Girl to Girl Relationships Part IV (Thread 4) ^_^

[stead017]

what happened to you. Hope ur ok.. feel free to say what you felt...

hi girls:

i was browsing all over coz im not feelin so [textspeak!] and i ended up here. i luv ol d luv goin here. it seems [textspeak!] 4 my broken heart. u ol seem nice n sweet.


april

[hot@pink]

hi girls.. ilang days na silent mode dito..

april_is_a_fool - kwento ka lang sis... time for us to hear new stories from you..

[guest1234]

grabe haba na ng thread hindi na ako makahabol! super dami ng bago! hello sa lahat! medyo busy kasi ako kaya bihirang makadaan dito!

[april_is_a_fool]

thank you hot@pink and stead.

the sad story is that 1 day, she just came to me and told me it's over. well, she mentioned all my shortcomings. that she was no longer happy. that she was stuck. that she no longer feel anything. later on i found out the truth that she just simply found someone new. that it just happened.

i didn't see it coming. i had built my life around her, for her. so now, she's happy and had moved on and im in the company of my misery. i hurt so bad. im way past the part where i want her back. and even if i would, i don't stand a chance in winning her back. i understand that whatever i do, whatever i say, i could not make her love me again.

im just finding it hard to deal with the separation and heartbreak. just how many heartbreak can our hearts withstand? i wish i can just sleep and wake up the next day feeling fine. if we are talking about the 5 stages of coping, i think im still in denial. im still angry and mad. im going to skip the bargaining part coz that's no longer possible. and i cant even remember what's the 4th and 5th way of coping because im not there yet.

what's my day like for 3 days now? waking up and crying the whole day until i fall asleep at night. pathetic.

now that im browsing and looking if im not alone in my misery - i found this thread and all of you here. at least today is a little better. i hope i can move on soon enough.

 

[cheaca]

Hi mga sis! I'm sorry I haven't responded to the suggestions that you've made. But I would like to thank each and everyone who has made a suggestion. You guys made me kilig but I am still torpe. I kinda want to lose more weight before I get to talk to her. Kanina I had the chance to talk to her because she was one of the judges of the activity that I joined in and she saw me dance pa. I just don't know if she watched me. Pero still, kilig, but I got distracted. Tapos, kanina sa lockers sabay din kami. Hayyy... The thing is 50% I believe, she has someone kasi I overheard her talking to someone on the phone na parang she sounded kinda sweet. Although, I've noticed that's how she speaks normally. Baka mas tibo pa ako magsalita sa kanya. LOL  Still hoping that she doesn't have anyone yet. Ayon so mixed feelings ako sa kanya. And nawawala crush ko sa kanya whenever she ties her hair up, gumaganda siya when she does that. Tingin ko pag ganon competition. hehe That's all the update I can give you. One of our sisters here kasi made it into a project so update lang. I'm just letting fate take charge, for now. I just like the feeling of getting kilig. I'm really thankful I joined this thread, you guys are the best!

Sis april_is_a_fool, I know how you feel. I always look forward to the day when I finally get over my ex. Inom tayo sis! hahaha

Mga sis, let's go clubbing sometime.

[hot@pink]

hi girls...

april_is_a_fool - sorry to hear that from you sis.. been there done that.. i know it's hard for you.. don't push yourself too much.. take one step at a time..
         We all fall and make wrong decisions, but our blunders are not meant to bury us in deep misery, but to teach us the valued lessons of life.. Learn from your mistake sis.. The hardest part of losing or breaking up is letting go and moving on. You already cry endlessly over things that could have been but you know will never be the same again. In many failed relationship, separation comes as inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go. It's your choice to hold on and decide for yourself if you want to let it go and move forward. You just need to accept everything and let time heal all the wounds that this breaking up had caused you.. Cheer up..
         Come to think of it she doesn't care anymore, just focus with yourself.. Don't think about her anymore.. You lose her today, someone better is coming tomorrow.. Keep that in mind.. 
          Try to read also lahat ng sinabi nila and payo nila with me, when i was in denial stage of this breaking up and moving on.. It will help you a lot, i know.. takecare..

           Before ako yung palagi comfort nila sa thread now it's the other way around.. Im happy now sis.. Just let it go, and divert your attention to things way different that both of you used to do together.. Do something that will make you a better person and please don't live with misery.. i know you can make it... nakaya ko, so i know kayang kaya mo din yan..

[sKyLeN]

we all say, "marami pa jan iba",

and it's true. marami pa talagang iba!

same here, been there, done that, but in the end, it's only you who can help yourself to let go and move on.

it's okay to feel the pain, to cry..but don't let it linger and consume you.

we're here to help, anytime!

 

[cheaca]

sis regaeondmuv: Sige sis  magcasino tayo pero hanggang slots lang ako. Gusto ko din yan. Sa RWM tayo magcasino.

[hot@pink]

sis regaeondmuv: Sige sis  magcasino tayo pero hanggang slots lang ako. Gusto ko din yan. Sa RWM tayo magcasino.

pa join..  tagal na din wala silbi yung rwm card ko..

[cheaca]

^Sige sis, mas gusto ko din magtaxi. Kaso lang I need to get a RWM card muna. When do we plan on going?

[odessa17]

mga sis sure ba ang EB natin? count me in ha. gusto ko makita kayo lahat at maging friends not just online dito sa thread pati sana sa labas... sa August ba? set niyo na po.

add niyo naman po ako sa ym o fb?

[cheaca]

^sama din ako.

[stead017]

pwde ba sumama.. hehe

[april_is_a_fool]

rebound. what if you only feel something special for this person because you need to feel that way to avoid the pain of separation from a relationship that ended badly?

and what if, just when you thought your new special person who also just got out of a relationship is having it good with you, then suddenly things changed. it's like... the magic is gone. how do you proceed?

good if you are each other's rebound. but what if not, and you are on the losing end, once again? how do you handle that?

[hot@pink]

yup hindi naman strict sa rwm.. paarte lang yung card.. LOL.. you still need to load cash with your rwm card..

i find this thread very helpful.. i have found new friends with darkangel02 and s_dlamchange.. and yung iba pa na i know sincere being part of this thread..

i am happy now.. nothing to worry about me.. enjoying my single life.. go sa EB.. count me in..

[bebe07]

hello again!!!i feel ffor u april_is_a_fool..sobrang same ng story natin..right now 5days no communication na ako with my ex trying na kayanin..pero sabi nga nila di nman ibibigay sa atin ito ni God if di natin kaya..isipin na lang natin na this will make us a better person tska darating un right person para sa atin..sana makamove on ka na rin..goodluck to both of us

[mizzybebz]

aww. namiss ko kayo sobra. 'di ko rin magawa pa magbackread masyado, medyo busy at todo apply ako ngayon. 

basta count me in sa EB. Aug 29 na ba talaga?

[hot@pink]

        There are many times when we love and don't get love in return . There are times when the sign ahead says stop but we still stubornly head on . We would say our love is unconditional  ... but if it really is, then we should never feel bad . But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour? Because we still subconsiously seek acceptance and assurance from the people we care about. Being in love can be the most wonderful thing we could experience but if the feeling begins to consume our whole being , then we have to stop and let our minds and not our hearts dictate our actions. Only when we learn to accept our fate and understand the meaning of our failures can we truly go on with life without having to look back and cry over the things that could have been but will never be.........

[april_is_a_fool]

"Sis april_is_a_fool, I know how you feel. I always look forward to the day when I finally get over my ex. Inom tayo sis! LOL"

sis cheaca: tara lets drink! YM: aprilisafool; it helps to be around people who can feel with each other.

[april_is_a_fool]

hi girls...

april_is_a_fool - sorry to hear that from you sis.. been there done that.. i know it's hard for you.. don't push yourself too much.. take one step at a time..
         We all fall and make wrong decisions, but our blunders are not meant to bury us in deep misery, but to teach us the valued lessons of life.. Learn from your mistake sis.. The hardest part of losing or breaking up is letting go and moving on. You already cry endlessly over things that could have been but you know will never be the same again. In many failed relationship, separation comes as inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go. It's your choice to hold on and decide for yourself if you want to let it go and move forward. You just need to accept everything and let time heal all the wounds that this breaking up had caused you.. Cheer up..
         Come to think of it she doesn't care anymore, just focus with yourself.. Don't think about her anymore.. You lose her today, someone better is coming tomorrow.. Keep that in mind.. 
          Try to read also lahat ng sinabi nila and payo nila with me, when i was in denial stage of this breaking up and moving on.. It will help you a lot, i know.. takecare..

           Before ako yung palagi comfort nila sa thread now it's the other way around.. Im happy now sis.. Just let it go, and divert your attention to things way different that both of you used to do together.. Do something that will make you a better person and please don't live with misery.. i know you can make it... nakaya ko, so i know kayang kaya mo din yan..

hi sis hotpink. thank you, u will be my example.