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april_is_a_fool

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #160 on: July 22, 2011, 05:12:08 pm »
@bebe: hi sis, im glad im not alone in this. ang hirap talaga. ang fear ko ang kalaban ko sarili ko. yung pigilan na magparamdam na parang naghahabol. ive been through heartbreaks lots of times pero everytime it  happens parang laging bago. sarap to start all over. make new memories. ang the best talaga sa coping part, yung you find yourself down, and then you seek new people who can comfort you. and then you find your strength to stand on your own. then the new people become friends. then you can make a new life. some people finds it easy to jump from one relationship to another, one person to another without taking a breather. im gonna tell myself to be in this moment so i can be with ME again.

april_is_a_fool

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #161 on: July 22, 2011, 05:34:27 pm »

There are many times when we love and don't get love in return ;).

- i so agree on this sis hotpink :(

There are times when the sign ahead says stop but we still stubornly head on :'(.

- because we are ruled by our emotions. when i try to understand myself on why do i keep on doing things that would knowingly hurt me, i endlessly ask and answer the question WHY to myself. until i strip myself naked of the truth. how ugly it may even seem but it feels freeing to find the real reason. then i can see clearly. but i know this now but im not practicing it. im choosing to be clouded.


We would say our love is unconditional  :-*... but if it really is, then we should never feel bad :'(. But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour? :'( Because we still subconsiously seek acceptance and assurance from the people we care about.

- unconditional love is real. however, we are such conditional beings. love is a cycle. love is an energy. when you give it, you don't expect anything in return, masaya ka na that you care for the person. will that be enough to sustain you? will that be enough to make you feel accepted and reassured? it always depends on our state of mind, and personal state of needs at the moment. yes, we are all conditional beings who needs to be rewarded with reassurance and acceptance. but even if we have needs like that, yes most of us are capable of giving true unconditional love.

Being in love can be the most wonderful thing we could experience but if the feeling begins to consume our whole being , then we have to stop and let our minds and not our hearts dictate our actions. Only when we learn to accept our fate and understand the meaning of our failures can we truly go on with life without having to look back and cry over the things that could have been but will never be.........

- a dito sis wala na ako ma-co-comment. korek na korek ka jan. naka relate ako sa post mo sis. it made my day to know im not alone in feeling the way i feel. nakakabaliw ang love. LOL let's hear more from you. sarap mag-emote.

april_is_a_fool

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #162 on: July 22, 2011, 05:55:51 pm »
mga sis! LOL sunud-sunod na posts and replies. may adik dito.

at least instead of crying the whole day, im online. on this space - it's like my crying pillow. pillows that talk and hug back in emoticons and words.

luv ya sistahs! happy weekend  :)

darkangel02

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #163 on: July 22, 2011, 06:16:29 pm »
wow....ang dami na natin....cool  8)

april_is_a_fool - napaka special ng nick mo for me kc april fool's day is our anniversary eh.... 6 yrs and going strong ;) ;D...minsan nga nagbibiruan kami na ang tagal na naming naglolokohan dahil april foo's day anniversary namin  ::)
sis tama yung mga sinabi ng mga sis natin dito lalo na si hot@pink because she've been there and we witnessed her pains....pero ngayon HAPPY na siya....  ;) :-* moving on is really hard but i hope you can get through with it...if you need someone to talk to just add us up in your ym....

eichyniclumsish - talaga namang nanginggit ka pa sa masarap na moment niyo ni soulsistah kong si clumsish  ::) :-* ;D.... oh well i'm so happy for both of you  :-*...continue to inspire the single ladies here sa thread na love really works kahit dito sa thread ;) :-* hehe  ;D ;)

clumsishnieichy- i miss you so much soulsistah!!! alam kong busy ka sa kaka-loving loving kay wife mong si eichy :-* ;D keep the love burning... :-* ;)

hot@pink - miss you girl....sana we can meet up these days dahil dami kang utang na kwento  ;) ;D hehe ...kaso ako naman kasi ang busy :-\

i've never been to casino pa hehe...baka slot machine lang ang laruin ko  ::) sana nga i can meet up sa inyong lahat this aug 29  ;D ;) pagdating sa inuman di ako pwede....ice tea na lang ako LOL....sa RWM ba tayo magkikitakits?!

april_is_a_fool

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #164 on: July 22, 2011, 07:01:07 pm »
wow....ang dami na natin....cool  8)

april_is_a_fool - napaka special ng nick mo for me kc april fool's day is our anniversary eh.... 6 yrs and going strong ;) ;D...minsan nga nagbibiruan kami na ang tagal na naming naglolokohan dahil april foo's day anniversary namin  ::)

sis tama yung mga sinabi ng mga sis natin dito lalo na si hot@pink because she've been there and we witnessed her pains....pero ngayon HAPPY na siya....  ;) :-* moving on is really hard but i hope you can get through with it...if you need someone to talk to just add us up in your ym....

@darkangel: it's my birthday april 1. dagdag mo pa lahat ng foolish things i did in my life so there you go, april is a fool. sarap 6 years na. bihira na yan sa ngayon.

bebe07

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #165 on: July 22, 2011, 10:18:41 pm »
hello april_is_a_fool...add kita sa ym ha chat na lang tayo doon..sobra kc same ng story natin and somehow ngksron ako ng kakampi sayo..u know [textspeak!] halos ngask ako sa kanya ng secong chance bcoz i really love her but she said ayoko na umasa ka at masaktan from there naisip ko kung gaano ako nanliit sa sarili ko...slowly narerealize ko na were not meant for each other [textspeak!]..someone is there na darating para sa atin who will love,care,and appreciate us...lets all be strong and pray that we will surpass this..GO GIRLS!!!!!

stead017

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #166 on: July 23, 2011, 06:44:41 am »
ur right bebe07. till will come that everything will be alright april.

stead017

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #167 on: July 24, 2011, 12:51:09 pm »

pluiesanfin: in a way  your partner has a point thats there's need to explain to the girl  because nothing go on between them but i think the girl knows that u and ur partner are already back to together. In the first place why she didnt accept u in FB and YM, whats her reason?  Second, i think your partner still holding on with that girl because back then when you broke up with her,  that girl is the only person who stayed beside her, the one understand her pain, her agony, her feelings.  For me [textspeak!] nag -iisip yung partner mo baka iwanan mo sya ulet and that girl is her fall back.

Maybe u should talk to ur gf and work things out.. Kausapin mo sya na dapat malaman ng girl (if the girl doesnt really know talaga)  that u back together, try mo n ipaunawa mo sa kanya if gusto nyang magtagal ang 2nd chance relationship nyo n dapat maging transparent kau sa isa't isa. Mas maganda if u personally meet the girl.

Hope it helps. stay in love.




hi mga sis  :)

i've read through the thread and i find all of you nice and welcoming.

share ko lang sa inyo story ko in the hope na some of my questions could be answered.

i've recently reconciled with my partner. we have a long road to fix ahead and a lot of individual and mutual healing to do but we are both committed to try.

i was the one who broke up with her. she accepted. she had moved on - a little. after some reflection, i realized that we still stand a chance. whatever had been said and not said, whatever had been done and not done, whatever pain had been inflicted intentionally or unintentionally - i just knew that we could not just throw away everything.

so i asked her if we could try again. and she said yes. and i made sure she did not say yes because she only pities me and that it's hard to say no to me. i don't believe she's going to put up with that crap. you see, i came back at a point where she is actually starting to enjoy being single and free. why would she give it up if "we" are not worth a try?

anyway, while we are not together and while she was moving on a little, there's this girl she was exclusively communicating (text, im, call). the girl just got out of a bad relationship. a relationship she could not get out of easily. you see, when the ship sinks - few people survive because people try to hold on to each other instead of keeping themselves afloat. i guess during the moment when both their ships had sunk, they were trying to hold on to each other. the girl was feeling "something special" already and it had sort of gave her the last push to get out of the relationship she was in.

the problem is, now that my partner and i are back together - the girl still tries to communicate with my partner. because she doesn't know that we are back together. i took the liberty to add the girl at FB and YM so we can get to know each other but she declined.

i asked my partner why won't she tell her. and she said there's no point because there's no need to explain to her because there's nothing going on between them.

should i still initiate introducing myself to the girl? should i ask the girl nicely to please stay away? if her intention is to just stay friends with my partner, i'm ok with that. but she deserves to know so she'd know where to stand. 

mga sis, please tell me what to do.

jaded1025

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #168 on: July 25, 2011, 01:51:56 am »
Hello girls! Antagal ko ng di nkakapost..waaaah! mahaba-habang backread to.

Welcome sa mga bago! feel free to add us/me up sa ym..

Sis Dark: yes nakalipat na kami last week! and too bad walang net..smart bro stick lang gamit ko ngayon..good thing may fb, twitter and ym ako sa cp. hai!


ingat sisters!!

tween_ashleigh

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #169 on: July 25, 2011, 02:29:22 am »
hello sa lahat na nandito

hot@pink

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #170 on: July 25, 2011, 01:37:36 pm »
na miss ko kayong lahat.. i am super okay.. and i am super happy.. walang mali maging single.. okay nga single, single single and mingle mingle..  ;D ;D....


klienne

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #171 on: July 26, 2011, 10:10:07 am »
hello mga sissies ;)

bed weather again.. sarap matulo lalo na kung may katabi ;D

daan daan lang po... :)

stead017

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #172 on: July 27, 2011, 04:38:04 pm »

maulan na araw. sarap ng my kayakap. tooo bad i dont have :D

cheaca

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #173 on: July 27, 2011, 07:09:38 pm »
^ Awww. That's okay sis. Magkakaroon ka rin ulit. Parehas lang tayo. :)

hot@pink

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« Reply #174 on: July 27, 2011, 07:47:35 pm »
sa malamig na panahon.. mag coffee na lang or hot tea..

mid week na.. yipee..

sKyLeN

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #175 on: July 28, 2011, 06:16:56 am »
hello mga sis! nsan na mga single?


cheaca

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #176 on: July 28, 2011, 08:22:57 pm »
skylen, me I'm single! :) Labas tayo this weekend mga sis. Do you know any hangout or bar na exclusive for lesbians? :)

april_is_a_fool

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #177 on: July 28, 2011, 10:02:29 pm »
skylen, me I'm single! :) Labas tayo this weekend mga sis. Do you know any hangout or bar na exclusive for lesbians? :)

@if there's none, let's make one. uhmn, some of us frequent jellyfish bar. let's?

jaded1025

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #178 on: July 28, 2011, 10:49:18 pm »
welcome pala kay sis ecsfblog!!

kamusta na mga sis?

klienne

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^
« Reply #179 on: July 28, 2011, 11:04:34 pm »
elo po mga sis i'm here again... :P

pasali din ako dyan.. go go mga singleness!

happy bed weather sa inyong lahat :-*

 

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