Not a mom yet but will base my advice on how my mom raised me ha.
My mom, by nature is the disciplinarian, my biological dad was the spoiler. I grew up feeling my mom's authority and tapang which made me "afraid" of her, pero afraid in a good way ha, na I became super mindful of my actions even when I was a child. All the things na nireremind nila na hindi pwede, Im obliged to follow. Hindi naman nila ako pinagbubuhatan ng kamay or napapalo, but theres something that makes your child behave properly when you let them feel your assertiveness sa mga gusto mo at ayaw mo na ginagawa nila. Dun narin papasok yung pakikialam sa gamit, how old is your daughter, sis? Normal naman kasi for kids to be curious about the stuff around them, lalo na if ina-idolize ka, asahan mo, she'll be really curious of the stuff you like or the stuff you have. Kapag alam ng bata na hindi pwede galawin, hanggang tingin lang talaga yan.
Ganyan yung ginagawa ko sa kiddo ng driver namin, she stays here often since she was 3 y/o kaya may chance kami disiplinahin rin yung bata, ngayon she's 8 y/o na, and alam padin nyang bawal gumalaw ng mga gamit dito, which is quite surprising considering andami dami kong abubot dito na kahit adult friends ko nga tuwang tuwa mag-kalkal. haha!
Do a reward-punishment thing sis, if she behaves properly, give her a reward, but teach her also that she needs to earn that, and she cant demand for that reward. She loves makeup, e madami akong makeup dito sa bahay, puro naka-display lang sa shelves, so medyo eye candy for kiddos yun, but then she knows she cant touch them, and kaaliw na hanggang tingin lang talaga sya, at the end of the day, Ill put makeup on her, kaya siguro nasanay na sya na mag-behave kasi she has something to look forward to at the end of the day.
Whenever your little girl goes out to play with her friends, sino ang nagbabantay sa kanya sis? It also helps if the bantay will be oriented na pagalitan si kiddo once she hears her or sees her do something wrong, takot ako sa yaya ko before, may times nga na pag pinapagalitan ako ng mom ko before pag ayoko makinig, tawagin lang ng mom ko si yaya, titigil na ko. Medyo di ko gusto yung technique ng ibang parents na iniignore once they see their kids do something na hindi maganda, kasi ang iniisip nila nagpapapansin lang yung bata at kusang titigil pag hindi pinansin, hayaan lang mapagod, etc.. It would actually help kung iaddress mo kaagad yung behavior, call her attention, be firm when you say no and when you ask her to keep still and behave properly. Pag inignore kasi, its good as ignoring someone calling your name, ang tendency, lalong lalakasan ang boses hanggang marinig mo, so kung gusto mong ma-eradicate a certain behavior from your kiddo, address the behavior properly and emphasize bakit mo siya pinapagalitan about it.
sorry for the nobela post again.
and hope this helps.
