ano nga bang magandang sabihin sa mga single?

[papacologne]

baka naman kasi sobrang choosy ?..babaan ang standards...pero wag din madaliin

[chinrogue]

Lahat naman tayo dumadaan sa gayang stage eh. At 'ika nga, pana-panahon lang yan. Hintay-hintay lang at magpakabait. Darating din yun, na-traffic lang.

[gt76]

Love comes when you least expect it! And that's what happened to me. Nagbakasyon ako sa Pinas nagpadala ng pasalubong ang bestfriend ko para sa pamilya nya ang imemeet ko yung sister nya pero nag out of town kaya yung brother nya ang nakipagkita sa akin. To make the long story short naging kame and we're planning to get married soon. Di makapaniwala hanggang ngayon ang bestfriend ko na kame na nga ng brother nya. Akala nya jinojoke lang namin sya;D

[superbubly]

Don't Lose Hope as in capital DLH ganyan lagi ko sinasabi sa sarili ko niyahahaha pati sa friend kong nbsb din. The truth hurts me honestly hihi kahit paano. Wag na lang kasi magcomment sa isang single para walang sakitan ng damdamin

[runaway_bridesmaid]

no need to say anything to them (if they are a close friend) just be there for them

i have a single friend too, we're both in out early thirties, when she calls me up and needed a company, go lang ako, when she pours out her sentimyentos about singlehood, i just listen to her. she'd thank me for being there

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

There are some people kasi na affected sa pagiging single mo. Ewan ko ba kung bakit,kasi ako mismo na walang lovelife.. keber lang! sila, affected na affected." concerned na concerned" I think wala naman dapat ika raise ng concern. Mas maging concern sila kung may lovelife ka nga.. pasa pasa ka naman at busog na busog sa bugbog!

I dont buy the " concern" excuse. Really! If I want people's concern, I would ask for it! I would open up my problem to them if I really need people's concern. But, If I look like Iam happy and content with my being single. I think people should just SHUT THE F@#K UP!

For those who are in a relationship, I think, the BEST way is NOT to say anything to the single friends. They should PUT THEMSELVES in the position of the single friend's shoes. Would they want their married or in a relationship friends to ask them thee QUESTION? If they dont, why open their mouths still?

Masiyadong PAKIALAMERA lang talaga mga tao.People should start MINDING THEIR OWN BUSINESS.

[deliciously_ridiculous]

take every opportunity  that comes your way, while you're stil single, and don't ever settle, you deserve the best!! Single women/men during these times have it best, and they don't settle for less than what they deserve! this is the reason why i am still single, and i have no regrets yeah:)

[Serena.]

Tell them God is still preparing something BIG and awesome for them.


xo

[rianne_mallows]

Not sure kung "magandang sabihin" ito but
If kinausap ako about it, as in siya nagopen ng topic, id say it not they're fault really.
Kulang and supply, malaki ang demand. Its a fact.
Mas madaming lalaki kesa babae. Isama mo pa na madaming ding bading, so meron talagang magiging single

[cristyles]

Living life is not just by marrying someone, that's not how life is all about. Life is about sharing yourself to everybody. Sakit lang sa ulo at bulsa ang mga lalaki nowadays LOL  . Mas masipag pang kumita ng pera tayong mga babae.

[chichi143]

don't ever settle for anything less than you deserve.

[Chinito]

Just stay happy and foolish!

[spring_snow]

For those who are in a relationship, I think, the BEST way is NOT to say anything to the single friends. They should PUT THEMSELVES in the position of the single friend's shoes. Would they want their married or in a relationship friends to ask them thee QUESTION? If they dont, why open their mouths still?

Masiyadong PAKIALAMERA lang talaga mga tao.People should start MINDING THEIR OWN BUSINESS.

my thoughts exactly.  i'm sick of people giving me unsolicited advice!

[snowhite_12]

sabi noong pastor sa akin. spend most of the time with family because when you get married you will be busy taking care of your own family.

[shieldmaidenofRohan]

- go out. travel and see the world. or kahit within Pinas lang kung tight ang budget.
- save, at least for yourself. when you get married, your money will be part of grocery budget. if you have savings you'll justify your luho. and it's just off to ask your hubby to buy you stuff.
- bond more with your single friends, and your family. things will be different when you're hitched.
- improve yourself with new hobbies/knowledge/skills. it will come handy when the little ones come out, syempre hubby will be impressed too and feel lucky to have a well-rounded wife that is you
- ano pa ba...date around! hindi mo na magagawa yan pag kasal ka na  just go out and have fun, no need to be serious. be intriguing and show the opposite sex why you're date or relationship-worthy ------- without the pressure ha.

[alexandrea]

Wala.

May sinasabi ka ba sa married friends mo unless they specifically ask for advice? Most likely, wala naman di ba? So why treat single friends differently?

The reason why your friends are feeling down is because aside from the fact that they can't find a partner even when they want to, society in general is also putting pressure on them to get married. Sad to say, women are still expected to get married and have kids to have a fulfilling life.

Thus, the best thing you can do for your friends is to not treat them any differently.

And oh, assuring them that their prince will come is just so patronizing, because really, how do you know for sure that he would?