returning things after break up

[meisaia]

^ ay hindi pala binalik sakin nung ex ko yung prom picture ko. sayang talaga. tsk

[roxykarlo]

ay ako, hindi. manigas siya.hehe. what u gave me will be mine na. walang solian. parang childish kasi ang dating eh. well, for me lang. keep na lang.

[17arci]

mas ok saken walang solian, sunugan na lang. LOL

[narz83]

^haha ganun na nga. for me after the break up kung pwede lang wag na muna magkita..pero during my younger years masyado ako serious,i still wanna see him and kunyari return the things he gave.lol

[gurlzat03]

ako dinonate ko [textspeak!] mga bags sa charity, tapos [textspeak!] medyo high value nakatago pa.. plan ko isoli sa kanya kasi i know na pinaghirapan nya naman ang mga pinambili nya dun.. kaso i don't know how to return all those items..

[telekikay]

eh paano kung binabawi sa inyo after break up?

[meisaia]

^ edi ibigay. baka isipin pa niya hindi ko afford bumili ng mga binigay niya. pero i doubt. meron bang guy na bumabawi ng binigay niya? ang alam ko girls lang ang madalas gumawa nito eh.

[kutingkulilit]

w/ my first ex, i did return the his stuff and those that he gave me for 2 reasons:

1. i don't wanna see those anything that'll bring back memories and make me all the more sad.
2. i want to make him feel bad (hehe) hoping na he'll reminisce din when he sees the things accumulated over the years.

then yung mga sumunod, either pinamigay ko, tinago, ginamit parin... deadma na, ahaha!

[isobel]

@yasuy: baka naman pwede mo i-donate na lang yung stuff na pwede pa magamit ng iba? o kaya, pwede rin maghold ka na lang ng break-up sale (garage sale ng mga items na nakuha mo from your failed relationship na ayaw mo na makita, kahit at giveaway prices na lang, hehe) 

[iam_miel]

@yasuy: baka naman pwede mo i-donate na lang yung stuff na pwede pa magamit ng iba? o kaya, pwede rin maghold ka na lang ng break-up sale (garage sale ng mga items na nakuha mo from your failed relationship na ayaw mo na makita, kahit at giveaway prizes na lang, hehe) 

hahaha that's exactly what I had in mind, ang ibenta na lang yung mga binigay nya sa akin..hindi naman madami & honestly, yung iba wala namang value..yung nabuntis nyang ex ang maraming napakinabangan sa kanya (gadgets, bags, clothes, jewelry, etc pero inabandon nya naman yung anak nya sa girl kaya she ended up selling everything so she can pay for the hospital bills & to raise their daughter), hindi kasi ako materialistic & isa daw yun sa mga reasons why he fell inlove with me (talaga lang huh!)..yung mga pics, receipts, movie tickets & other things pinunit ko na, yung mga natira baka sunugin ko sa 3 bahay nila hahaha (joke)..later siguro I'll clean my room & will get rid of everything coz ayoko na talaga sya maalala ever..Though Im sure na pag binalik ko sa kanya yung mga binigay nya sa akin his heart (kung meron man sya nun) will be crushed...hmmm mas ok ata yun ah! Im just trying to be happy, mga sis, coz he crushed my heart for the Nth time today 

[babyjapnurse01]

Parang ang loser ng mga taong gumagawa nito, seriously. Unless lang you are accused na pineperahan yung bf/gf mo, then by all means ibalik mo everything na binigay sayo. Pero kung simpleng breakup lang, parang napaka-loser ng taong magaask for everything na BINIGAY na, and ang bitter ng taong kahit hindi inaask e nagbabalik ng mga bagay na binigay sayo.

If you wanna get rid of things that would remind you of your ex, edi burn everything, or mas better idonate mo sa less fortunate, nakatulong ka pa. Kesa magbitter bitteran ka at mag-soli ng gamit haha!

[prettykhae]

mga alaala ng nakaraan. hahaha.. pwede ring itago... pero pag hate mo si EX after break-up. tapon mo na.

[iam_miel]

Parang ang loser ng mga taong gumagawa nito, seriously. Unless lang you are accused na pineperahan yung bf/gf mo, then by all means ibalik mo everything na binigay sayo. Pero kung simpleng breakup lang, parang napaka-loser ng taong magaask for everything na BINIGAY na, and ang bitter ng taong kahit hindi inaask e nagbabalik ng mga bagay na binigay sayo.

If you wanna get rid of things that would remind you of your ex, edi burn everything, or mas better idonate mo sa less fortunate, nakatulong ka pa. Kesa magbitter bitteran ka at mag-soli ng gamit haha!

I totally agree na loser nga yung guy if he would ask for the things he already gave kasi its like taking back the love na din (sincere man o hindi yung love na pinakita niya)..Ako naman I would never return the things he gave me kasi he told me before na sobrang masasaktan sya if I do it to him (tempting but Im not that cruel naman)..I gave some of it away na, sa brother  & sister ko, sa nephew & to my dad, the rest are stored in a storage box..In time siguro gagamitin ko din pag naka-move on na ako totally..Balak ko nga i-garage sale kaso ang mean ko naman diba 

[babyjapnurse01]

^ the mere fact na BINIGAY eh. hehe! I dunno what to call it pero ang sagwa lang na magbabalikan ng gamit. Unless siguro the things na alam nyong hiniram nyo sa isat isa tapos yung medyo mahirap bilihan ng kapalit, yun pa keri majustify kung bakit ibabalik, and gaya nga ng unang sabi ko, unless nalang siguro na sabihan kang pineperahan mo lang partner mo.

naalala ko yung friend ko from college, generous kasi yun, and he gave his girlfriend a new phone, n95 nung bagong labas pa lang, the girl was claiming that she lost it mga 2 weeks after it was given to her, tapos simula nun the girl didnt allow my friend to drop by their house na, kasi the parents doesnt want her to have a boyfriend yet daw, e si friend ko makulit, he dropped by the house padin and saw the phone there, tinatago lang pala ni girl. baliw lang. hehe

[iam_miel]

^ haha ano feeling nung girl, babawiin sa kanya yung phone pag hiwalay na sila? My ex din is really generous..yung ex nya na nabuntis nya super nakinabang, may pagkagold digger nga daw eh..He gave her phones, psp, clothes, bags, even paid for her braces..sabi naman nung girl she never asked for those, si ex lang talaga yung mahilig mag-shower ng gift & I kinda believe her coz hindi man ako materialistic binibigyan lang talaga ako ni bf ng kung ano2x (though it was nothing close to what he gave his ex)..sabi nga ng ibang friends ko perahan ko daw but Im not like that..bottom line is, magagalit din ako kung ibabalik nya lahat ng binigay ko kaya never akong nagbalik ng mga binigay sakin..

[babyjapnurse01]

^ actually ang naisip ko, its more like she was thinking that my friend will buy her another one after she claimed na the first one was stolen. kalerky.

[iam_miel]

^ nyak! mas ok ng magsabi ng totoo at magpakita ng tunay na ugali..if she's the materialistic type then ask the guy na lang to buy her another phone hindi yung magsisinungaling pa sya..Sabagay mahihiya din ako kung binigyan na nga ako hihirit pa diba..amf gold digger ata..

[babyjapnurse01]

^ parents nga nya di sya maafford bigyan ng ganung phone, anubeh. pero sa bagay it makes sense, its almost always the deprived ones who become golddiggers eh. parang requirement na nila yung mayaman at generous na partner. haha!

[cher.liman]

My ex demanded I return the lingerie he bought me haha I wasn't pissed I was extremely humored..

[babyjapnurse01]

^ oh my god. baka he has plans of using it, pabayaan na.