relationship w/ brother/sister in law, bilas, uncle at auntie ng husband nyo..

[suikorayne]

hi mga sis. kwento naman kayo re sa relationship nyo sa mga brother or sister in laws nyo. or even sa asawa ng bayaw at hipag nyo, at sa mga uncle at  auntie ng asawa nyo.

good or bad.... share nyo naman.

so far, sa akin, ok naman relationship ko sa mga bayaw at hipag ko, even sa wife ng mga bayaw ko. yung bayaw ko, he usually consults me regarding office setting like paper works, how to handle meeting w/ staffs (may business kc bayaw ko). also, hiring ng staff nya, payroll and others.
dun lang sa husband ng hipag ko, di lang ako ang medyo inis, kahit husband ko at yung mga kapatid nya. medyo naaasar sila don kc medyo may kayabangan ng konti. di tumatanggap ng suggestions, as if he knows everything!

kayo, ano kwento nyo? post it here..

[aquacharly]

My side of the family, everybody is ok.  Considering we are a huge family, that is a feat.  Everybody, except for!  1 family.. the kabit of a brother.  The 1st wife left him, so this one took over after so many girls he went through.  Makapal, ambisyosa, greedy, sneaky.  Pero well, hindi sya ubra sa akin ha..

My husband's side, my MIL loves me to bits.  My father in law is neutral.. he loves his daughters more, but he is scared of his son my husband kasi.  Knowing I am like his son sa ugali,, hehe.. he keeps his comfortable distance, but he has never said no to whatever I say.  My sibling in laws are generally okay, mga ugali kasi noon, kung asan agos nang tubig.  lol.  mga mababait sobra.  So ok ok naman kami.  BUT there is this 1 sister of hubby's  grrrr   Inggitera, pakialamera, righteous, pero bobita.  hehe.  I took it only for a year or so, coz she was older, her comments and mga pakialam... then I faced her and gave her a big piece of my mind  Ever since, she minds what she says, but I still detest her. plastic sya eh, so maki tupperware na rin ako.  lol

[mdy]

Right now, I would say that my relationship with my in laws are getting better in general. My Father in law very cordial sa lahat ng daughter in law nya. My MIL naman, before we really don't get along pero as time goes by, siguro nasakayan ko nalang yun trip nya and there are things siguro na  hind ko na din dapat pakialamanan. She's malambing naman at times kaya lang just like many of us, she has her moods din. And I've learned to accept her as she is. Basta kasi saken mabait sa mga anak ko, okay na My husband has 3 younger brothers & 2 sisters and I must say na mababait naman lahat sila. Well except dun sa bunso na grabe pag tinopak. Yun mga aunts and uncles nya from both sides, mababait lahat. My brother in law's wives are all okay. I had some rifts with one of them in the past, siguro out of immaturity na din, but ngayon we're all good. I just hope it'll stay that way na because it's happier. Less kasi conflicts, less stress in life 

[honey_iya]

Ako lahat sila Ok relationship namin,pinaka close ko yung SIL ko...only girl lang siya so parang sister kami. basta lahat sila kasundo ko at never pa kami nagka issue sa loob ng 8 years na pagsasama namin ng asawa ko

[impeached]

Kahit papano pinapansin na ako ng mga in-laws ko. Dati kasi magkakaharap na kami sa table pag kumakain ni "hi" or "hello" wala e.

Yung 2 sisters nya kinakausap naman ako. Yung ate, hindi.

Yung lolo at lola, okay naman sa akin.

Yung ibang kamag-anak, di rin ako pansin. Ok lang, wala rin naman akong paki sa kanila.

I've learned to accept her relatives/family for what they are. Basta wag lang nila panghimasukan ang relasyon naming mag-asawa, okay na ako dun.

[mommamymy!]

i am so blessed to have wonderful in-laws (MIL, DIL, SIL, BIL) wala naman akong reklamo. sabi nga ng mum ko, i'm very lucky. pano, iyong SIL ko, siya sumagot ng crib, pram, car seat and techie bath tub ni baby. grabe, ikaw na mahihiya sa kabaitan nila. kaya nga i make sure na i don't do anything to annoy them. pero, of course, pinapakita ko naman kung sino at ano talaga ako.

sana hindi mag-change. lalo na relationship ko with my MIL. we live with them kasi and hindi siya nakikialam. sabi ni hubby, magaling daw kasi akong makisama kasi kapag may napapansin si MIL sa tao, nagsasabi iyon. so far, puro good feedback daw ang naririnig niya 

isa lang wish ko. sana, iyong ampon nila, pansinin naman ako. siya lang ang hindi ko mahuli ang loob eh. sabi ni hubby, ganon daw talaga iyon sa ibang tao. haaay, ewan ko. ang hirap kasi ng nasa isa kaming bahay, hindi naman nag-uusap. siya lang talaga pero the rest, NP.

[super bratinella]

I do not have major issue with my In laws since hindi naman kami nakatira sa kanila..but everytime we vist our in laws house since dun din nakatira ang sis in law ko, who happens na  hindi kami so close as in mabigat loob namin sa isa't isa..we have hidden issues na hindi kami comfortable with each other.

Then just last week we went over their place and naglabas ng sama ng loob ang SIL ko sa hubby ko na ang asawa niya (kapatid ni hubby) ay sinisi siya kung bakit wala pa silang bahay at kotse they are comparing it to what we have achieved in life, where in hindi naman kami nakikipag compete, we are investing to make our life comfortable and to achieve our goal but not to boast or compete with others.

So ngayon parang they are in rush to get house and lot then buy car, since na sa abroad si BIL. I explained to them that this is not something na minadali namin, we planned it since last 3years ago..

I pray that they will be happy to what they have since complete sila sa gadget like their 5yr old have PSP my kids don't have that pero hindi ako nagkukukmahug makabili to compete with them...

Do not compare our achievements to what they have dahil hindi nila alam kung ano ang pinagdaanan namin to get those goals...
 

[twelvth_goddess]

My husband has a big family and an even bigger clan. It's not a perfect relationship but I guess we have all learned to get along and look past our imperfections. We've also learned to stay away from each other's businesses which made everything much more peaceful.

I'm very close with my 2 bilas and 1 sister in law although we had some issues in the past. My MIL and I text sometimes since we dont usually see her. So all in all, it's a pretty good relationship and I've heard far worse from other people kaya I feel blessed.

[pregnantgirl]

nainis ako sa bilas ko..kasi hindi ko alam parang dinadamay niya kasi sa galit niya sa MIL namin yung mga bata..gaya ng binyag ng baby boy ko,first baby ko yon,sabi ng kuya ni hubby sa text kasama daw silang lahat,,tapos nung pauwi na sa manila from province,hindi na sumama kasi babantayan daw yung bahay nila..nakaka inis lang kasi mawawala ba yung bahay niyo?at isa pa hindi naman mayaman para manakawan kayo kung isang araw ka lang mawala..hindi naman sila sa bundok ng tralala nagtayo ng bahay para masabi na wala silang kapitbahay na pwedeng pagbilinan kahit 1 araw lang..

nainis ako noon,napaka bitter niya kasi..yung mga galit niya kay MIL pwede naman niya i-isantabi muna,total matagal na yon..siya lang ang wala sa family naming lahat..feeling ko bitter na insecure siya kasi palagi..hindi mo maintindihan pilit nilalayo yung sarili niya..kung masama talaga loob niya kay MIL pagpasenshahan na lang kasi matanda na yon..

natapos na rin yung birthday ng baby ko wala ulit siya..hindi na naman sasama..talagang umiiwas siya..nakaka pikon kasi..pero pag ang mag iinvite yung uncle ni hubby na mayaman,sumasama siya..gusto pa susuyuin..nakaka inis talaga..kung ano ano pa post sa facebook na tungkol sa buhay single or sa pagsisisi niya sa buhay..hindi niya naisip may nakaka basa..kung di siya masaya sa buhay niya sabagay maigi na yan mag mukmok siya sa probinsya kasi toklatin ugali niya..

[pregnantgirl]

at oo nga pala nung pasko at new year hindi rin siya sumama..siya lang ang wala..yaya at 2 bata ang kasama ni bayaw dito sa manila..ayon siya nag mukmok sa probinsya nila..toklatin talaga..wag na siya magpakita kasi lagi siya galit..pero pag bibigyan ng datung ng uncle ni hubby pa tili - tili pa ng boses..

[ri-anne]

thank God okay naman ang father&mother-in-laws ko...mababait sila...yung BIL ko no comment, tahimik kasi, edi hindi ko rin dinadaldal hehe...yung SIL ko naman ok din, no problem...malapit nga sa mga pamangkin nya (my kids) medyo nagseselos lang ako konte pag nabisita kami or sila bumibisita samin kasi parang nakakalimutan na ako ng mga anak ko eh (emo..lol..)

siguro ang reklamo ko lang is pag bumisita sila sa amin at siempre magp-prepare ako ng pagkain, maarte sa pagkain!.. masyadong pihikan... yes, given naman na masarap magluto MIL ko, pero naman, masarap din naman at pinaghirapan ko yung mga niluluto ko, it's not as if pritong isda lang hinahain ko....may sinusunod akong recipe no..todo effort..
anyway, sabi nga ni hubby hayaan ko na lang daw sa susunod edi wag na lang daw ako magluto, hayaan ko na lang sila, basta daw masarap yung luto ko hehe... sus...

but other than that okay naman

[Kady_14]

We're Ok. I've lived with my MIL on and off for eight years since I'm working too, hubs is away and I want someone to supervise my yayas then.

MIL - Ok kami, we had our share of dramas before lalo nun bago pa lang kami mgkasama, shempre baby nya ang asawa ko, so laging me nasasabi. But we are I think more than close now than the usual MIL - Daughter in Law. We go out, eat out, eat together, shop, salon together. kahit kaming dalawa. "kaladkarin" din kasi yun. I make yaya - go sama sya. most of the time. 

Father-in-Law - We're ok din, I think I learned more life lessons from him than my dad. I was with them since I was 20 turning 21. He's more of the father figure for me and I know that he couldn't ask for a better wife for his son. 

BIL - Ok naman din, civil na lang. He was seven nun naging BF ko si hubs, he's now 20 and with a kid. When he was younger lagi ako pangaral. nasawa na ako. Isip ko tanda na sya, me baby na nga sya eh. lol

other relatives - feeling ko plastik sila. I really don't care. Umayos sila.

[sima]

My sister-in-law lives with us for almost a year now.  Mas matanda siya sa hubby ko.  Ang masasabi ko lang sa kanya eh matigas ang ulo at makapal ang mukha.  Mas marami pa siyang time na ginugol sa bahay ng ibang tao.  Actually, ako ang nahihiya for her pero hindi ko naman mapagsabihan.  Ewan ko lang din kung napapansin niya ang ugali niyang iyon.

[ayami]

I have a very good relationship with my hubby's family. Kahit extended family nya. Almost 10 years na ko nakikihalubilo sa kanila, wala naman nagbago until now. Masasabi kong swerte ako sa inlaws ko. 

[TysLolakins]

Ok naman, as the oldest of 3 sisters, I'm treated by my  BILs as their ate also.

[crzysxycl]

My SILs are inggiteras and laiteras.. wala naman sa lugar! Sabagay, mana sa ina, haha!

[khaleesiCersei]

Nada. I cut ties na sa kanila. Grabe skwating ng mga ugali. Ayoko ma stress kaya blocked lahat ng kanegahan nila sakin haha. Gusto kasi nila patulan ko sila at mag ala face2face kami. Eiw. Palibhasa mga walang pinag aralan. Dineadma ko nga as if they dont exist. ayun napagod din ng kakahamon at pgpaparinig.. Unbeknownst to them ginagawa ko din silang alila haha. They get to do me favors/errands ng hindi sila nakaka angal haha. Kay hubby ko papadaan tas sila hindi na maka angal kasi hindi ko nga pinapansin. Kala kasi nila kayankanin lang ako sorry marunong ako lumaban ng hindi nag eeskandalo. Mind games ang way ko kaya mapagod man sila kakadakdak against me at siraan/pag tsismisan nila ko all they want wa ako care. Coz at the end of the day i still rule over them coz i get to make them do whatever the hell i want 😁

[crzysxycl]

^wow! i salute you sis. sana magawa ko rin yan.

[WorriedB2B]

Siguro I can say na I’m one of the luckiest who have a good relationship sa in-laws. Girlfriend-boyfriend palang kami ni hubby eh pinapa-feel na nila na welcome ako sa family nila and na boto sila sakin. Wala ako masasabi sa kanila. Honestly, mas nahihirapan pa nga kami makisama sa parents and siblings ko. Kahit na sa kanila ako lumaki and super close kami, iba pala pag may asawa na. Parang lagi mong dapat i-prove yung relationship niyo sa kanila. Ewan ko ha, pero super protective and over-supportive kasi ng family ko, so hanggang ngayon, gusto nila na kasama sila sa decisions namin. Kaya, ako na yung nahihiya sa hubby ko. 

[sistah!]

i am not super close to my in laws because we don't see them regularly. but anytime that we get together is great. they are nice, decent people. i even have dinner with my husband's siblings, ok kami. except for one lang. my husband's sister who hates me. no particular reason, alam mo yun, i think some people talaga just don't sit well with you. marami sya reklamo about me na hindi supported ng family nya. thank god she is abroad. but when she is here, she ignores me lang. that's a step better than before when she used to make dabog around me. oh well, ganyan talaga. but overall, i love them all naman.