Malas na room?

[mickaela911]

I'm not really sure where to post this..

but anyway, we live in a 2 bedroom apartment. My SIL used to rent here and share rent with another doctor. The lady doctor was married but got separated with the husband and already went home to the province. Now there's another lady doctor who shared rent with her and lived in the same room. She lived in with his bf doctor and they eventually got separated. Now here's me and my bf/hubby living in this same room now and things are not doing a-ok.

Is it really a malas room? kase parang strike 3 na eh! or merely a coincidence? bad feng shui kaya tong room na to?

[j27]

^wala namang doctor sa inyong dalawa ni hubby mo? gaano na kayo katagal dyan? dati ba hindi kayo ganyan ni hubby mo?

[mickaela911]

nope. we're not doctors. we're renting this place even if we're not doctors kase nga sa SIL ko who used to live here. yung room dati namin is the other room, which bro ko natutulog.. and took this other room kase mas malaki.. eh 3 kame, me, hubby & son.

since oct 2009 pa kame andito. well, i thought we were okay until recently.

i know we have other issues pero parang napakacoincidental lang talaga. weird ba?

[babyjapnurse01]

I would say its weird coincidence lang. Medyo I dont believe din sa feng shui, kasi may mga tao namang hindi believer ng feng shui and yet maayos naman pamumuhay.

[Ms.Cacao70%]

are you into feng shui?? naniniwala kasi ako na may parte ng bahay na may negative energy at pag andon pa ang sleeping area talagang inaabot ng malas.

get a compass at alamin mo kung anong direction ang bedroom na yan,North,South, East West, Etc. Baka kailangang i-move yung kama para you're facing the right direction. at kung may mga nakasabit sa dingding na hindi maganda, baka kailangang alisin para mag-flow ang positive chi. alisin ang plants at flowing water sa kwarto. place of rest ito kaya dapat kayong dalawa lang ni hubby ang buhay sa kwarto. at may salamin ba yung room? alisin ang mirro na directly facing the end of the bed, yung pagkagising mo nakaharap ka na agad sa mirror. malas!!! SW is the Relationship corner of the house, linisin at ayusin at lagyan ng figurine anything in pairs.

ha ha ha! pasensya ka na kung feng shui addict ako  nag-work kasi sa akin ito. hindi naman ito cult, study of flow of energy lang po  very practical naman ito kung pagaaralan mo.

[j27]

TS, kaya ko naitanong kung doctor ang isa sa inyo ng hubby mo, kasi base sa kwento mo, puro doctors ang nagkwarto dyan sa kwarto niyo ngayon. dinugtong ko lang. :-)

anyway, may lahi kaming chinese, naniniwala din kami kahit paano sa mga malas at swerte. pero catholic din kami, pinapa-bless namin sa priest ang bahay, kotse, negosyo, para maging swerte.

[mickaela911]

^^ I will go look for a compass and see what direction the room is. Our 2 beds are actually mattresses.. my mom & MIL have been telling me to purchase a bed or have one created for the longest time. Also they have been telling me na malas yung room for couples. One of the reasons why my SIL uses the other room before is she felt there was way better ambiance in the other room. Not sure why, but that's just what she tells me. Kahit daw mas maliit yung other room, mas gusto niya dun.

wala ring flowers or mirror sa kwarto. 2 mattresses, 2 tables, 2 drawers (1 for my son's clothes and the other is a pedestal).

SIL has been saying somebody lives in the CR or something but I don't feel such things naman. I rarely do.

Anyway our room has very huge windows.3 sets of windows. parang window starts from my waist pataas. I stand about 5'3. pagopen mo ng door, stairs na and ang dulo nun CR.

ang weird lang kase kame ang 3rd consecutive couple who have been sleeping in the same room. ang sabi pa ni SIL, yung doctor friend niya.. hindi daw nag-aaway yung mag-asawa but nevertheless, nagkahiwalay din.

I've been trying to rearrange where our mattresses are placed in the room. dahil hindi naman ganon kalaki ang kwarto and mejo spacious yung mattress (1 double & 1 single) no choice naman masyado.

[cherry*coke]

baka yung pinaka unang nakatira diyan old maid.. at bitter sa mga couples kaya sinumpa.. hehe.. joke lang.. i also think it's just coincidence.. not into feng shui pero i also believe na may bahay na bad vibes ang dating..

[1choi_ko9]

hmm ako naman, 50-50 na naniniwala feng shui. hehe

Napabless nyo na po ba yung room or the whole house?

[aquacharly]

Feng shui is basically about comfort and safety, IMO.  See, a house or at least your bedroom must be a sanctuary where you can let go at the end of the day, and feel recharged upon waking up.   

Sometimes, relationships get challenged by little things encountered day in and day out. Clutter, bad ventilation, too much heat/humidity, discomfort, cramped movement/flow, lack of natural lighting, and other stuff that cause discomfort on a daily/frequent basis.  The room may not be malas per se, but grates on the nerves of its occupants and strains their relationship.   See, a bedroom isn't just  a place to sleep and store  stuff therein. It is the place for intimate (define this as beyond or over and above just sex) reaffirmations of ties that bind.  When the ambiance of this place is discordant, stressful (as in magulo or too busy visually) or uncomfortable  --  its occupants feel irritation, unease, impatience and yes, even init ng ulo.

[Ms.Cacao70%]

Anyway our room has very huge windows.3 sets of windows. parang window starts from my waist pataas. I stand about 5'3. pagopen mo ng door, stairs na and ang dulo nun CR.


I've been trying to rearrange where our mattresses are placed in the room. dahil hindi naman ganon kalaki ang kwarto and mejo spacious yung mattress (1 double & 1 single) no choice naman masyado.

Sa feng shui, malas ang pinto ng kwarto na pag binuksan mo, hagdanan pababa na agad ang makikita mo tapos lalo pang inauspicious dahil pag dating sa dulo CR pa na malas din 

Hmm...ang nabasa kong cure dito ay lagyan mo ng harang ang bedroom door mo. either a curtain or a divider. at ang door ng CR lagyan mo ng malaking picture/poster or mahabang salamin para "itago" mo siya. At dapat laging nakasara. So pag bababa ka ng hagdan, hindi mo nakikita yung CR.

Ang CR considered na inauspicious yan kahit ano pang ganda or laki dahil parang pini-flush no yung swerte mo. Dapat nasa pinakamalas na direction ninyong mag-asawa para hindi magkalat ng malas. now kung ang CR nasa SW direction (Relationship corner), baka ito and one of the reasons kung bakit nagkakaroon ng conflicts ang relationship ng mga taong nakatira diyan.

Feng-shui teachings po ito kaya kung hindi kayo naniniwala, just ignore my post dahil matatawa lang kayo bat kailangang gawin ang mga ganyan 

tama din na dapat clutter free ang mga kwarto pati na CR pati hagdan para harmonious ang nakatira sa bahay.

At kung may outside forces pa na involve like multo/espiritu, hindi na kaya ng fengshui yan. 

[mickaela911]

@1choi_ko9 - hmm... since i was not really the first one who stayed here, parang transferees lang.. we didn't have it blessed. remember my SIL was the one who was renting this place out with another co-doctor.

@aquacharly - i must admit I'm no Superwoman. I work-at-home, I attend to my kid's needs, cook, do laundry, wash the dishes but really no have the time to clean.. Cleaning the house is one of the least things I can do. BUT if i do get the urge to clean.. which is very seldom, i see to it that it's spic and span.. I've been having a hard time getting a kasambahay... like others do.. well, anyway, I do hope I get the urge to clean soon as when it's clutter-free at home.. hubby is indeed in a good mood.

@Ms.Cacao70% - thanks for the tip.. will try to do something about it. i saw the flashlight/compass earlier but haven't checked it yet.

[rianne_mallows]

@TS - if interested ka in feng shui punta ka sa feng shui thread madaming tips doon.. pero mejo mahaba habang cack read kailangan so share ko na din yung mga tips na nabasa ko dun regarding malas  sa room/house

room:
-reflective surfaces that faces your bed - mirrors.. kahit tv.. basta reflective .. no no iyon
-displayed picture in your wedding garment pero mag-isa ka lang or your hubby - dapat laging magkasama
-altar
-at the end/start/above/below ng stairs
-above/below cr, septic tanks, garage, empty space
-may sloped ceiling

madami pa eh.. yan lang naalala ko


C/o CityHunter yang mga yan


share ko na lang din sa iyo.. sa house namin, hindi na tinutulugan yung isang room, sakop kasi ang half ng stairs(L-shape yung stairs eh so nasakop ng 2F room yung lower part ng stairs

dati dun kami natutulog ng mga bata kaso iba pakiramdam.. hindi mumu.. pero para akong laging haggard saka mainitin ang ulo.. mula ng lumipat ako ng room saka ginawa ko yung mga tips unti unti naging okay na kami

[joeana]

@TS - if interested ka in feng shui punta ka sa feng shui thread madaming tips doon.. pero mejo mahaba habang cack read kailangan so share ko na din yung mga tips na nabasa ko dun regarding malas  sa room/house

sis, newbie here! pls give me the link of fengshui thread. thanks in advance! Godbless

[rianne_mallows]

^  ito yung feng shui thread

http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,250318.msg6679916.html#msg6679916

thread 5 na yan eh.. back read ka na lang ng bongang bongga hehe