Will you keep loving someone who will never be yours?

[young_maiden]

no. kung ayaw niya, iiwas ako agad.

[VainDoll]

Ang panget nung feeling na may in love sa boyfriend. To the point na desperada na si girl...

[zelda]

No. Maybe I'll just "love" that person in a "different" way na lang. 

[japferp]

Dear Crush,

Christmas is coming, please magpakita ka! haha btw how are you I missed you
sana hindi kita na friendzoned, I was scared kase I really really like you pa naman
haha

[young_maiden]

napaka-useless ang unrequited love. para sa akin, kung ayaw sayo ng lalaki, ayaw talaga niya. there is nothing that would make him change his mind. kahit magpaganda ka pa o humubad sa harap niya, wala ka pa rin mapapala. mas mabuti maghanap na lang tayo ng iba kaysa pagtyagaan natin ang isang guy na di makita worth natin.

[maplesyrup]

It's easier to say NO if I didn't know what its like, but just like the others I'd have to agree, super hirap when you're in the situation. I' must say medyo lucky na ako I'm at the point na where I'm learning to start to let go and detach myself, in all fairness ang dami ko ng iniyak for him so I guess okay na this way na lalayo na lang ako. So to all those in the same situation sana things will get better for you too! goodluck!

[sweet.hann]

Hmm.. Hindi na siguro kung alam mo nang hindi sya magiging sayo. Why waste time, energy and effort for that person kung hindi nya naman kaya kahit suklian man lang kahit papano yung pagmamahal na itinutuon mo sa kanya diba? Lalo na kung committed na sya for another person/s (if may family na sya). Why not try to focus your affection to other people: to your parents, brothers and sisters, friends, to children na mas nangangailangan ng attention na alam mong kaya kang mahalin in return and you wouldn't know na mamahalin ka din nila more than you know. Especially, the children. Kasi ang mga bata, hindi mahirap mahalin. Sa umpisa, magiging matigas sila pero pag nakita nila, naramdaman nila na totoo yung love na binibigay mo. Kapatid o anak o kahit hindi mo kaanu-ano, even you dont expect it, mamahalin ka nila ng sobra-sobra. <3

[buchakikay]

For me, NO. Dapat mas mahalin at isipin pa rin natin ang sarili natin. Kung ayaw sayo, let him go. Marami dyan na mas deserving at mas deserve mo. 

[melle17]

Big NO! why would I do that? pahihirapan ko lang sarili ko sa ganyan, pag ayaw saken ayaw ko din sa kanya! sometimes legally speaking sa iyo na nga pero naagaw pa, much more yung someone who will never be yours! masakit sa bangs ang ganyang situation, haha!

[young_maiden]

actually, itong klaseng love nga ang pinakahate ko eh. unrequited love. mas gugustuhin ko pang magmahal at mahalin ng isang lalaki tapos iiwan din ako sa huli. at least binigyan niya pa ako ng chance patunayan worth ko sa kanya. kaysa naman sa unrequited love na never talaga naging kayo.

[stronger]

No i wont, but sadly i'm already into that "yes i am" thingy.

loving the person who will never be yours is like dying everyday. to think that if i choose to leave him, there's our little angel who will get affected as will. yes, i had a relationship to a married guy. a guy who will just tells me he loves me and our daughter, support us in everything, who will be there for us given he has a "spare time" from his work and family. it's been almost 2 years and honestly, having this kind of relationship everyday is like killing my self over and over each day.

but i know one day, i mean soon, things will be over and that i have the strength to walk away from him and have a life with my daughter.

[17glut]

No. Sarili mo lang talaga niloloko mo if you will continue to do this. It is no different than living a lie.

I'd rather remain single till my dying days than put myself in an endless limbo of misery.

[laidbacklei]

My head says no, but my heart says otherwise. I kept my distance, even said goodbye. But how can I teach my heart from forgetting and unloving the person if we both work at the same company and members of the same team. I'm contemplating on giving up my job to allow myself to forget and move on. Everyday that I go to work, I need to wear a mask and pretend that I no longer care. That the feelings I once had is already gone and I am reverted into a loyal friend again. Everyday is a dilemma, a torture to my sanity. I want to leave, but a part of me wants to stay and endure the pain of loving someone who will never be mine

[maplesyrup]

^ i feel for you sis, so familiar with that feeling. If you could just un-love a person in a snap, if that's even possible. i would have so long ago

[cosmo.io]

I'm gonna keep on loving even though it will never be mine, after all naging part narin siya ng life ko . 

[Angelite]

I know that it is easier said than done pero we need to love ourselves more. Think of the future. Paano na kung di ka maka move on? Tatanda na mag isa at umaasa? No way!

[ajang]

i will and will always be in my heart, he will be there forever kahit sabihin nilang walang forever. naging part sya ng buhay ko at naging parte sya ng pagiging ako. may mga bagay akong natutunan na di ko matututunan sa iba. the important thing lang is tanggap ko na never syang magiging akin.

[honey.mae]

difficult to answer

i think part of me will still love that person but to different extent, di na kasing tindi before but for sure meron pa rin kahit konti

[chinablue]

I can relate with the question. I fell in love with someone "out of my league" too. After two years, I realized as much as I love him, I gotta love myself more. Kaya for me, the answer is no. I will not keep loving him. May quota at limit din naman ako. If you will keep on loving someone who will never be yours, how would you find somebody na pwede pala maging sa iyo ng buong buo? Unfair on your part because you deserve to be happy too. Why focus on the unattainable kung may tao namang handang magmahal sa iyo, ayaw mo lang bigyan ng chance kasi dun ka pa din nakatingin sa isa na hindi naman pwede? Hindi naman ganun kadali makalimot lalo na kung minahal mo talaga yung tao, pero yung ipagpatuloy pa rin siyang mahalin kahit wala naman patutunguhan, pagiging masokista na yun. To be truly happy in life, we must let go of the things and the people that hurt us. Kahit mahirap.  Sa una lang naman mahirap. Nung una, sobrang bitter ko. Bukambibig ko na nga ang walang forever eh. Pero naisip ko, wala talagang forever kung lingon pa din ako ng lingon sa nakaraan. For now, freeze hiring pa ang puso ko, hehe. I want to heal myself completely para pag dumating si The One, the one who will be completely mine and mine alone, I can honestly say na maski may minahal akong tao in the past, what's important is the present, and in the present, it is him that I love.

[akosimaiatot]

hell no! when you learn how much you're worth you'll stop giving people discounts why waste your time?