adviced guys...

[mist]

i don't know if my forum na ganto.. sobrang lungkot ko lang ngaun kaya hindi ko na alam kung saan ko to lalagay.. im so sad talaga sobra.. nagbreak kame ng bf ko nung feb.13 sa madaming kadahilanan sa time,at naka pagsinungaling sya sakin about sa group of friends nya.. and until now break kame although minsan nagkakauasap kame or [textspeak!] kamustahan lang..we decided na magkita kahapon at treat nya naman,im hoping na my good result o maging kame uli..at first masaya pa kame tapos we decided na we go to motel sorry for the word i dont know kung tama bayun or not kase hindi na kame..pero mahal ko pa sya and im sure na he loves me too..dun narin kame natulog pag kagising we decided na magusap kame and i ask him how many percent pa yung love nya for me..and he didnt answer nagtulog tuluganh sya..and nag-cr..i ignore it na lang,then kinalabit nya ko then he is crying pala and may sasabihin daw sya sakin and i started to cry na din kase nakikita ko syang umiiyak and i feel so emotional that time and until now..he said that mahalo nya pa daw ako kase hindi na ganun yung love nya katulad dati..nung nadinig ko yun parang nagstop yung oras at ang sakit i started to cry ng sobra pero pinipigil ko,and sya umiiyak talaga sa mga sinasabi nya..i dont know kung ano sasabihin ko to him,tahimik lang ako pinapkinggan ko lang yung sasabihin nya..and umiiyak lang ako..ang sakit pala pag ganun tapos im expecting na maging kame..he is my 1st bf and for 6years..pero parang dali nya lang sabihin yun..although naiintindihan ko sya kase may kasalanan din ako..pag daw kase naging kame hindi nya daw mapropromise na hindi na sya gigimik at busy sya konting time lang daw malalaan nya sakin..parang ang dating sakin mas sila pa pinili nya..diko alam panung explain yung sasabihin ko dito..la lang ako mapagsabihan kaya i decided na dito ko magopen ng topic..and sabi nya try daw uli namin na maging kame..parang ang weird bat try diba?diko magets..o diko lang maintindihan talaga..magulo lang isip ko..salamat sa mga bumasa.. sana ganun lang kadali mawala tong nararamdaman ko parang ang bitter bitter ko ng sobra..

[mist]

i don't know if my forum na ganto.. sobrang lungkot ko lang ngaun kaya hindi ko na alam kung saan ko to lalagay.. im so sad talaga sobra.. nagbreak kame ng bf ko nung feb.13 sa madaming kadahilanan sa time,at naka pagsinungaling sya sakin about sa group of friends nya.. and until now break kame although minsan nagkakausap kame or text kamustahan lang..we decided na magkita kahapon at treat nya naman,im hoping na my good result o maging kame uli..at first masaya pa kame tapos we decided na we go to motel sorry for the word i dont know kung tama bayun or not kase hindi na kame..pero mahal ko pa sya and im sure na he loves me too..dun narin kame natulog pag kagising we decided na magusap kame and i ask him how many percent pa yung love nya for me..and he didnt answer nagtulog tuluganh sya..and nag-cr..i ignore it na lang,then kinalabit nya ko then he is crying pala and may sasabihin daw sya sakin and i started to cry na din kase nakikita ko syang umiiyak and i feel so emotional that time and until now..he said that mahalo nya pa daw ako kase hindi na ganun yung love nya katulad dati..nung nadinig ko yun parang nagstop yung oras at ang sakit i started to cry ng sobra pero pinipigil ko,and sya umiiyak talaga sa mga sinasabi nya..i dont know kung ano sasabihin ko to him,tahimik lang ako pinapkinggan ko lang yung sasabihin nya..and umiiyak lang ako..ang sakit pala pag ganun tapos im expecting na maging kame..he is my 1st bf and for 6years..pero parang dali nya lang sabihin yun..although naiintindihan ko sya kase may kasalanan din ako..pag daw kase naging kame hindi nya daw mapropromise na hindi na sya gigimik at busy sya konting time lang daw malalaan nya sakin..parang ang dating sakin mas sila pa pinili nya..diko alam panung explain yung sasabihin ko dito..la lang ako mapagsabihan kaya i decided na dito ko magopen ng topic..and sabi nya try daw uli namin na maging kame..parang ang weird bat try diba?diko magets..o diko lang maintindihan talaga..magulo lang isip ko..salamat sa mga bumasa.. sana ganun lang kadali mawala tong nararamdaman ko parang ang bitter bitter ko ng sobra..

[boynextnextdoor]

Hi Mist!

I'm sorry to hear about your situation...
pero mali po talaga ang sex after the break up.
I hope your not confused kung Lust nalang ba or love pa ang nararamdaman niya sayo.
Im tryin to understand why he chose to give up instead. sinasakal mo ba siya?

and ano ba yung naging kasalanan mo sa kanya?

[mist]

boynextnextdoor thanks for your reply.. yah!i guest mali talaga yung ginawa ko yun kase im hoping na kme uli..i dunno!i decided to break with him kase madalang din kame magkita saka nakapag sinungaling sya sakin.. ako yung nakipag break pero until now mas minahal ko pa ata sya..kase siya panay with his friends kaya siguro nakalimutan nya na na ko!

[hellyeah]

hi. i can relate sayo sobra. im with the same situation din kasi (almost). kakabreak lang namin ng 1st bf ko and we still see each other regularly and may nangyayari pa rin samin regularly although kahit lage niya ako sinasabihan na ayaw na niya. the difference is yung ex mo, he's willing to try pa din to make it work. yung sakin wala na talaga at i felt used everytime at nagpapaka martyr pa din ako saying it's okay basta i get to be near him.

ang advice ko lang sayo, give it a try.  if you really love him, make your relationship work. siguro hindi na siya magiging tulad ng dating relationship niyo, pero kung kayo pa din albeit mababawasan yung time niyo magkasama it can be a chance na magmature at mag grow kayo as a person while in your relationship. as long as may trust ka na kahit gumimik siya at wala siyang gagawing masama like mambabae, then it's all good. being in a relationship doesnt mean na kelangan lage kayo magkasama or alam mo lahat ng ginagawa niya. it's knowing that you're there for him and vice versa. wag niyong isara yung possibilities na having separate lives outside your relationship can be good. so what kung once a week lang kayo magkita or less? it just means na you have so many things to talk about since many thing have happened since you last saw each other. if you really trust him na wala siyang gagawing masama kahit gumimik siya and you really love him then give it a try! plus, you will also have more time for your friends and for yourself while alam mo na he's there for you

[meisaia]

wow. what a story.

well, kung walang magbabago sa kanya *and that's what he said*, DON'T GO BACK. no matter how much you love the guy. no matter how much he means to you. DON'T EVER GO BACK.

uulitin mo lang lahat nung away, iyak at sakit na naramdaman mo nung una. okay lang magbigay ng second chances pero for a guy who's not willing to change?? NO WAY. parang nirewind mo lang lahat ng nangyari nuon. and sa huli, mas masasaktan ka lang.

sorry if im bein frank pero i don't really see the point. itry na maging kayo ulit pero dapat tanggapin mo na ganun pa rin ang sitwasyon niyo? that's plain stupid. two-way traffic ang love. hindi pwedeng ikaw lang magbabago para sa kanya. dapat siya rin.

hope you understand my point. this guy doesn't deserve a girl like you if he's always going to treat you like dirt.

[calin22]

^+1 to meisaia.. may narealize ako sa advice mo