam ko para magwork sa abroad negative naman ako.  So ibig sabihin hindi si hubby ang nakahawa sa kanya.  Yun pala gumawa lang siya ng kwento para bumalik sa kanya ang hubby ko.

Pero now that we're happily married, no issue at all na.  Two of my hubby's ex are my mare.  And isa doon eh yung ex-gf niya na nagka STD daw.  We are friends and everytime na umuuwi kami sa province ng husband ko eh nagbobonding din kami.

[curlyhair]

deadma na lang ako sa mga ex, kasi i know na i'm prettier than them. and ako na ang nanalo kasi we're happily married na. iyan din lagi sinasabi ni hubby, huwag na daw magworry kasi hindi na siya maaagaw, hahahaha! 

[Analene3]

Just the word "Ex-girlfriend" alone is a forbidden word in our relationship. Its the thing in the past, so no need to dig in whats already buried in the past. My husband knows well I hate hearing just the names of his Ex. It's off-limits. Understated. Rule. I never talk about mine so why should he.

[eliana]

hay  naku ako din victim ng mga ex na nag papa add sa fb sobra [textspeak!] sabihan pa na cute si hubby kakire lang diko na [textspeak!] napigil mga sis nag PM nko sa kanya using my hubbies fb account i told her to be decent [textspeak!] wag naman masyadong i public ang pag admire nya sa ex nya na hubby ko na konting respeto sa kapwa babae wag naman maglandi sa fb back off na shes not welcome to our lives go away ok!!better to get rid of her as earlier as possible..pinabasa ko [textspeak!] kay hubby ang message ok [textspeak!] sa knya natawa pa sinapak ko nga kapal feeling pinag aagawan hehe thats the way we are..i love him he loves me so and our 2 babies..im not gonna let itchy b**** ruin my family life..

[Paperless]

i don't know din sis bakit may mga ganoong ex... kung wala silang sasabihing maganda dapat manahimik na lang sila... parang ang bitter naman nila kapag may mga ganoong comment pa sila.. and tama bang magcomment pa ng ganoon? parang father in law ko lang iyan ah... sabi sa amin dati ng husband ko, two months lang daw maghihiwalay na kami.