Husband cant help looking at beautiful grls even searching on the net

[amy_blu77]

mahilig ding tumingin sa magagandang babae husband ko lalo na kung asian. minsan nga pag umuuwi kami sa pinas, sobrang enjoy ang mokong sa kakatingin at halos mabali ang leeg, hahaha! Sa akin, walang problema 'yun, wala naman akong nakikitang masama doon, kahit naman ako pag may nakitang pogi eh titignan ko din, ang masama lang eh iyong he'll do more than looking and checking those girls. One time, nasa airport kami nakapila sa immigration, may isang pretty girl na rakista ata 'yun, talagang tinitigan ni husband kasi nagandahan daw siya, at nung na-noticed nung girl that my husband was checking her out, aba she started flirting na kahit alam niyang katabi ako ni husband. natawa talaga ako dun!

[glamorosa_09]

For me ok lang, basta discretely in public. Kasi ako I appreciate beauty kaya tumitingin din ako sa mga pretty girls. I admire them yes, pero not sexually attracted to them, kaya I perceive na ga nun din yung ibang decent men.

Sa internet naman, pag may napanood kaming korean movie/nobela kung saan maganda ang bida, we both search sa net ng pictures.

Baka sis, your husband doesn't make you feel secured, like he's thoughtful of you, affirms you etc.

[Mai]

For me okay lang tignan nya ang pretty face, pero i'd really be insulted if i see him looking at the body, like boobs,legs,etc kase pag ganun me lust and pagnanasa ng halo at baka yun pa nasa isip nya while nag Do kami. But then again, hindi lang naman hubby ang at fault sa ganun, also girls who wear those skimpy clothing in public who scream for attention.

[FrogPrincess]

Sa akin ok lang din. Minsan pa nga nahuhuli ko sya looking at pretty & sexy girls using my fb account on my phone(kunwari naglalaro yun pala mata nung mokong ang naglalaro) pero it's fine with me. Pag nasa labas naman napapatingin din sya pero in a subtle way naman, pag medyo OA dun lang ako nakikialam(carried away paminsan eh). Actually minsan, nag-uunahan pa kami makahanap ng maganda pag nasa labas. I appreciate pretty & sexy girls din kasi and everytime I see one sinasabi ko sa kanya and see if he thinks the same way, parang katuwaan na rin minsan.

I don't think it's disturbing as long as wala namang titig/tulo laway reaction sa face ni hubby.Sis @glamorosa_09 is right, if he makes you feel secure and makes you feel that YOU are his wife,I guess it's perfectly fine.

[rheaj]

Hhmm.. What if he starts chatting with female friends in FB and eventually going out with one?

[sum.mer]

I'm not married yet but I just want to comment that many many years back I think this is not 'normal' meaning it's not common. Times change and with it, norms change. Sa ngayon parang common at normal na nga sa guys, and even sa girls, na tumingin sa iba kahit may partner na, even yung pags-search nga sa net ng sexy girls/guys normal lang yun sa iba. Kahit panonood ng porn, tanggap na din ng marami as 'part of life'.

Noon, hindi naman ganito ang case. Which makes me wish I lived many many years back if only for this. Haha Pero may iilan pa din na lumaki sa pamilya na old ways ang teaching so may iilan pa din na hindi ganito ang ugali. Pero kung girl/guy ka at ayaw mo na tumitingin sa iba partner mo, naniniwala naman ako na attitudes can change. 

[Prunella]

Never really bothered me. My husband knows how to appreciate attractive women, so do  I (and no, it's not what you think. I'm heterosexual). Whenever I see one pass by us, itinuturo ko pa sa kanya.

Men are visual creatures. They're hardwired to do double takes or steal second glances at beautiful women. Okay lang naman. I know naman na I'm still the prettiest thing in his eyes.

[ayka]

i wouldn't be affected kung sa internet pics lang siya nagtitingin. either celebs, models or whoever he fancies. internet lang yun (wag lang chat ha!). they won't end up together. ako pa din ang asawa. i'll be more affected if he's intentionally looking, glancing or staring at other women...in the flesh (sa malls, sa church, sa kalsada, name it!). dahil mas abot-kamay nya yun eh. more chances of flirting and playing with fire. and it means he can't contain himself enough to show respect to the woman who he is with (that's me).

[Leven]

Never really bothered me. My husband knows how to appreciate attractive women, so do  I (and no, it's not what you think. I'm heterosexual). Whenever I see one pass by us, itinuturo ko pa sa kanya.

same here sis...buti nalang hindi ganun ka hyper pagkaselosa ka...mas mabuti nga yung nakaka appreciate sila ng magaganda kaysa naman gwapo pala tinitingnan..hehe

[KrisKulit]

nung bf ko palang hubby ko ganyan din siya, tapos may time na iniwan nya ako sa magisa sa harap ng computer nya eh may hinahanap ako file pagkita ko sa isang floder may sub folder tapos may sub sub sub folders pa at ang nakita kong laman ng folder nya? pictures ng friend ko tapos sa ibang folder may ibang pictures din ng mga babae pati sa cellphone nya may mga ganung pictures.. tapos may time na yung history ng browser nya chineck ko din nako ang mga sinesearch, puro babae sa social networking sites at inaadd pa nya..  at simula noon di na siya nagssave ng pictures ng babae sa computer kahit sa cellphone nya.. yung sa browser thing, naka setting na clear history everytime na i-cclose nya..

Ngayon tingin na lang sa mga babae.. pero pati ako minsan nahahawa na sa kanya at napapatingin na din.. 

[hedonista]

^ganun talaga sila sis.. visually stimulated. 

pasalamat pa rin ako at walang collection ng FHM ang hubby ko. hindi naman ako against dun pero wala lang, hindi ko lang feel ng meron kami nun sa kwarto. haha!

Apir sis. ayoko rin ng magazines na ganyan. Pero mas ayoko naman pag may nakita sya na girls na visually stimulating eh bigla nya pinpoint kung ano pangit sa akin. minsan ginawa nya yun - physical. like pangit na hair ko, laki na chan ko sarcastically, sige kumain ka pa ng kanin. ayun sablay yun. kinausap ko sya about it. hinahayaan na nga tumingin sa iba, wag naman sana ako laitin di ba

[heaven_charm]

It is okay for me if this girl is an actress or a model. Pero if random girl lang or worst FB friend pa, ibang usapan na yun. Ganyan din si bf dati, napapatingin and loves adding sexy girls sa FB nya. Pero when it became an issue to me, he gave me his FB account to have the liberty of deleting those girls and pages I don't like. Chubby din ako kaya I'm insecured with those sexy girls 

[mamichula]

Im okay with it. SOmetimes pa nga Id be the one to point out pretty girls sa labas Id go "Ang ganda naman nun!" or something   Wag lang pag bata minsan kasi napapatingin sya sa mestiza mga college girls sabi ko wag yan mapagkamalan kameng pedo hehe