im dying

[sweet.trish]

I just found out he's married and has a kid! Am I really that stupid? I didn't even notice, I ignored all the clues. Masyado akong naging mabait sa kanya, he felt guilty and confessed everything! Im so shattered gusto ko na magpakamatay!

[chicafabulosa]

Will killing yourself helps you? No you're not stupid. You just fell in love with the wrong guy and at the wrong time. Nobody can judge you about your mistake. whoever doesn't commit mistake, let them first judge you. But none of us have the right, because all of us committed mistakes too. It may not be same as yours but we all commit mistake in different degree.

Dont feel bad sis, ask God's help. Even God won't judge you. Trust in Him. God won't give you something you can't handle. Of course it hurts like hell, it's alright to cry. It will make you feel better. But after crying, go out. Enjoy life. Enjoy being free. Live life to the fullest and this mistake will help you to become stronger and wiser.

[sweet.trish]

Sis, kaya pala, we seldom go out eh, bonding namin is dito sa house. Syempre baka may makakakita. I dont know what to do. Hindi ko kaya wala sya, or siguro hindi pa ngayon. Argh, Im so confused. Why me, of all people... Karma ba to?

[chicafabulosa]

Sis, kaya pala, we seldom go out eh, bonding namin is dito sa house. Syempre baka may makakakita. I dont know what to do. Hindi ko kaya wala sya, or siguro hindi pa ngayon. Argh, Im so confused. Why me, of all people... Karma ba to?

Not really karma. but more on teaching you a lesson so next time you will be more careful. I know masakit sa simula but at least he has the decency na aminin sayo kesa naman mabuntis ka na nya saka nya aaminin. mas malaking gulo yun. kaya mo yan na wala sya. remember, you were fine before you met him. so i am sure you will survive. nabuhay ka nga ng maayos nung wala pa sya sa buhay mo di ba?? mahirap sa start pero lil by lil you can. surround yourself with people who can cheer you up. find new hobby. throw everything that will remind him. and lastly, think of negative things about him. so it will be a lot easier for you to move on

[sweet.trish]

Thank you sis. Ive been through several heartaches before I know kaya ko. Its just that its too painful, I cant let him go yet, I know he loves me pero bakit nagawa nya lokohin ako. Sana umpisa pa lang sinabi na nya at least I had a choice kung gusto ko bang maging kabit di ba! Now pa, when Im so much in love with him. Kaya pala feeling ko minsan nagho-hold back sya sa maraming bagay.

[flowercondahon]

sis sa ngayon hindi mo pa yan kaya but pakonti-konti, you will move on din...you're not stupid sis. and  don't ever think of committing suicide sis, LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL and God loves you at binigyan ka Niya ng chance na malaman ang totoo. There's always a purpose and God has plans for you. BEst of all the best na plans sis.

[chicafabulosa]

Thank you sis. Ive been through several heartaches before I know kaya ko. Its just that its too painful, I cant let him go yet, I know he loves me pero bakit nagawa nya lokohin ako. Sana umpisa pa lang sinabi na nya at least I had a choice kung gusto ko bang maging kabit di ba! Now pa, when Im so much in love with him. Kaya pala feeling ko minsan nagho-hold back sya sa maraming bagay.

ssshh you will be fine. go to church sis.. pray and cry your hearts out. it will help you

[sweet.trish]

sis sa ngayon hindi mo pa yan kaya but pakonti-konti, you will move on din...you're not stupid sis. and  don't ever think of committing suicide sis, LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL and God loves you at binigyan ka Niya ng chance na malaman ang totoo. There's always a purpose and God has plans for you. BEst of all the best na plans sis.

nagpapaka OA lang ako sis hindi pa naman ako magsu-suicide 
ansakit, hanggang dulo ng daliri ko feel ko (yan hindi yan exxagg)
gusto ko tuktukan yung sarili ko sa kaengotan ko .. waaaaaaah!

[honey_iya]

Now sis siguro alam mo na ang next step?

Isipin mo nalang na nag sinungaling siya sa iyo. Ikaw ba naka discover na married na siya?

Kaya mo 'yan, just pray!

[sweet.trish]

Now sis siguro alam mo na ang next step?

Isipin mo nalang na nag sinungaling siya sa iyo. Ikaw ba naka discover na married na siya?

Kaya mo 'yan, just pray!

honestly sis di ko pa lam gagawin ko. parang gusto ko lang umiyak ng umiyak.

he told me everything last night. kasi his wife and son are based in the US. They are here for a vacation. They got married nung nabuntis yung girl, tapos dinala sa states ng parents. malabo daw sila, pero syempre maniniwala pa ba ko?

[jay]

iyak lang sis, someday magiging maayos din babalik din ang saya even if mawala siya or wala siya.

[quennna]

sis...
dont worry, maoovercome mo rin yan..
iyak mo lang yan ng iyak plus keep on praying the you will be fine..
kung masaket sa iyo im sure mas masaket sa side ng wife..

so now, aware ka na.. na may lalaking di basta basta pagkakatiwalaan..
be well...

[quennna]

useless na explanation nya..
naloko ka na nya.. gano ka.. kasure na nagsasabi sya ng totoo?
wag na.. iyak mo lang ya.. mahihimasmasin ka rin...
di sya worth ng time mo.. move on..

[mommycute46]

useless na explanation nya..
naloko ka na nya.. gano ka.. kasure na nagsasabi sya ng totoo?

true! kung wala siya intention manloko, he could have told you his real status from the very beginning. Back out na sis, sana hindi mo maisipang maging kabit . Maybe they are not in good terms  nga pero hindi na yon mababago na may asawa pa rin siya.

[kalaiyaan]

Sis punta ka sa thread na ito

http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,238199.460.html

Baka isa si jowa mo or yung Misis nya sa mga active dyan. (joke lang)

Seriously, hayaan mo na sya... at wag na wag mong i consider maging kabit.
bad yun baka hindi ka makarating sa heaven.

[chiqmom]

falling in love with him is not stupid, its believing in him after the lies is pure BS.

someday, you can look at this phase laughing because you've made a silly mistake, or you can look at this hating yourself for sticking too long with the wrong guy. Now, you decide.

[hot@pink]

let go and move on sis.. stay happy..

[miss resilient]

Sis, kaya pala, we seldom go out eh, bonding namin is dito sa house. Syempre baka may makakakita. I dont know what to do. Hindi ko kaya wala sya, or siguro hindi pa ngayon. Argh, Im so confused. Why me, of all people... Karma ba to?

bakit mo nasabing karma? may nagawa ka ba before na sa tingin mo kaya nangyayari ito?

[aquacharly]

SWEET TRISH ...  funny, another story-telling-a-lie most probably about the situation with his wife.  Kung ganon, natutukan sya tapos tinakbo si wife ng parents sa US -- hello, wouldn't the "wife" expect nothing less than his having someone else here in the meantime???  Another fishy story, lol.

You yourself said, you IGNORED the clues. So you ask, are you that stup1d?  I do not think so, coz you chose to IGNORE ...  it was not as if you were clueless.  Now, you apparently have gone as far as masikmura mo, kasi ayaw mo talaga maging kabit... but well, it is plain as water now, yon na nga.  So, you are not stup1d -- alam mo na kung ano dapat gawin.  hindi ka talaga stup1d kasi you said you aren't about to effing off yourself.. drama lang.   

Take care, kaya mo yan!

[khakhaganda]

Pray ka lang sis

and look for the brighter side kahit mahal na mahal mo sya atleast hindi ka naging home wrecker dba:)