Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.

[hellojavi13]

I think meron pa naman talaga na magseseryoso sa single mom as long tanggap at mahal ka nya kung ano ka man! so don't lose hope sis, I know someone na 28 years old single mom of 2 kids at nakahanap pa din siya ng isang single guy na 26 years old na super seryoso at mahal hindi lang siya kundi pati mga anak nya, for now 3 years na sila and engaged  super swerte talaga ng single mom na yun kasi bukod sa mahal na mahal na siya ng guy eh maganda pa work, mabait, talented at higit sa lahat gwapo hahaha. sana mahanap mo din ang right guy for you someday.

[agape]

Yes. Had several friends who did, just know your worth.
Not because you're damage goods eh wala ng pag-asa.
I think most people now are open-minded, but still watch out for those who take advantage.

[bluedanube]

why not?  last time i checked ,  there's nothing wrong naman with being a single mom.  plus it's circumstances in the past (and most of the time beyond her control) that caused that to happen, kaya nga the label of 'single'.

[kis$es]

Hi everyone...  its been long na hndi ko na visit and FN! Feel bored kaya napadaan... and saw this topic... Im also a single mom of two boys... karamihan sa nabasa ko dito na single mom e mga nasa 20s palang... ako 34 na and 3 years single .. napaka inspiring ng mga naka post dito... wishing na sana in a right time makilala ko narin si mr right... rightnow busy lang sa projects at sa kids...

[ullala]

I'm looking forward to the day that my baby and I will have someone who will appreciate us both.

[honeylet04]

Very interesting thread. Single mom din ako and single for 4years and counting pa yata  wag naman sana. I have one kid i focused myself on my business nakakalimutan ko lovelife nililibang ko nalang sarili ko kasi kung iisipin ko pagiging single mom ko nalulungkot lang ako lalo na laging naghahanap ng father and little buddy ko wala naman ako makita kahit maghanap ako wala parin I guess susuko na yata ako. 

[jaded1025]

Eto love story ng tita kong single mom and her bf.

Siguro mga 8 years na sila, however, si tita mukhang no plans of getting hitched again. Pero I think ang nakita ni tito na plus points na may anak na si tita, kasi daw may gf, instant daughter and instant pamangkins sya! Haha! Madami pa naman kaming mga pamangkin.

[sensi]

hello there sis! so you're a single mom? im 27years old and single mom myself and im happy to say that im in a relationship for 3yrs and 6 months already with a single guy
actually he was my classmate back when we were elementary.and havents seen each other for more than 12 years..when we finally met,he had a gf that time. so hindi parin naging kami..then 2 years after,i had a baby and bigla rin syang sumulpot out of nowhere,we started talking at friendster then text na...he said since nagbreak sila ng gf nya he was trying to find me but di daw nya ko mahanap. and told me he still likes me..i told him na wrong timing sya kasi may baby na ako..i thought that would change him on how he feels but i was wrong...he said it doesnt matter. months after,we finally met again and he met my baby and family as well...he proved to me that he was willing to take me in and my baby...3months palang baby ko nandyan na sya for us...he treats my baby girl. his own and whenever we go out and unexpectedly meet his friends,he would tell them na anak nya daw. i didnt ask him to,but he did,cause he loves her as his own daw. im lucky and blessed to have him, plus accepted pako ng family nya. gigil nga sila sa baby ko palagi nilang hinahanap..hehe..kakatuwa nga e...and till now we're goin strong..
found a keeper.
kaya wag kang mawalan ng pagasa sis kasi may nakalaan talaga para sayo.just pray about it and never rush things..take your time..dadating din si perfect right.

[momentum]

^ i gotta say..your one lucky girl

im happy for you

[mariadj]

^^ Ahhwww...napa tear up naman ako, I'm praying for someone who would love my kid din kasi and treat her as his own. Hayst, I hope there's still someone out there for me

[sensi]

@momentum, thanks sis!

@mariadj, if till now hindi mo pa siya nameet,patience lang sis...dadating din yon. kasi after i gave birth to baby,nakaisip nako before na no one whould love me as i am na since may baby na ako.i lose hope na may magmamahal pa sakin ng totoo.sabi ko pa,okay lang as long as i have my baby.
pero bigla siyang sumulpot sis,at first natakot ako and took a chance with him even though i was doubting his intentions at first.pero he proved me wrong. nung 3 months palang si baby,bibisita siya sa bahay,syempre every 3hours gising ni baby hingi milk...babangon ako para magtimpla,si boyfriend babangon rin and ihehele si baby while nagtitimpla ako..pagdating ko sa room bigay nalang ako ng bottle kay boyfriend and siya na magpadede kay baby till makatulog ulit si baby,hile ako naman back to bed na.
he was helping me throught out talaga and father material nakita ko sakanya. may ups and downs naman kami within our 3 year relationship,but never did he involve my baby kahit mag away pa kami.ganon niya kamahal baby ko,i mean baby namin;)

just continue to pray mga sis...God's timing is perfect anyways.we just have to trust in that;)

[momentum]

I have that same question in mind. I am 27, a single mom to a 3 year old boy. I guess the reason why I never really entertained other guys is because I still love my ex who happens to be my best friend for almost 12 years. He would always visit our son and they are really close to each other. The problem is he's with another girl now. I really don't know how to start moving on.

wow same lang tayo sis, 27yrs old and have a 3yr old kid but only difference is I'm married and my kid is a daughter don't worry sis, time heals all wounds. mine are not healed yet. one day marerealize mo nalang na maybe you two weren't really meant to be and that there is someone else out there for you just hang in there, take good care of your son and empower yourself..before you know it you are moving on na pala..

[spongeboy0707]

I'm a guy and still single, In my point of view, I think LOVE is all that matters sa relationship no matter if the lady is a single mom or plain single. I believe ang pagmamahal dapat nararamdaman sa puso at hindi dapat nakabasi sa nakikita o sa kalagayan. If I've given the chance to meet the woman na alam ko sa puso ko mahal ko, I don't care if she's single mom or not, I will love her till the altar 

[jccastro15]

Yes, everyone deserves to be happy. Deserves to be loved. I'm a single mom and my bf really accepts the fact that I have son already. He love me so much and I really felt that.

[anniegurl]

I'm a single mom who's in a relationship with a single guy for more than 2 years na. Im very blessed to find someone when i wasnt looking at all. Ever since he's been very supportive and hes very patient with the whole situation. its not impossible mga sis. If he really loves you dapat tanggap nya no matter what.

[slickchick]

hi mga sis! it's good to find this thread.

single mom here to a 6-year old boy. been single for 6 years now - been single since i gave birth to my son. siguro i'm just wary that most (not all naman siguro) Filipino guys are still conservative and close-minded about dating and getting into a relationship with a single mom. i've got a male officemate who, by accident, told us that he doesn't want to be with a single mom kasi may "excess baggage" -- he thinks single moms want to get into a relationship para lang may makatulong mag-support sa pagpapalaki ng anak. i really got irked when i heard that kasi that's not the case for me and my son. kaya nga i'm working my a$$ off para hindi pwede isumbat sa akin ng guy yan. another concern for me, is that baka hindi matanggap ng family ng guy na magkaka-relationship sya with a single mom. some Filipino families are still conservative about it. ayaw ko naman syempre na mailang or ma-feel alienated yung son ko sa guy and his family. syempre, in whatever angle i look at it, mas magiging matimbang pa rin sa akin yung son ko.

haist. despite of this, i still hope that the time will come when the right man will come - the right man not only for me, but also for my son. 

[everythingnice]

im a single mom 19y/o and 2 na [textspeak!] baby girl ko for me parang ayoko na mag asawa parang natrauma nako sa mga pangyayari sa buhay ko. pinaasa ako at nasaktan. pero im still happy pa din kasi i have a super wonderful baby girl na super blessing kasi when i gave birth to her that's the time i knew na may sakit pala ako puso and it's risky daw to have a baby now feeling ko wala nang mag kakagusto sakin kasi may anak na nga ako tapos hinde pa ko pwede mag kababy ang lungkot nang buhay pero life must go on kaya think positive na lang ako..

[kawen]

Well, I used to believe in it.. and now I am loosing hope as well.. It needs a lot of work too, if you want a guy to like you at first, you should be physically attractive or likable for him to notice you, to have that second look... I admire those mommies na parang hindi lang nanganak, hehe sexy pa din.

I am sure for all of us it will come, let's just not hope too much.. so there'd be no disappointments, no expectations.. what you should do is focus on your kid, your career, yourself, your future - 'cause you need to be strong.. kunwari.. you don't need a man. I know it's hard because at some point, we hope that we have someone to share our lives with..
 

[cristyles]

My answer would me YES and NO! It really depends on the behavior of a single mom. Merong single mom na immature pa rin at meron namang single mom na nag-mature na. Yung brother ko may GF ngayon na may 7 year old kid. To be honest i don't like the girl not because she has a 7 year old daughter, it's because i saw another facebook of hers na may mga kahalikang lalaki. I even saw pictures of her na masyadong liberated na tipong lumuluwa na yung chest niya (you know what i mean ). She even wears shorty-shorts that kulang na lang may mag-hello.

That is the kind of girl that doesn't deserve respect.

But i have friends na single mom and they are respectable people. They're independent, strong, a fighter and they have pride as a woman na hindi nila tinatanan yung lalaki sa bahay nila. Gusto lang nilang magsama once they are settled na for real and not just live-in. They earn money for themselves.

Kaya sa mga single mom's out there there will always hope for you, lalo na if it's really faith and destined the right man for you .Mataas ang respeto ko sa mga single moms na may dignity.

[Chinito]

Kung possibility ang usapan, it is certain na pwede. I've been in this kind of relationship. ang maganda sa single mom, mahaba ang pasensya, maalaga, strong and submissive.

but like what other gt'ers said here na maraming pinoy are still eyeing to have a conservative family. and its true. reality bites.

ang dapat gawin ng mga single mom is to improve themselves  para irresitable pa din sa mata ng mga potentials!