Will you keep loving someone who will never be yours?

[DaintyMe]

NO. Ayokong sayangin ang oras ko sa mga bagay na wala naman akong mapapala. Sabi nga nila, "life is too short".

[cinnamongirl]

I am so inlove yesterday, today and tomorrow to him, and for maybe the next year he will no longer be mine... Yes I will always love him no matter what, though maybe in the long run or so it'll will reduce to something more of a memory of a first love, but it can never be forgotten...

[buchakikay]

Ive been in this situation and until now, i still llove that person. Alam mo yung feeling na kahit you're in a new relationship na, eh parang part na sya and he'll always be there sa puso mo. Though I tried to forget him but I still can't, and i just accepted the fact na he's really a part of me na... But I hope that someday I can say na nakamove na talaga ako and he's not a part of me anymore 

[ravena]

NO. Decide and choose between happiness or sadness.

[iamgold]

i think that's what you call one great love..loving someone that can never be yours or loving someone which is not destined to be yours. its different from your one true love, .may realization ang true love.
Yes i will still love my one great love.

[kysmet]

No, life is too short. There is always going to be someone else. Besides, unrequited love can only last for so long. After that, pagod na. So quits na. Move on to the next one.

[kikaynezz]

i've been in this situation 2. ang hirap, pero i love him hindi kami pwede pero nag-eenjoy naman ako. gulo

[kawen]

maybe at some point... until he gets married - that's the time I'll stop and wish his happiness even if it's not with me.. BUT for now I am just enjoying every moment I have with him.. hehe..

[babae_po_ako]

kung ako go lang ng go..
enjoy every moment of it...
later on mare-realized/matatauhan ka din..
yun nga lang medyo masakit yun..
pero ok lang naman at least you have experienced and you will learn from it ..

[Jingaling]

I think YES.

Love struck when you least expect it. Mahirap pigilan. Enjoy the moment na lang. Do not regret the things that made you smile. Its not a waste of time. Being happy for some time is not a waste of time.

Tama naman, its a great love. Loving someone without expecting anything in return is a great love. Selfless love. Hindi mo kailangan kalimutan yung taong minahal mo. He will always have a part in your heart but always remember, the world doesn't stop for your grief. Tuloy lang buhay. Masakit, masaya, importante, nagmahal ka ng tunay at naging masaya ka.

[litr15]

kung alam kong hindi siya magiging akin, hindi na. Sayang lang ang oras. There would always be someone better for me.

[LoSiNGGRiP]

why not if he reciprocates? yes,i will.. life? dont just live it, enjoy it!

[kisses bratt]

for me is a big NO!
if you know sa umpisa pa lang na ang sitwasyon nyo ay ganun, control yourself and stop on that crazy thing kasi at the end ikaw din lang ang talo at ikaw din ang kawawa.
I have a friend na ganyan ang sitwasyon nya, since magkaibigan kami hidi ko tinolerate yung gusto nyang mangyari hindi dahil sa ayaw ko syang maging maligaya pero lam kong walang patutunguhan ang relasyon nila. Kung kaibigan kang tunay, maging mata ka in realizing sa friend mo [textspeak!] pinapasok nyang gulo. Mahal mo sya at concern ka sa kanya kaya gianwa mo yun.

@Jingaling grabe ang sacrifice mo sis.
Pero hindi mo din ba naisip na baka may gustong magalaga sayo na matatawag mong iyo talaga.
But i support you for being open minded not thinking of others but your happiness with the one you love.

@babae_po_ako kaya lang sis sayang [textspeak!] time. Hindi mo ba naisip na sana sa iba na lang baka sakaling gang ngayon sya na talaga.
Kaya lang talagang ITS THE HEART that matters naman.

@kawen talagang may mga guys na high ang admiration sa sarili kasi mag mag babae na todo pa din ang pagmamahal kahit na lam natin na panandalian lang ito.

@kikaynezz sis ang importante naman dyan ay [textspeak!] natutunan mong aral sa buhay na dulot ng karanasan na yan.

[eds123]

No.... minsan mahirap mag-let go kaso if unrequited love yun, ikaw ang talo. mahirap mag-invest ng feelings sa taong di ka naman mamahalin or hindi magiging sayo. move on na lang. easier said than done, but in time, makakaya rin. isipin mo na lang na para sayo rin yung pag give up mo in the long run. di mo makikita yun window na wide open kung dun ka lang nakatitig sa door na matagal na nakasara...naka-lock pa!

[phoebe1811]

i did and it is really hard to let go and move on..pag magkalayo kayo you'll decide to let go pero pag magkasama na kayo hindi mo magawa.gusto mo laging icherish yung moments but keep in mind na he'll never be yours. so sayang lang ang attention kahit na sobrang saya pag magkasama kayo. 

[pretty_oldsoul]

I think YES.

Love struck when you least expect it. Mahirap pigilan. Enjoy the moment na lang. Do not regret the things that made you smile. Its not a waste of time. Being happy for some time is not a waste of time.

Tama naman, its a great love. Loving someone without expecting anything in return is a great love. Selfless love. Hindi mo kailangan kalimutan yung taong minahal mo. He will always have a part in your heart but always remember, the world doesn't stop for your grief. Tuloy lang buhay. Masakit, masaya, importante, nagmahal ka ng tunay at naging masaya ka.

I agree... 

[babyhoney]

been in a relationship na ganito...soooo hard kahit hiwalay na kami at happy na ko sa fiancee ko, may times na bigla ko na lang siya naalala at i have to admit na until now (almost a year over na) mahal na mahal ko pa din siya...kung pwede lang burahin ang memory na once he's part of my life ginawa ko na para di masakit...ayoko na sya maalal pero may mga bagay na nagpapaala pa din, how i wish one day maovercome ko din to and move on at sabihin sa sarili ko na " past is past and im not affected anymore "

[spitfire]

I'd rather not, sakit lang ang aabutin at hirap..
life is too short to live in torture and pain..

But as usual.. easier said than done.

[jasive51]

I'd rather not, sakit lang ang aabutin at hirap..
life is too short to live in torture and pain..

But as usual.. easier said than done.

^i agree with you sis spitfire

[Periwinkle25]

so true, easier said than done..I felt like this in one of my past relationship..he wooed me and I fell in love, only to learn 2 months later that he was still into his ex..I wanted out but I was trapped already..I learned that he was falling apart because of his ex(they have a daughter.) What I did was to savor the love and the pain at the same time until I didn't know which was stronger..Am just glad there wasn't physical contact between us. He wanted but I didn't give in cause I wasn't sure he loved me enough to deserve it..I just showed my support, gave him my time, boosted his confidence, and I even tried to persuade his ex to come back to him(yup, natatawa na lang ako sa kagagahan ko minsan.) And they did get back together for 2 months ata so I kept my distance.Til the time came that the pain won me over to the point that it became numbing, I stood up for the remaining self respect that I had, picked up the pieces and started a new life without him..He tried to win me back cause accdg to him, he realized that it was me he loves..But maybe, I've given my best, I was not supposed to be just an option. Now, Im very much happy and so much in love with my hubby who loves me as much=)