Expectations

[miss resilient]

In every relationship, di ba may expectations? sa mga kaibigan ninyo..ano bang expectations ninyo? And what do you do in return?

[17arci]

Dati ineexpect ko na mag-aaya sila pag may lakad sila.
Pero madalas kasi hindi naman ako nakakasama kaya naiintindihan ko kung hindi na nila ako inaaya. LOL

[showermist]

sa mga friends? i hardly have expectations.

ay meron pala!  sana i can talk to them about money--investing, etc.  kaso hinde. heheh

[miss resilient]

i expect my true friends to remember me on my birthday...pag di ako binati..di ko friend yan..

[chicafabulosa]

I expect them to be true and loyal to me. I want to be trustworthy and in return they can expect me to stand beside them no matter what happens

[mommybee]

i expect them to be honest and forever loyal. kasi ganun ko panghawakan ang friendship namin. tulad nitong celeb ng baby ko. 1st celeb. bestfriend ko pa wala. diba? katampo lang..

[miss resilient]

^ay naku ginawa din sa akin iyan ng childhood bestfriend ko...di siya sumipot nuong houseblessing namin..one month ahead ininform ko siya ..ang nakakainis pa..nagpasabi lang siya sa hipag ko na di makakaattend..tapos expect niya ganun pa rin ako sa kanya..di ko nga batiin nung birthday niya..e di natauhan siya. 

[mommybee]

^kapikon no?? di ko alam kung dapat ba talaga ko magtampo...

[miss resilient]

dapat ba di na lang tayo magexpect sa friends natin para walang issue?

[angel_babyteen]

Para sakin naman ang true friendship walang expectati0n dapat,kung di man tay0 napagbigyan sa gust0 natin dapat intindihin na lang,may kanya kanya kasi tay0ng buhay..per0 iba rin pananaw k0 sa l0ve relati0nship,hehe,dun ak0 nageexpect :-P

[miss resilient]

^nyek..bakit pa tinawag na true friendship kung di rin naman maasahan ang isa't isa?

[angel_babyteen]

^mahirap kasi ang may expectati0n sa friendship,madidissap0int at pagmumulan lang ng misunderstanding pag di napagbigyan,pag real friend talaga gagawin nya part nya,pag may di nagawa tiyak may reas0n yun,wahh ang gul0 k0,basta yun lang para sakin,n0 need t0 expect kasi kahit wala kang sabihin magkukusa na yan..

[miss resilient]

yung officemate ko medyo nagwawala kanina...sabi niya kung sino pa ang ineexpect niyang sasamahan siya or magiging source ng kaaliwan niya yun pa ang nagbibigay ng sama ng loob sa kanya..kasi nga naginvest daw siya ng marami sa friend na yun

[beatrize zuri]

as much as possible, i never expect anything from anyone, even my husband. mahirap hindi mag expect lalo na sa husband pero he's not the typical guy na super sweet or showy, he has his own ways of making me smile and sa tagal na naming magkasama i learned not to expect from him kasi the more na expect ako ng expect naiinis lang akos a kanya coz he's not like that, pero nung di na ko nag eexpect sa kanya natutuwa ako sa mga surprises niya or even small things na ginagawa niya na hindi ko na kelangang sabihin or iparamdam sa kanya.
 

[aquacharly]

None.  Expect nothing.  That is the secret of happiness. 

[beatrize zuri]

^i totally agree. 

[twelvth_goddess]

Years of experience taught me that expectations can cause damages to any kind of relationship. That's why I learned not to expect from other people and just rely on what I can manage and control: ME. If I want something done, I do it myself. If I wanna achieve something, I work hard for it. If I fail at something, I learn from it and keep on trying. Before, pala-expect ako and I always end up getting frustrated. Now I'm happier. Aquacharly is so right.

[ldrwifey]

honestly i dont expect anything from my friends, kasi hello expectations are source of disappointments. laging sinasabi ng husband ko bakit daw ako parang laging mas may effort pero hindi naman ganun yung mga friends ko... i just told him that im that kind of person now if my friends are not like that i understand it doesnt mean n hindi ko n sila friends diba it only means n iba iba tayo ng ugali, and just because we're friends doesn't mean mirror n ang attitudes natin.

[iska-hazel]

sabi nga less expectations, less heartaches so i try my best not to expect in everything i do, i just give my all and i have faith na God will reward me (para positive lagi)

[ysa.belle]

i expect my true friends to tell me the truth. mala Rowena of The Legal Wife.